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leadership527 -> RE: More of a friend than a Mistress (5/19/2009 12:10:08 PM)
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ORIGINAL: slavejanetaylor
i am slave jane. i am shortly to move in with my new owners (a couple) to take up my position as their slave. i am very excited and honoured about it all!. i have been staying with them for various weekends the past few months and i have noticed that, when Sir is not around, Miss becomes much more of a friend than an owner. i think that being a domme might be an effort for her and i think she maybe after a friend more than she is a slave. she is a wonderful person but i was really seeking to be owned by them both. can anyone suggest what i should do?! thank you! jane
Gosh, I kind of feel like there's been lots of really really good stuff written on this thread and from a lot of different angles.
So here, I'll toss in my own offering. Are you sure that the issue here isn't just one of communication? That is to say, perhaps she is, in her mind, being your domme but the particular way she is doing it is flying under your radar. I just speculated this about myself on a different thread. I have a pretty laid-back sort of style. I don't command, I ask -- almost always in the form of, "Hey honey, could you go [insert task here]?" Not very... well... master-ey. Happily, Carol doesn't particularly need overt dominance so it works out fine. But if she did, then there'd need to be some adjustment of style on both our parts to make it work.
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ORIGINAL: DarkStephen
Stupid, basic question - if the Mistress feels she's better served by a friend, what's wrong with serving her by being one?
OMG! What a gem! Although to be fair, there is still the issue of whether the slave's button's are getting pressed properly.
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