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RE: Session Advice - 5/26/2009 6:46:23 AM

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I am interested to hear from other Mistresses regarding their sessions. Are orgasms for your submissives a given? I am having a discussion with someone who feels sure that an orgasm should be part of a session.. what do others think?

I guess you are neither a strict woman, nor very dominant if the sub is telling you what will have to be a part of the session... Than there is the crossing the line part of orgasm in a session potential. M

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RE: Session Advice - 5/26/2009 10:33:04 AM

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I have also demanded a sub orgasm, prior to caning, that really tested his boundaries.

So orgasms can be cruel, intense and not only about a male's sexual release.

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RE: Session Advice - 5/27/2009 6:26:04 AM

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As a sub male i always think of having orgasm during session but those thoughts get quickly removed while in session. i don't expect to orgasm and if it does happen i consider it an added bonus and something that my Mistress wanted. In one of my earlier sessions i did orgasm without permission and i caught hell for it, She was bringing me to the edge repeatedly and i just couldn't hold it back.
But that was the last time i allowed that to happen, She now has full control.

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RE: Session Advice - 5/27/2009 10:32:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: Vulcanrider

As a sub male i always think of having orgasm during session but those thoughts get quickly removed while in session. i don't expect to orgasm and if it does happen i consider it an added bonus and something that my Mistress wanted. In one of my earlier sessions i did orgasm without permission and i caught hell for it, She was bringing me to the edge repeatedly and i just couldn't hold it back.
But that was the last time i allowed that to happen, She now has full control.

How exactly do you prevent yourself from having an orgasm without permission of your Mistress goes too far. i, try as i might, can't hold it back... once its time its time.

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RE: Session Advice - 6/10/2009 5:17:27 PM

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The Dominant is in control whether she is professional or amateur. So what the Dominant want goes in both cases.

I agree with this. Even in the pro level, I still think the Mistress should have control of that. If she just does what the client wants, then is she even dominant? I like Mistresses who do take in your interests and use some but then do other things and truly act completely dominant the whole time.

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RE: Session Advice - 6/10/2009 6:09:42 PM

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Orgasms in scenes are for those I have a sexually intimate relationship with.

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RE: Session Advice - 6/10/2009 6:36:58 PM

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I do exactly the opposite sometimes... LOL

I will wait until the slave is into his "sexual rhythm" so to speak, and then calmly tell him that he has 30 seconds to orgasm... If I'm feeling very sadistic, I will even look at My watch and start counting backwards... It either makes the poor sap explode IMMEDIATELY, or it makes him work furiously between seeking his orgasm or trying to satisfy me... a sure path to outright panic.

If he does not make the "deadline, I will stop everything and playfully chastise him until "I" want to resume the sexual contact. Even if I do not repeat the command, he is often distracted by the possibility that I will do it again and the "to cum or not to cum" dilemma is just delicious!

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