dominmd -> RE: Proper address for a switch (6/16/2009 5:32:50 PM)
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Hmmmm. It's been a while since I last posted, years in fact. But here is how my fiance and I run. We both switch. Not very often, but it does happen. It is rarely during a scene, and our roles are pretty defined before play starts. If I am the dominant, I expect nothing less than sir from her. When she gets into her headspace, all that goes out the window because I know where she is in her headspace. If she is the dominant, it is usually ma'am or mistress. Again, she knows when I stop talking where I am at in my headspace. To everyone else we go by our real names, no screen names, no titles. Except to be playful she calls me Master Baiter, and I will call her Mistress Nympho. A title is a word. Unless someone proves their worth to you, you have no real obligation to use their title. Even as a dominant, I will defer to people that have more experience when they have my respect. I will introduce myself by my real name, then tell people to just call me Master Baiter. Why? Cuz I don't take myself that seriously. Life is too short, go have fun.
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