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Huntertn -> RE: Why is Master getting soft? (6/7/2009 8:15:32 PM)

I still cry at "Old Yeller" movies,when family or friends die,or when I'm really really pissed off...but crying..when I do it..I know the reason why..He should too..shugs.  So for being whinny around others..No..can't stand it in myself, much less others male or female  Huntertn




Norwester37 -> RE: Why is Master getting soft? (6/10/2009 2:42:19 PM)

Skipping everything else 2 reasons
1. you have reached the level of his knowledge and perhaps surpassed him. Now you intimidate him.
2.He is in love with you instead of owning you.  Many can do both but he does not seem to be able




Level -> RE: Why is Master getting soft? (6/10/2009 6:54:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Oh just tell him to stop being such a pussy. That should fix it. [:)]


Ah yes, the sensitive approach...[8D]




Aileen1968 -> RE: Why is Master getting soft? (6/10/2009 6:56:48 PM)

Where the hell have you been????
Using a little hurricane as an excuse or something...




Level -> RE: Why is Master getting soft? (6/10/2009 7:10:35 PM)

I know, I know, must be my own version of "getting soft" [8|]
 
However, I'm glad to report that I'm getting harder all the time [:-]




breatheasone -> RE: Why is Master getting soft? (6/10/2009 11:27:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Level

I know, I know, must be my own version of "getting soft" [8|]
 
However, I'm glad to report that I'm getting harder all the time [:-]

Welcome back... Having been through a few hurricanes i understand and am sorry for the crap you've been through.




Level -> RE: Why is Master getting soft? (6/11/2009 3:18:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

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ORIGINAL: Level

I know, I know, must be my own version of "getting soft" [8|]
 
However, I'm glad to report that I'm getting harder all the time [:-]

Welcome back... Having been through a few hurricanes i understand and am sorry for the crap you've been through.


Thank you, good lady :) It hasn't been pleasant, but life goes on, and in some ways is even better.




CelticPrince -> RE: Why is Master getting soft? (6/11/2009 12:10:00 PM)


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ORIGINAL: theheartofglass

He has become very emotional, needy, and insecure around me.  Even his voice gets a higher pitch when we are talking. I have seen him to the point of teary-eyed at just regular conversations. We do not live together and have been in our M/s relationship for just over a year. When we are out in public his personality changes to the other extreme to domineering and is obviously very offensive by the way people react to him.  This personality change was sudden, but seemed to occur right around the time our relationship got serious and he first told me he loved me.  There is nothing in his life that I am aware of that could be causing extreme stress.  Could it be because he fell in love with me that is causing the problem?  I just am not feeling the dom in him anymore and it is hard to submit when I do not feel that control.


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He has become very emotional, needy, and insecure around me. Even his voice gets a higher pitch when we are talking. I have seen him to the point of teary-eyed at just regular conversations. We do not live together and have been in our M/s relationship for just over a year. When we are out in public his personality changes to the other extreme to domineering and is obviously very offensive by the way people react to him. This personality change was sudden, but seemed to occur right around the time our relationship got serious and he first told me he loved me. There is nothing in his life that I am aware of that could be causing extreme stress. Could it be because he fell in love with me that is causing the problem? I just am not feeling the dom in him anymore and it is hard to submit when I do not feel that control.


heart,

The change is not all that unusual as people change from the objective to the subjective, and in this case his renewed interest in "love" Dom's often change their demeanor when that occurs.

CP




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