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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

more and more I realize I want to be in charge during play but I want to be in the role of the bottom, receiving the sensations and everything, but directing how I will receive them.

I should probably identify as a Dominant then, but I don't want people writing to me asking me to Dominate them and control them an stuff.

Could choose the nick name Sensationally Dominant, thnk that'd work[:D]

Edited because it was supposed to be situational but sensational works, or could always choose, Tell you how to dominate me or Dominant demands sensations:))

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ORIGINAL: SavageFaerie

I have to admit Im pretty sassy during play,  I dont mind what they are doing, but I tend to dance or twist if it becomes a bit intense.
I call it my dancing, Moga know just what Im talking about.  I guess its my way of yellowing out a bit, I have yet to call my safeword.  What wonderful despite that I can handlle.

In some way I pre top from the bottom, mentioning things I would love to have them do.

MoGa call me a SAM......I translate that into Sassy Ass Maso LOL

Im actually working on finding the submissive side of me, I would do any thing to make My two wondeful Adorable one both happy, since this is now a permenant relationship.

Im such a lucky girl.

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ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN

SOUNDS like in play then you are a confident BOTTOM??
..and
thus you wish to NEGOTIATE/TELL what you want for your desires and pleasure..
It sounds like you are in the process of gaining confidence and assuredness in your explorations good for you[:D]

It is a great journey..

and perhaps you are venturing into a DOMME side and will go there as well..
LIFE is a continum of experience(sp) and delicious fun and although labels are handy the important thing here is YOU KNOW what YOU like and HOW to get it
 
I find that as a D I encounter many ideas- notions from s's and D's of what a D is
I have heard
"Well that is not your place.".to a specific sexual position..[:-]
and also
"What do you mean  "You suck?  "IS that D..?"[:-][:'(]
and all sorts of ridiculous notions...

.........when the whole foundation is interrelatedness and meeting Style and desires..being compatible..but polarizing our roles to a greater extent than in reg society..while
working and playing as a cohesive unit
etc..

GQ


Names
*Knows what she wants
* Sensation Exploration
*Polar Bare
*Inter DEE pendence
*Centrifugal Force
*Endorphine Chick
*LOves to Collaberate
*Power Sharon

GQ

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ORIGINAL: MoGa

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don't see it as topping from the bottom either, provided you do it respectfully and at the right time, but a lot of doms think that it is,

If that is the case, why the need to change your name to something that you don't believe is the case? It doesn't matter to me one hoot what other Dominants/Domina's think about what
topping from the bottom means. I know MY definition of it, and I am quite comfortable with it.

I know many subs who have a dominant personality, it doesn't mean that they Dominants in the BDSM sense of the word. I don't have a submissive side, however, I do know when to shut
my mouth and say nothing, when the time calls for it. Does that make me submissive? No, it makes me a smart survivor.



Asher, I am beginning to think that I shouldn't have "upgraded" my IE! [:(]

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Satyre my Dear MOGA

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ORIGINAL: MoGa

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Satyre my Dear MOGA

Not to be a bitch, but please dont refer to me as "My Dear MoGa". I am neither your Dear, nor your MoGa. It isn't just you, I can't stand to be called "Hon" either. Especially by people who don't know me.

Thanks.

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ORIGINAL: subangi

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ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly

Haven't you had like...2 profiles already, so this'd be your third..[&:]
why don't people just have neutral names that don't have to change when one makes discovery about oneself[8|]

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ORIGINAL: SavageFaerie

topping, I do know when to not go too far, they know of my switch nature and that the lower side was maso and not submissive. I am learning to be more submissive, but it still come through at time, but its not an issue