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Should of made my nick name I will top you from the bo... - 6/7/2009 12:40:21 AM

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more and more I realize I want to be in charge during play but I want to be in the role of the bottom, receiving the sensations and everything, but directing how I will receive them.

I should probably identify as a Dominant then, but I don't want people writing to me asking me to Dominate them and control them an stuff.

Could choose the nick name Sensationally Dominant, thnk that'd work

Edited because it was supposed to be situational but sensational works, or could always choose, Tell you how to dominate me or Dominant demands sensations:))

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 12:42:35 AM

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Would it fit in the name box, though?

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 12:43:37 AM

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No dream it probably wouldn't :(

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 12:48:20 AM

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Or what about the name Idirect how we play

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 12:49:53 AM

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Hmm, you could always shorten it... "sens8ionaldom(me)"... or something like that. Don't know how you feel about numbers being in your screen name, though.

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 1:02:44 AM

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WEll here I am. I couldn't make it topping from the bottom, or I will top from the bottom, Or my agenda is to top from the bottom, but it's still pretty funny.

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 1:04:41 AM

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What about the all time favorite poeple bitch about, the do me sub?

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 1:06:19 AM

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Or if it was long enough to fit, I am a bonafied do me sub

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 1:11:00 AM

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Ah, lol.

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 1:16:03 AM

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i am so amused I am laughing an gigling in real life in my room while daddy sleeps.

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 4:59:45 AM

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Just thought I'd let you know that you're searching for is called a service top. One who Tops you but is not in charge.

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 5:15:13 AM

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I would also like to ad, that it takes much more to being a dominant, then just directing in the bedroom. Hell if that were the case, then those of us who identify as Dominants, would just call ourselves Tops. I also don't see anything wrong with a submissive telling their Dominant what they like and don't like, providing it was talk about prior to the scene. I don't see it as topping from the bottom at all. I see it as someone who knows what sensations they are looking for and letting their feelings known.

Topping from the bottom has little to do with playtime, to me. It has everything with a submissive trying to manipulate the dynamic into something that was not agreed upon, during negotiations.

YMMV

Sheesh, just found another thing missing from this new format..The spellchecker! Grrr..

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 6:12:01 AM

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I have to admit Im pretty sassy during play, I dont mind what they are doing, but I tend to dance or twist if it becomes a bit intense.
I call it my dancing, Moga know just what Im talking about. I guess its my way of yellowing out a bit, I have yet to call my safeword. What wonderful despite that I can handlle.

In some way I pre top from the bottom, mentioning things I would love to have them do.

MoGa call me a SAM......I translate that into Sassy Ass Maso LOL

Im actually working on finding the submissive side of me, I would do any thing to make My two wondeful Adorable one both happy, since this is now a permenant relationship.

Im such a lucky girl.

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 6:44:37 AM

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SOUNDS like in play then you are a confident BOTTOM??
..and
thus you wish to NEGOTIATE/TELL what you want for your desires and pleasure..
It sounds like you are in the process of gaining confidence and assuredness in your explorations good for you

It is a great journey..

and perhaps you are venturing into a DOMME side and will go there as well..
LIFE is a continum of experience(sp) and delicious fun and although labels are handy the important thing here is YOU KNOW what YOU like and HOW to get it

I find that as a D I encounter many ideas- notions from s's and D's of what a D is
I have heard
"Well that is not your place.".to a specific sexual position..

and also
"What do you mean "You suck? "IS that D..?"

and all sorts of ridiculous notions...

.........when the whole foundation is interrelatedness and meeting Style and desires..being compatible..but polarizing our roles to a greater extent than in reg society..while
working and playing as a cohesive unit
etc..

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 6:45:52 AM

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Thank you:)

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Just thought I'd let you know that you're searching for is called a service top. One who Tops you but is not in charge.

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 6:51:09 AM

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I don't see it as topping from the bottom either, provided you do it respectfully and at the right time, but a lot of doms think that it is, And DAddy himself has told me once requesting something I wanted was topping from the bottom, to which Itold him nuh uh it's not. I also understand there's more to being a Dominant than directing bedroom activities, which is why I don't call myself a Dominant, just that I have a Dominant personality.

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ORIGINAL: MoGa

I would also like to ad, that it takes much more to being a dominant, then just directing in the bedroom. Hell if that were the case, then those of us who identify as Dominants, would just call ourselves Tops. I also don't see anything wrong with a submissive telling their Dominant what they like and don't like, providing it was talk about prior to the scene. I don't see it as topping from the bottom at all. I see it as someone who knows what sensations they are looking for and letting their feelings known.

Topping from the bottom has little to do with playtime, to me. It has everything with a submissive trying to manipulate the dynamic into something that was not agreed upon, during negotiations.

YMMV

Sheesh, just found another thing missing from this new format..The spellchecker! Grrr..

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 7:04:40 AM

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Topping,

I am a switch, and have a huge maso need. The submission is one Im having to learn.
I definetly know what I want and like and my two Ones have similiar taste.
One thing that I love is when both team up, it give him such please to watch his wife.
poen is actually a switch too, while she is slave to her husband, she is most definetly the Dominant with me.

And yes live is a learning experience. Love trying new things.

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 7:18:12 AM

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Faerie, that's cool I need to learn to let go of my dominant bossy personality and submit. way back when I was new I identified as a submissive and had a dom that actually expected submission from me, but my nature caused a lot of problems because I wasn't the type to be like Yes Sir, and do as he said as he often expected. We were of coruse online only too, working for RT, so I didn't have his guiding hand on me personally, so I balked a lot.

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ORIGINAL: SavageFaerie

Topping,

I am a switch, and have a huge maso need. The submission is one Im having to learn.
I definetly know what I want and like and my two Ones have similiar taste.
One thing that I love is when both team up, it give him such please to watch his wife.
poen is actually a switch too, while she is slave to her husband, she is most definetly the Dominant with me.

And yes live is a learning experience. Love trying new things.

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 7:23:19 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MoGa

I would also like to ad, that it takes much more to being a dominant, then just directing in the bedroom. Hell if that were the case, then those of us who identify as Dominants, would just call ourselves Tops. I also don't see anything wrong with a submissive telling their Dominant what they like and don't like, providing it was talk about prior to the scene. I don't see it as topping from the bottom at all. I see it as someone who knows what sensations they are looking for and letting their feelings known.

Topping from the bottom has little to do with playtime, to me. It has everything with a submissive trying to manipulate the dynamic into something that was not agreed upon, during negotiations.

YMMV

Sheesh, just found another thing missing from this new format..The spellchecker! Grrr..

Excatament
spell check is all in the browser that you use :)

If you do not know what someone likes, how can you reward them with it?

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RE: Should of made my nick name I will top you from th... - 6/7/2009 7:27:50 AM

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Could of gone the yoda rout and made it top you I will. Cause you know how yoday says stuff then says I will.

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