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wannaburcuck -> cuckoldress (6/9/2009 8:46:16 PM)
why is it so difficult to find a cuckoldress or women seeking a cuckold. besides the obvious answer of 'you dont have a pic in your profile..." but seriously looking through profiles on here, looking on line, it is difficult. any recommendations from you seasoned sharp deviants?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 8:51:23 PM)
Okay, I know that cuckoldry is not my kink, but don't you have to BE in a relationship with the cuckoldress before she can go out with other guys? I can see having that as a kink on the list, but I just can't fathom going into a RELATIONSHIP with a person with the intent that I was going to go looking for strange right out of the gate. Of the women I know who are in cuck relationships, the cuckoldry developed AFTER they had a bond of trust, just as a facet of their whole association/marriage/partnership.

LadySweetOrSour -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 8:52:03 PM)
I wouldn't have thought that not having a pic is the obvious answer. I think the obvious answer is it takes more than someone saying they're a sub make me want to cuckold them. Cucking is generally something done with someone you have a connection with in the first place. Just saying you have sex with others, with a man who identifes as a sub, isn't really cuckolding. That's more of a fantasy thing than a reality. Plus, many dominant women are monogamous, they aren't particularly interested in having sex with multiple partners, just to get off a sub who thinks they should. We don't all follow the same path. Some like giving pain, some don't. Some like sissies, some don't. Some like lots of things, others don't. Try looking at women as individuals, not as a group.

DarkSteven -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 8:52:45 PM)
You have got to be kidding. You have a blank profile and no picture, and you're asking why you're having problems? Not all Dommes are into cuckoldry, and you've guaranteed you'll be at the bottom of their lists. Why no personal info? Afraid that a wife/gf will happen on it?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 8:55:38 PM)
Now, Steven, we are trying to be LESS cynical in these parts! [:D]

HeavansKeeper -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:12:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wannaburcuck why is it so difficult to find a cuckoldress or women seeking a cuckold. besides the obvious answer of 'you dont have a pic in your profile..." but seriously looking through profiles on here, looking on line, it is difficult. any recommendations from you seasoned sharp deviants? Ignoring the personal issue... I would expect the supply/demand scale for cuckoldry to be skewed. Men are whores, and the idea of sleeping around all one pleases is exciting. Women like relationships. And flowers. What's with the flowers? They're just weeds. Weeds with spikes. ... Anyway... There are women who possess the masculine "seed spreading" trait.. I've only met one. Social pressure, and likely biological nature predispose women to be adverse to being cuckoldresses. Then some wake the fuck up and realize "I like anal with a 6 inch cock, vaginal with an 8 inch cock, and foreplay with a 10 inch cock... Now I can have them all at once!" Good luck, Bub.

wannaburcuck -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:13:24 PM)
if i gave the impression i was classifiying all women in one category or the other im sorry, that was not my intention. and i see what you say that a cuckolding relationship is not the same a sub/dom relationship, it is one that develops over time, and is rarely sought out. my point though, whether from the onset of the relationship, or a product of the relationship, i just think it is rare to find a woman that seeks a cuckold. it seems one of the more least popular interests; there are few if any sites similar to this that cater to or help others meet that share an interest. darksteven- hey old man river, i wasnt asking in a specefic sense like "why cant i meet some hot cuckoldress..." hence me adding that obviously with a blank profile im not going to meet anyone interested in cuckolding me ("'you dont have a pic in your profile..." ), it was more of a general question as to why it is a less popular kink and a question as to whether anyone else knows of any other sites. as for the no personal information, i dont have a pic for fear of being fired from work, we dont all collect a pension dickwad. and when did i ever say, or even imply all dommes were into cuckoldry. i believe i was asserting just the oposite. go put your trifocals on douche bag.

Lockit -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:17:28 PM)
Oh dear... I thought I might answer, but think now I will just stick with... oh dear

wannaburcuck -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:25:25 PM)
i apologize for the personal attack, but i felt i must defend myself for a skewering of a legimate question. thank you though for the intelligent responses.

DarkSteven -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:30:46 PM)
Your charming personality might also be slowing down your search. I'm totally befuddled by your assertion that you would get fired from your job if you filled in your profile. I've never had a job where management combed dirty sites and fired people who posted on them.

Lockit -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:32:57 PM)
The bottom line is... you are not known to anyone... you have nothing in your profile and your interest are all sexual. People are not only looking at your question but the fact that there is little to go on with you and after huge amounts of people coming here to play games, we can get a lil foul tempered or short. So I would recommend showing a bit of who you are to people and leave the name calling to the school yard.

wannaburcuck -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:33:55 PM)
fair enough i supose.

Venatrix -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:36:49 PM)
Oh, I don't know, Lockit; I think he's already shown us a bit of who he is.

Lockit -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:39:00 PM)
Somehow I knew that was coming! lol

wannaburcuck -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:41:02 PM)
HA!

littlesarbonn -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:41:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit So I would recommend showing a bit of who you are to people and leave the name calling to the school yard. Okay, I just have to say that this was not great advice. I took it and next thing I knew I was in police custody. Turns out that a 40 year old guy conducting name calling in a school yard gets him a quick trip to the slammer. So, in the future, be VERY careful of the advice you take here. I mean, she's a dominant woman, so I figured that her advice had to be excellent. Now I have a court date and the possibility of prison. Come to think of it, I wasn't really doing all that much before. So, now I have an active social life and things to do with my spare time. I take it back. It was GREAT advice!

Lockit -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:42:31 PM)
ROFL littlesarbonn!

Venatrix -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:44:09 PM)
Well, aren't we the little attention whore tonight? Though perhaps that's a bit rude. Maybe "attention courtesan" would be a bit nicer.

wannaburcuck -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:45:40 PM)
i understand without a real profile, a picture, etc, i have no hope of finding or establishing a relationship with a cuckoldress. in the interest of getting advice on where to begin, or musings as to why it is or isnt a popular kink, i thought i would post. obviously a mistake if some, not near all, but some see it as an opportunity to try and assert some misplaced inkling or superiority.

Lockit -> RE: cuckoldress (6/9/2009 9:51:47 PM)
Just when I am really considering trying to say more than the advice or information that has been given... you turn around and say more shit. You got some good answers. You just can't magically make these things happen. It also, isn't rocket science! Why is it so hard to find... because a lot of women don't want a man dictating how many partners she will have because he likes it. Because some just don't want mulitple men. Find the friggin profiles that say they are into it and done deal... it is only up to you to present yourself worthy of being a life partner who she can cuck. There.. done... Hopefully I haven't misplaced any of my dominance here.. because I sure would hate to upset you!

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