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What other things can i do? - 6/12/2009 3:46:38 AM

rileysgirl

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So heres the deal I had never successfully tried being a domme before and was always domminated by my boyfriend and at the time I liked it but the other day i got a sudden urge to domme him and he's wanted it for a long time so of course we did it and I enjoyed it ALOT! way more then being a sub.... But I only know a few domme things that i liked so i was hoping someone could tell me what kinda things they like to do as domme and maybe i could get some more ideas!( please know this isnt meant as disrespect to anyone Im new to all this remember)

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RE: What other things can i do? - 6/12/2009 5:54:17 AM

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There's always the school of thought that says you could try things from the top side that you've previously enjoyed yourself from the bottom side. What have you liked before? Turn the tables and do the same thing to him. Got a fantasy that you never got to do as a bottom? Fulfill that fantasy by being on top.

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RE: What other things can i do? - 6/12/2009 3:45:41 PM

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You may also wish to build on those things that you did that you enjoyed. For example, if you spanked him with your hand, you may wish to try an implement of some sort.
You could each write a list of things that appeal and compare as well as use that for ideas.
You could talk about specific scenarios.
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RE: What other things can i do? - 6/12/2009 3:58:18 PM

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Sounds great thank you guys :)

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RE: What other things can i do? - 6/12/2009 8:50:55 PM

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Experimental is the key. Try a little of this, and a little of that, and see how he responds as well as what turned you on. This is the fun period because you are not set in your ways and you are both willing to try something new. Try to keep it that way if you can. It makes the experience more enjoyable for both. This is your chance to turn the tables and do to him some of the things he had done to you. Give him a taste of how it feels to be on the receiving end of the stick, so to speak.

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