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WaxingMistress -> Interviewing Dommes and Doms (6/12/2009 5:54:08 AM)
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I wrote this entry on may 12, 2009. A man asked me for guideance before I finally and recently was broken into and released. The point was to offer this for two reasons... I followed my wisdom and still got hurt, but I know it was still sound advice for the general person who is looking for help in this thing we call a search from within: gential or spiritual.
Someone just asked Me a question and I liked what I wrote to him so I am journaling it. Enjoy your days...
"All I Can say to you is that I hope you find a Domme who earns your trust. Be careful how you choose. Know your needs and ask Her if She can meet them. Know what it is that you want as well as what you want to offer from submitting to someone. Take your time when you get to know someone for this type of relationship.
If you are looking for something a bit more temporary and you are into using a Woman(lets be honest some men are) for Her Dominant Powers... Then find a Pro.
Be responsible for your safety and know your limits. And if you DONT know your limits I would suggest that you find a nice Domme friend who can help you discover them.
Make the efforts and most women will respond quite nicely. We like kindness. But if you want a BITCHY Domme, be up front about that. And BE submissive if you are at all. Its important to those Dommes who are not into forcing men to do things. Willingness to go to any lengths is far more sexy to most than breaking a mans will.
For Me, I like training for what M/my needs and wants are. I just hope to find one who shares M/my same passion. I find that out in the interview. Then perhaps over time. I hope I was helpful. Very good work on your body. I hope your soul has as much work.
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