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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 10:23:26 PM

KnightofMists

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I have many pictures...but that's not humiliation..that is wrong! Why would you display your sub in pics?..I wouldn't..and won't, they are many other ways to humiliate, but to do in in public is fucked up!

If individuals are responsible and healthy and have a kink to public humiliation.... who is anyone to devalue their fun!

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/13/2006 5:35:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: fastlane

I have many pictures...but that's not humiliation..that is wrong! Why would you display your sub in pics?..I wouldn't..and won't, they are many other ways to humiliate, but to do in in public is fucked up!

I'm curious...when exactly, were you given the authority to decide what is right or wrong for someone else's realtionship? You don't want to participate in public humiliation? Great! Don't do it.

As for the OP...
Something fun might be to take a drive some night with your submissive. Have her sit naked (or semi-naked) in the passenger seat and masturbate. Then...every once in a while...turn on the interior lights and remind her that she is completely visible with the lights on.

Another method might be to blindfold her with the interior lights on...then turn the lights off while you're driving around...so she may think that she is completely exposed the entire time.

Safety/Security note: Use some common sense if you are planning on doing this. Don't take the drive through really rough neighborhoods, ensure there are no unmentionables within eyeshot, etc.

If you are planning on posting pictures on the internet, you may want to take her career, family, and other relationships into consideration. Some people cannot afford to have everyone know about the way they choose to live their life.

Have fun.

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/13/2006 9:07:07 AM

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i know my Master had an ex slave wear diapers to work one day. course she was a stripper.. ..

kneeling is humiliation and though i've never done it.. i had a dream about being told to crawl in public.. i about died of embarresment in the dream = )

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/13/2006 9:08:42 AM

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Hmmm... I always found forcing the sub to wear diapers under their clothes and go out in public works well.

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 3/30/2006 9:12:12 PM

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Have you looked at Yahoo 360? They seem to have a good platform for posting things and taking comments.

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 3/31/2006 12:22:11 AM

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One of my favorites was going out for a bit and leaving her clamped by her pussylips to my chair.

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 3/31/2006 1:10:44 AM

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A good hard slap in the face in public.

Something written on her belly as a reminder every time her shirt lifted.

Let her wear your cum all day rubbed into her skin...........

There are many forms of humiliation and I have had many done to me......write if You would like a more complete list.

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 3/31/2006 1:36:25 AM

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I am not much into Humilaition but a few subs I work with have asked Me about trying a bit. so sure if you dont mind please send Me amessage, but what is it people get out of humiliation. I guess most subs I work with have low self esteem so I wouldnt try it much , but I know a couple that have approached Me about the idea so I am curious. I always keep a open mind.w hat may not be My thing may be someone elses. and there is nothing wrong with that. people are diverse in the way they handle things and variety is the spice of life . thank you >^;^< The Lioness

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 3/31/2006 2:06:19 AM

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Other thoughts on humiliation:

lucky finds both humiliation and punishments work best as contrasts when alternated with the soft and romantic. Constant anything becomes routine; it is the contrasts that make life intense.

And of course there is the usual observation that humiliation and degradation are two different things, with they key being whether the Owner respects and appreciates the sub more for their willingness to be so devoted (humiliation tasks), versus whether the owner thinks less of the sub because they are willing to do certain things (degradation).

What is humiliating varies greatly by person. For some, a male having to do the dishes is humiliating while for others things like going down seem quite vanilla and do not approach the boundaries of humiliation.

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 3/31/2006 2:23:37 AM

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somethinh humiliated is to make a male slave cum and eat his own cum

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 3/31/2006 9:12:24 AM

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My fantasy of being humiliated is to be stripped in front of 15 girls at a party, put on a leash and paraded for everyone's view. An addition may be to be ordered to beg everyone to give a stamp and signature on ass. Of course, it will certify that everybody has seen the ASS clearly . May be some Dom inserts the pen in , before giving her signature. Nothing can be more humiliating than that. What will make it more erotic,is that one has to open Ass full by himself to show it off. Mistress won't love to touch it!!

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 3/31/2006 9:55:22 AM

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Here is a sampling of things I have done...

I have talked on the phone to a "real man" about sexual things, while the slave was naked on his knees, kissing my feet. I made it a point to tell the person on the phone that the slave was there. I even made the slave tell the man "I am just a slave". Then I made plans to go out,(ignoring the slave, of course).. took the slave with me into the bedroom and made him help me get dressed to go on a date. I then instructed the slave to beg me to get fucked, which he did. I then made him beg the man to fuck me and say he would clean me up when I got home. He did that too. ;)
what happened next, I will never tell...

To me, humiliation is one part mind-fuck and two parts Power Exchange.

Other examples:
correcting him in public. By this I do not mean that I would do anything to embarrass myself or that would be uncomfortable for the vanilla population to see. I want the humiliation to be his.

making a big macho man wear a bra and panties, wash the car and get tan lines. Then he is fair game to show off shirtless where and when, and to whom I want!

Or.. while I am in a restaraunt with some of my femdom friends, I leave him in the car, sucking panties and licking shoes. He is in chastity. I bring my friends out and we watch him and laugh.

I truly find humiliation to be a HUGE turn on to myself as well as my sub. It sucks the manliness right outta that boy! ;)

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