nd601
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Joined: 6/21/2006 Status: offline
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I've lurked on this site for a while, changing my profile a couple of times.. but this time, i'm *really* going to look seriously. So far, I haven't quite found what I want, which is this. I'd a previous vanilla relationship that was very kinky in the bedroom. For all appearances, we were like any other normal couple, and experimented a lot "indoors". That was before, and we parted opposite ways... I wanted to explore this a lot more, and she didn't. I'm looking for a similar kind of relationship. However, most folks on this site - the ones local to me at least - either want complete submission or dominance, not something we can keep to the bedroom. Now, I don't mind light d/s elements in r/l, but I'd want to keep my majority of play in the bedroom. And once in the bedroom, I want to get *really* kinky... Ideally switching, but I suppose it's ok if we stuck to one side. I did meet someone who wanted the same thing, but she's a few thousand miles away on the other side of the planet. So anyway, is this sort of relationship common? or am I just better off trying to convert someone that's vanilla? I'm kinda annoyed because I'm putting off some vanilla possibilities - because I really want to experiment with BDSM, and I don't seem to be getting anywhere... Advice?
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