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What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 7:34:39 AM

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I have found the cutest, most perfect, most attractive professional domme on Collarme. Emails have been exchanged and we appear to share some of the same interests.

I'd very much like to session with her but now I don't want to subject her to my old disgusting body. I've been at this for over thirty years but never had this problem before. What can I do?

RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 7:39:33 AM

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Let her decide who she is attracted to. It's presumptuous of you to make that choice for her. Express why you are interested in her. If she reciprocates, allow her to. Don't you want someone who is attracted to all of you, not just your body?

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 7:41:02 AM

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Poke the beholder's eye out. NO DON'T LISTEN TO THAT!

Obviously you have some body issues going on. You don't know if she is going to like you for who you are or what you look like. Be upfront, be honest, communicate. Tell her these things!

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 8:14:40 AM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: gpeterse

I have found the cutest, most perfect, most attractive professional domme on Collarme. Emails have been exchanged and we appear to share some of the same interests.

I'd very much like to session with her but now I don't want to subject her to my old disgusting body. I've been at this for over thirty years but never had this problem before. What can I do?

You could send her a fairly forensic photgraph of your body and tell her how you feel about yourself physically. I would imagine that if she's a professional domme, she run across the odd less than perfect body before.

The majority of people have bodies with percieved *grotty* bits. You're not *subjecting her* to yourself in any way ....she's providing a service and she can say * No thanks* if she wants to.

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 8:27:40 AM

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Most of us have moments where we feel like we might not be up to a certain standard...especially as we age. It's difficult to take the step of literally exposing ourselves in a new situation. Until you actually do it the mental anguish of wondering what will happen will be there.
Women are less visually orientated than men are, they have other qualities they are attracted to and that turn them on. Tell her your concerns, show her some pictures, decide together what happens from there...

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 9:35:06 AM

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It's presumptuous of you to make that choice for her.

10 points.

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 9:37:29 AM

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Its a SESSION, for a FEE, not a blind date. She's in the business, She can handle it.

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 10:47:29 AM

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Its a SESSION, for a FEE, not a blind date. She's in the business, She can handle it.

Exactly, thank you. This is a paid session. She'll play the part you want her to, that you've agreed to beforehand.

The only way she'll get return business from you is if you get what you want, for your money. So you both should have no problem focusing on making sure your needs and desires are satisfied. She's in business. talk to her extensively beforehand, to let her know what you want from the session. Forget about your looks. That's not part of the equation.

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 12:48:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: gpeterse

I have found the cutest, most perfect, most attractive professional domme on Collarme. Emails have been exchanged and we appear to share some of the same interests.

I'd very much like to session with her but now I don't want to subject her to my old disgusting body. I've been at this for over thirty years but never had this problem before. What can I do?

This is a curious first post: kind of stating that you have a disgusting body. How old are you?

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 1:08:31 PM

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Sixty one and not really that bad, 6' 180lb . This hasn't happened before, maybe it's because she's young and I'm feeling old and lecherous.

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 1:13:19 PM

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Thanks, I need to get my head straight about this. It is a paid session not a date.

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 1:58:46 PM

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I have found the cutest, most perfect, most attractive professional domme on Collarme. Emails have been exchanged and we appear to share some of the same interests.

I'd very much like to session with her but now I don't want to subject her to my old disgusting body. I've been at this for over thirty years but never had this problem before. What can I do?

She's a pro. She doesn't especially have to care about your body issues. Just your wallet.

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 3:12:35 PM

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Trust me, she doesn't find your money old nor disgusting. Just go and have fun!

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 5:29:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: gpeterse

I have found the cutest, most perfect, most attractive professional domme on Collarme. Emails have been exchanged and we appear to share some of the same interests.

I'd very much like to session with her but now I don't want to subject her to my old disgusting body. I've been at this for over thirty years but never had this problem before. What can I do?

Hmmmmm....a very honest post.

Answer:

Be you....she already knows (I presume) your age.

And if she doesn't....tell her when you meet her you couldn't find an iron.

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 5:34:32 PM

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Send her a nude pic of yourself with an Amex card covering your pecker. She'll think you're juuuust perfect.

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/18/2009 5:39:43 PM

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You're a prospective client. And ALL you will ever be is a client. Don't let romantic fantasies run wild in your head.

If they haven't done so already.

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/19/2009 2:40:01 AM

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you not into humiliation then?
I find the idea of the very beautiful doing it with disgusting mingers (Dom or sub on anyside) very hot. Maybe you can get your mind in that set?

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/19/2009 2:56:54 AM

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Very simply, yet eloquently said Dark one..

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/19/2009 3:34:05 AM

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What can I do?

super glue all the wrinkles together into one big lump. Tell her it is a tumor. You might get a break on her fee.

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RE: What Do I Do Now? - 6/19/2009 3:54:49 AM

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Send her a nude pic of yourself with an Amex card covering your pecker. She'll think you're juuuust perfect.

Aileen, i think that is a great idea.

To the OP try to lose your feelings for her, it will hurt so much more, when you return to reality. She is doing her work and therefore she will accept you.

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