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Have you ever dominated a man indiscriminately? - 6/22/2009 12:42:13 PM

AAkasha

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Apologies that this is an overlap from a thread over in General, "Real femdoms don't exist," but I wanted to bring it over here.

Ladies, have you ever dominated a man indiscriminately: You were not really attracted to him per se, he did not court you (he just was available), and you did not expect anything from him in return - at all. You just were satisfying a lust inside of you, a need, and he was at the right place at the right time. Or, maybe you were just "kind of" attracted to him, but didn't go through any steps to investigate at all - you got straight to the domination.

Does your dominant side ever crave this kind of semi-anonymous "play"?

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RE: Have you ever dominated a man indiscriminately? - 6/22/2009 12:49:02 PM

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I did, back in "the beginning." Really didn't get much out of it on a lasting level, so now I have to have *some* connection with the person, even if it's just as a good friend.

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RE: Have you ever dominated a man indiscriminately? - 6/22/2009 1:21:16 PM

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OP:

NO!!!

to me it is like HOOKING up with no connection..nothing in it for me..
using someone..( my opinion about me & my process)

IF the energy is high..the desire .......... then I create ..paint...4x4...box..run...walk
if I do not have a boy in my life...

I feel that as a woman and DOMME I need to control my life and manage my ENERGY including..
lust...power..and control............ or I am of no good to anyone else.

I must be present to myself first or I cannot be present to anyone else..

If I am irresponsible with my energy/lust what kind of DOMME does my boy
get?

GQ

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RE: Have you ever dominated a man indiscriminately? - 6/22/2009 1:33:52 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Apologies that this is an overlap from a thread over in General, "Real femdoms don't exist," but I wanted to bring it over here.

Ladies, have you ever dominated a man indiscriminately: You were not really attracted to him per se, he did not court you (he just was available), and you did not expect anything from him in return - at all. You just were satisfying a lust inside of you, a need, and he was at the right place at the right time. Or, maybe you were just "kind of" attracted to him, but didn't go through any steps to investigate at all - you got straight to the domination.

Does your dominant side ever crave this kind of semi-anonymous "play"?

Akasha

I did twice in one night recently... I wanted to top and they were available, I got it out of my system.

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RE: Have you ever dominated a man indiscriminately? - 6/22/2009 5:27:53 PM

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Yes, mostly for experience in different things (sounding, parachutes, wax, etc) that I needed a dummy on. I would do this with another lady and it didn't really matter who the bottom was. I still do it indiscriminately sometimes for experience and to get topping "out of my system", or if another lady needs help with something. But if I'm alone with a sub for any extended period of time, there needs to be a much deeper connection.

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RE: Have you ever dominated a man indiscriminately? - 6/22/2009 8:00:45 PM

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In a word "No".

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RE: Have you ever dominated a man indiscriminately? - 6/22/2009 8:09:29 PM

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I play like this at play parties all the time. I usually pick someone at least DECENTLY attractive but other then that...it's the bdsm equivalent of the one-night stand.

I'm a hound dog and I can admit it. WOOF baby ;)

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RE: Have you ever dominated a man indiscriminately? - 6/22/2009 8:29:41 PM

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Yes, that's the fun of play parties - and sometimes we we end up connecting as friends afterward.

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RE: Have you ever dominated a man indiscriminately? - 6/22/2009 8:32:49 PM

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No. I need to feel connected on some level.

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RE: Have you ever dominated a man indiscriminately? - 6/22/2009 9:36:10 PM

terramara

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No, but I have considered the prospect in the past multiple times. I wouldn't have gone through with it though.

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RE: Have you ever dominated a man indiscriminately? - 6/22/2009 9:45:58 PM

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Transposed from the other thread:

Absolutely I have. I make no bones about the fact that I have sadistic needs and they absolutely have to be met. Something that can be hard to accomplish when one's sub is deployed to the desert.

There are a number of bottoms that I play with. Some of them are bottoms that started out as friends and others became friends after they started out bottoming. Still, I have no problem going to the club and finding just some random bottom to beat on. It gets My needs met and I don't hear any complaining from the other side.

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RE: Have you ever dominated a man indiscriminately? - 6/22/2009 10:04:32 PM

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Certainly. I go to play parties to play. If someone is in the right place at the right time and looks hot in whatever he's wearing or not wearing, I'll have a piece of that. I prefer to be the one doing the approaching, unless he has the art of shy, graceful flirtation down just right. If he approaches me with a "do-me" attitude, I probably don't want any.

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