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My intro post - 8/21/2004 8:17:14 AM

Zupan

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Hello all, I am relatively new her. Especially to the forums.

Thought it was about time I posted here with an intro.

I am a 43 year old SWM novice dom. Novice menaing that I do have some actual real time expereince, though less than a year. So I am far from an expert, but I believe a half step above a newbie.

I was directed here by a domme who is a member and thought that this would be a good place to look. Unfortunately I have had no luck yet, but I am patient and know a girl would just fall in my lap because I am here.

I guess I am also posting looking for some advice and to have a question answered.

First if anyone would care to look at my profile and critique it and maybe give me tips, please do. I know that know one here knows me personally so details can be advised to, but generalities can be.

Now to the question. This just does not pertain to this site but all site and groups or clubs etc. I know that most women get a rather large amount of email looking to get to know them better, or as an introduction and it takes time to go through them all weeding out the good and bad. Yes I am getting to the question and here it is. Why is it that very few will ever answer an email or let you know if they are interested or not. It only takes a short amount of time to say "no thanks, not interrested" or "I like your email and would like to know more". Or something along those lines.

I myself don't like to be left in the dark and guessing, I would rather know right away if I am wasting my time or not.

Since I don't visit the forums often, I would appreciate any replies through email.

Thanks in advance,

Karl

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RE: My intro post - 8/21/2004 8:31:20 AM

Richard49

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Welcome aboard

I am new also
Could be an interesting learning experence

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RE: My intro post - 8/21/2004 8:33:58 AM

ModeratorThree

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Welcome to the forums.

You have posed a question that has been asked many times, and has been discussed on the boards in depth.

You may try doing a search for the subject, or proud will be along today and will likely post links to the conversations.

She is kinda our own CollarMe Thread History Major. On top of her incredible search skills she is charming as well. :)

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RE: My intro post - 8/21/2004 11:21:52 AM

NightDaughter

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Welcome Zupan to the forums,

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RE: My intro post - 8/21/2004 1:28:14 PM

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Welcome to Collarme

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RE: My intro post - 8/21/2004 2:49:00 PM

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Greetings Zupan and welcome to the site and forum... I hope You find that You feel welcomed and look forward to any posts You may add. The search list on the top right of this window should help you find the links your looking for... any other probs, don't hesitate to ask. Everyones really helpful!

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RE: My intro post - 8/21/2004 9:02:16 PM

proudsub

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quote:

You may try doing a search for the subject, or proud will be along today and will likely post links to the conversations.

She is kinda our own CollarMe Thread History Major. On top of her incredible search skills she is charming as well. :)

Now how can i turn down a request like that

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emails and courtesy

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RE: My intro post - 8/22/2004 6:38:14 AM

Zupan

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Thanks for all the replies and welcomes, and thanks to proud for the links. I took a quick look at each one and will likely read through them all when I have more time.

Karl

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