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Training for Submissive - 2/13/2006 6:26:40 PM   
subinlaf


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Status: offline 		Greetings -- I am a 35 year old submissive male from Louisiana and I have some vacation time coming up soon and I would like to send it in training. I am trying to find a place to go to do my training and could actually stay there the entire time. I have been to many web sites but cannot find one that is over a day stay. Please Mistresses can you help me.

Submissive Rene
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RE: Training for Submissive - 2/13/2006 6:32:03 PM   
MHOO314


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subinlaf

Greetings -- I am a 35 year old submissive male from Louisiana and I have some vacation time coming up soon and I would like to send it in training. I am trying to find a place to go to do my training and could actually stay there the entire time. I have been to many web sites but cannot find one that is over a day stay. Please Mistresses can you help me.

Submissive Rene


welcome submissive rene--- I am going to suggest you contact either MistressofGeorgia or Atlantaowl--both here on CM, they are active in the Atlanta scene and I am sure can refer you--owl especially is well known and knows many accomplished Dommes there---be safe and welcome--

oh and lalaissez les bon temps roullez cher!

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RE: Training for Submissive - 2/13/2006 6:56:25 PM   
Alixandria


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From: Edmonton, Alberta
Status: offline 		I'm a bit curious about the etiquette of passing names onto people who basically want to be "fixed up" for a short time.

I've always been hesitant to refer subs to women I know who are looking unless I have a sense of them first. I know that all my women friends are beseiged enough as it is. So I've been a bit cagy (as in, "do you own research") even when I had to suggest that they seek out a pro-Domme because of specific kink requirements or time limitations.

Am I being over-scrupulous?

Alix

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RE: Training for Submissive - 2/13/2006 7:13:12 PM   
subinlaf


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Status: offline 		Mistress Alixandria I do understand and maybe training was not the correct word to use. I am a fairly new submissive and I not sure of my limits or what is liked or disliked. I am hoping I can find a Pro Dom that is experience in several different things and help me find my limits and likes. I am willing to spend up to 7 days in training. I feel if I can find my limets and likes my search for a Mistress will be alot less confusing.

Submissive Rene

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RE: Training for Submissive - 2/13/2006 7:28:38 PM   
MHOO314


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ORIGINAL: Alixandria

I'm a bit curious about the etiquette of passing names onto people who basically want to be "fixed up" for a short time.

I've always been hesitant to refer subs to women I know who are looking unless I have a sense of them first. I know that all my women friends are beseiged enough as it is. So I've been a bit cagy (as in, "do you own research") even when I had to suggest that they seek out a pro-Domme because of specific kink requirements or time limitations.

Am I being over-scrupulous?

Alix




a good point, but I have used at least owl before they can always say no.

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RE: Training for Submissive - 2/13/2006 7:37:01 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		This is an advertisement, I am not even gonna review your profile, so you want a weeks vacation to be a sub, hell; already planned......
Offer the sluts $500 a day to do what they want.................

See a Pro for a week at half that price to see what they want.........
(paid up front).......

I am truely aghast....... how you think people work.......

In any case, my shivvers not withstanding, you might be a little more discreet and thoughtful.............

You can have what you want, no doubt there is a match......

but as we say on the other side, "On your knees, bitch",
and you are really saying "Stand up, bitch".....

See what I mean?

Ron

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RE: Training for Submissive - 2/13/2006 8:16:09 PM   
MsSonnetMarwood


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From: Eastern Shore, Maryland
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quote:

Greetings -- I am a 35 year old submissive male from Louisiana and I have some vacation time coming up soon and I would like to send it in training. I am trying to find a place to go to do my training and could actually stay there the entire time. I have been to many web sites but cannot find one that is over a day stay. Please Mistresses can you help me.

Submissive Rene


Do a websearch to find "Other World Kingdom". That might be what you seek.

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RE: Training for Submissive - 2/13/2006 8:49:09 PM   
UtahGoddess


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Rene,

You may want to check out maxfisch.com. It is a listing of Pro Dommes. Perhaps your request would be better received there. The subject of Pro Dommes brings out hostility in a lot of readers.

There is nothing wrong with your needs. You are free to explore your submission in any way you choose. Some people forget that concept.

Good luck

Ms Sandi

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RE: Training for Submissive - 2/13/2006 9:27:42 PM   
arson982


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Status: offline 		submissive Rene My I say something. You might want to check your spelling. Me being new and maybe it is not my place to say this but I do not think that 7 days is going to be enough. I am in a 90 day training contract and right now it does not seem long enough and besides as a sub we are always in training.

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RE: Training for Submissive - 2/13/2006 9:48:46 PM   
subinlaf


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Status: offline 		I would like to apologize for the incorrect spelling in my posting and if I offend anyone I also would like to apologize. I did not mean for the posting to sound like an ad, I am just trying to learn the lifestyle and trying to be the best submissive I can be.

I also agree that 7 days in not nearly enough time, but I honestly feel the 7 days of training will help me out.


Submissive Rene

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RE: Training for Submissive - 2/13/2006 9:56:32 PM   
JohnWarren


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subinlaf

I would like to apologize for the incorrect spelling in my posting and if I offend anyone I also would like to apologize. I did not mean for the posting to sound like an ad, I am just trying to learn the lifestyle and trying to be the best submissive I can be.

I also agree that 7 days in not nearly enough time, but I honestly feel the 7 days of training will help me out.


Submissive Rene


Don't sweat the spelling too much. When it starts to get in the way of comprehension, then worry.

As for seven days, it's generally better to start out slowly and build up. Too much of a committment at first generally sets one up for disappointment.

Besides, even seven days can end up as being one day repeated seven times. Right now, it's probably better to get a range of experience with several dominants with different approaches to find out what you like best.

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RE: Training for Submissive - 2/13/2006 9:58:31 PM   
arson982


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Status: offline 		what kind of training are you looking for. What kind of service can you offer a Mistress. I you looking for someone that will play with you.

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RE: Training for Submissive - 2/13/2006 10:00:18 PM   
arson982


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Status: offline 		I can not write. Are you looking for someone to play with you. Sorry about my spelling

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RE: Training for Submissive - 1/21/2007 10:03:05 AM   
spankn1999


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Status: offline 		In Louisiana, try this website, they have all the information for New Orleans, baton rouge, Lafayette and more groups in the Louisiana area.

http://www.lanoble.org/home.html

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RE: Training for Submissive - 1/21/2007 11:46:34 AM   
demistress


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From: Dela-where?
Status: offline 		I love doing weekend or weekly training sessions at my bondage bed and breakfast here in Delaware.  I sent you more information personally. 

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RE: Training for Submissive - 1/21/2007 12:49:31 PM   
MistressDoMe


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Status: offline 		I can offer you some training.  You can come clean my house, landscape my yard,
do minor repairs, clean my carpets and run errands for me.
When can I expect you?

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RE: Training for Submissive - 9/29/2007 11:57:32 AM   
spankn1999


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Status: offline 		To Sub In Laf:

Baton rouge here, 48, 5' 10" 160 lbs, trim masculine sub for discipline and humiliation, prof guy, divorced.  I see some responses here from dom women demanding that you clean there kitchens and mow their lawns.  Would you be interested in the two of us being subjugated and naked, for the whims of a dom and the work they force us to do?  I have pics, I have bondage equiptment.  Email me

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