FullfigRIMAAM1
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Your post resonates to be sure; but the fact is, everyone wants you for some reason, and you may as well make peace with that. Of course we all want someone who is able to connect with us on different levels. All I am saying, is that a man being sexually atttracted to one, should in no way be held against him, unless one specifically states one is asexual, and therefore not interested at all in that approach. I don't mind it in the least that a man finds me hot. I do mind if that is all he is able to discuss, but only because I don't really do casual sex. If I did, all I would care about is whether I too find him hot for the moment. It's true that a whole lot of so called submissives haven't a clue about how to approach a lady, but answering honestly to what first attracted him to you, especially in a non-crude manner, should not be the thing that sets you off, and makes you say "what an ass*ole." As to bigger equaling desperate, I can't say, because I've never been small, have been treated well in relationships, and am happy to say that I've never felt disrespected because of my weight. Besides, if someone approaches because he feels your weight should be in inverse proportion to your self respect, you will certainly have the opportunity to correct that impression, nest-ce pas?! M
< Message edited by FullfigRIMAAM1 -- 6/26/2009 2:01:48 AM >
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