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service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 9:21:58 AM   
LadyElizabeth


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If you had to write down a list of service related skills, that you have to offer, in your service of Dom/me, or sub/slave, what would be on that list?

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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 9:28:04 AM   
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Good question, and there's no possible way I can include them all:

Good working knowledge of pop culture and classical cinema, theater, music and literature.

Excellent background in debate and contextualizing, excellent research skills.

Quick learner, follows directions well

Fastidious organizer, excellent relational memory and trivialist

Offline friendships and contacts to the scene on many levels

Young and in fairly good physical condition, no diseases

Sexually educated and experienced

Computer literate with moderate level of experience in average office programs and database management

No children or sick relatives currently needing daily attending

Independent means of transportation

Excellent shopping and styling skills





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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 10:27:47 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth

If you had to write down a list of service related skills, that you have to offer, in your service of Dom/me, or sub/slave, what would be on that list?



Got a few I could list... and a willingness to learn more... for the right one. Master knows this.. and loves me for who I am now... and as time goes.. will learn more.. and teach him more..

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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 10:33:14 AM   
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Some of the most important are my intelligence, my abilities to run most aspects of a business, my earnings potential, my openmindedness and willingness to try new things, my D/s experience, my domestic skills....excellent cook, housekeeping, decorating flair, etc.. personal skills....sexual, massage, bathing, etc...I have a great sense of humor, realistic expectations of a partner, I'm not intimidated by home repair projects or anything that requires some physical work....basically that I am well rounded, have had many life experiences, have an honest and huge desire to please my partner, can juggle many things at once....and I avoid the word "can't".

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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 11:11:27 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth

If you had to write down a list of service related skills, that you have to offer, in your service of Dom/me, or sub/slave, what would be on that list?


I would have to say Good Housekeeping :ie cleaning,laundry,ironing....

Gardening,diy,decorating on a personal note i'm good at massage and good at mechanic's and alway's willing to please....

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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 11:43:54 AM   
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I really enjoy this question as well:

~organizational and planning skills.
~ability to multi task
~cooking and baking ability
~immaculate cleaning skills
~youthful energy and spunk
~attention to detail
~life style experience real time
~openmindedness and patience with others
~playful nature with a delicious sense of humor
~willingness to please

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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 11:51:56 AM   
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Hmmm... let's see...

Function well with minimal supervision

I'm a terrific pet wrangler

Excellent housekeeper

Have the potential to be a gourmet chef, given the time and the right kitchen in which to work

Am able to converse intelligently on a wide variety of subjects

Excellent listener

I'm a decent valet

Skilled in accounting and tax preparation, as well as possessing outstanding secretarial skills

Can do most minor household repairs

Love to paint (walls and such)

Good in the garden




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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 12:57:01 PM   
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Hmmm.


  • Adaptable
  • Computer literate and proficient with a variety of software
  • Strong communication skills - written word and presentations
  • Organizational leadership (which is not always the same at being organized)
  • Ability to take in information quickly (written or otherwise) and summarize it for another person in a way they can understand it
  • Independent transportation
  • Excellent cook
  • Proficient snuggler -- and I give good head too
  • I can hide almost anything in my cleavage to sneak it out of a place


On the down side I am a slob, fashion illiterate, tone deaf, and completely inept at all home-type projects.


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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 1:13:06 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth

If you had to write down a list of service related skills, that you have to offer, in your service of Dom/me, or sub/slave, what would be on that list?


In 45 years of living, I've picked up a lot of skills but the most important one is this: If Himself requires me to know something I don't already, I have the ability to learn it.

Celeste


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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 1:39:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth

If you had to write down a list of service related skills, that you have to offer, in your service of Dom/me, or sub/slave, what would be on that list?



I can beat you till your lost in never never land *G*


mmmmmmmm can't think of any other services...

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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 6:48:12 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth

If you had to write down a list of service related skills, that you have to offer, in your service of Dom/me, or sub/slave, what would be on that list?


Off of the top of my head:

- Deep knowledge of music, specifically classical music and opera (the only exception being anything after mid 20th century).
- Play the violin extremely well
- Cook very well - specifically southern, chinese, italian, and general american food
- Financial analysis - budgeting, taxes, etc
- Buisness management - both non profits and for profits
- Statistical analysis
- Strong research skills on just about any topic as well as access to one of the top libraries in the country
- Boot blacking and some general leather care
- General personal assistant skills - scheduling, reminders, keeping track of birthdays, etc
- Very good with software and management of computers, from developing databases in MS Access to being able to fix virus ridden computers
- Decent with massages
- Very good sexual skills
- Fairly good conversational skills

I do agree with Celeste, the most important is really the ability to adapt and acquire additional skills as needed or requested.

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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 7:49:10 PM   
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hmmmm....

i cook very well; i clean; i sew, i knit, crochet, embroider; i give good head and swallow; i give an excellent massage - those are my requisite domestic skills.

**i garden and can grow all except the boston fern.
**i am intelligent and can maintain thoughtful and informed conversation on a variety of subjects including popular and classic literature, western art and history, major western and some eastern philosophy, current politics, and a variety of other topics
**i am creative
**i like learning and am an excellent student able to take direction and grasp both the explicit and implicit nuances while studying
**i have an excellent memory
**i am generally a joyful and content, emphathic and responsible human

newflowers

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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 7:56:45 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth

If you had to write down a list of service related skills, that you have to offer, in your service of Dom/me, or sub/slave, what would be on that list?


In 45 years of living, I've picked up a lot of skills but the most important one is this: If Himself requires me to know something I don't already, I have the ability to learn it.

Celeste



i second this.

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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 8:02:53 PM   
MHOO314


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth

If you had to write down a list of service related skills, that you have to offer, in your service of Dom/me, or sub/slave, what would be on that list?[/


Wait, I'M supposed to have service skills???? hmmmm hmmmm oh yeah...

.......the ability to say, "kneel boy" at all hours of the day!

< Message edited by MHOO314 -- 2/15/2006 8:05:35 PM >


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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 9:54:34 PM   
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quote:

Good question, and there's no possible way I can include them all:

Good working knowledge of pop culture and classical cinema, theater, music and literature.

Excellent background in debate and contextualizing, excellent research skills.

Quick learner, follows directions well

Fastidious organizer, excellent relational memory and trivialist

Offline friendships and contacts to the scene on many levels

Young and in fairly good physical condition, no diseases

Sexually educated and experienced

Computer literate with moderate level of experience in average office programs and database management

No children or sick relatives currently needing daily attending

Independent means of transportation

Excellent shopping and styling skills


quote:

Got a few I could list... and a willingness to learn more... for the right one. Master knows this.. and loves me for who I am now... and as time goes.. will learn more.. and teach him more..


quote:

Some of the most important are my intelligence, my abilities to run most aspects of a business, my earnings potential, my openmindedness and willingness to try new things, my D/s experience, my domestic skills....excellent cook, housekeeping, decorating flair, etc.. personal skills....sexual, massage, bathing, etc...I have a great sense of humor, realistic expectations of a partner, I'm not intimidated by home repair projects or anything that requires some physical work....basically that I am well rounded, have had many life experiences, have an honest and huge desire to please my partner, can juggle many things at once....and I avoid the word "can't".


quote:

~organizational and planning skills.
~ability to multi task
~cooking and baking ability
~immaculate cleaning skills
~youthful energy and spunk
~attention to detail
~life style experience real time
~openmindedness and patience with others
~playful nature with a delicious sense of humor
~willingness to please


quote:

~organizational and planning skills.
~ability to multi task
~cooking and baking ability
~immaculate cleaning skills
~youthful energy and spunk
~attention to detail
~life style experience real time
~openmindedness and patience with others
~playful nature with a delicious sense of humor
~willingness to please


quote:

* Adaptable
* Computer literate and proficient with a variety of software
* Strong communication skills - written word and presentations
* Organizational leadership (which is not always the same at being organized)
* Ability to take in information quickly (written or otherwise) and summarize it for another person in a way they can understand it
* Independent transportation
* Excellent cook
* Proficient snuggler -- and I give good head too
* I can hide almost anything in my cleavage to sneak it out of a place


quote:

- Deep knowledge of music, specifically classical music and opera (the only exception being anything after mid 20th century).
- Play the violin extremely well
- Cook very well - specifically southern, chinese, italian, and general american food
- Financial analysis - budgeting, taxes, etc
- Buisness management - both non profits and for profits
- Statistical analysis
- Strong research skills on just about any topic as well as access to one of the top libraries in the country
- Boot blacking and some general leather care
- General personal assistant skills - scheduling, reminders, keeping track of birthdays, etc
- Very good with software and management of computers, from developing databases in MS Access to being able to fix virus ridden computers
- Decent with massages
- Very good sexual skills
- Fairly good conversational skills

I do agree with Celeste, the most important is really the ability to adapt and acquire additional skills as needed or requested.


quote:

i cook very well; i clean; i sew, i knit, crochet, embroider; i give good head and swallow; i give an excellent massage - those are my requisite domestic skills.

**i garden and can grow all except the boston fern.
**i am intelligent and can maintain thoughtful and informed conversation on a variety of subjects including popular and classic literature, western art and history, major western and some eastern philosophy, current politics, and a variety of other topics
**i am creative
**i like learning and am an excellent student able to take direction and grasp both the explicit and implicit nuances while studying
**i have an excellent memory
**i am generally a joyful and content, emphathic and responsible human


Whew! Classical music! Art! Housecleaning! Cooking! Bookkeeping and accounting! Sexually adept! Snuggler!

Y'all wanna get married?

(To hell with Boston ferns… That's one thing I can grow!)

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RE: service skills!!! - 2/15/2006 11:09:07 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Petruchio


Whew! Classical music! Art! Housecleaning! Cooking! Bookkeeping and accounting! Sexually adept! Snuggler!

Y'all wanna get married?

(To hell with Boston ferns… That's one thing I can grow!)





LMAO @ Yall...... you couldn't handle YALL....

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RE: service skills!!! - 2/16/2006 12:40:29 AM   
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All that might be encompassed by the term 'housekeeping'.
Massage
listening
sexual
ego soothing
peacemaking
communicating
independance
small DIY
Car polisher/valet
chauffeur!!! im so proud of this skill, as he taught me to drive at 41.
porn star lolb
and anything under the heading, nursing.
Socialite
Conversation
Dance partner
willingness to try new skill aquisition, likelihood of success
budgetting my money
spending his

< Message edited by Sirandlittle1 -- 2/16/2006 12:42:40 AM >

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RE: service skills!!! - 2/16/2006 2:35:06 AM   
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LMAO @ Yall...... you couldn't handle YALL....


Yep, trusub, you're absolutely right. On the other hand, it probably takes a crew of 6 just to pick up after my inner child.

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RE: service skills!!! - 2/16/2006 8:19:10 AM   
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Is CBT a service? I have a few subs that would argue that point...

what about the ability to make a boy shake in his boots? could that be a service?

OH OH OH, I know, I can...oh, wait that's not service either.

Nevermind...(said in her best Emily Litella impersonation)


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RE: service skills!!! - 2/16/2006 9:20:59 AM   
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quote:

porn star lolb


This reminded me of a very important skill -

I can tie knots in cherry stems with my tongue. ;) If you've never tried it, you should.. it's a lot easier than I thought it would be and until I actually tried it, I didn't know I could do it. lol

Celeste

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