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piercingfetish -> sub/slave piercing? (2/16/2006 11:15:21 AM)

I am wonerding what Mistresses or anyone else for that matter think of having their sub/slaves pierced? What types of piercings do you like, enjoy? Do you use them for/with chastity, CBT? What guage do you prefer? What about intersourse with piercings? I am not pierced as of yet and am seariously thinking of (have wanted to for as long as I can remember) getting either a PA, or a Frenum.



michaelGA -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/16/2006 11:21:49 AM)

it took me all of a fraction of a millisecond to come to the conclusion that i wll never be peirced...not that masochistic...LOL



thetammyjo -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/16/2006 11:36:15 AM)

I'm really only interested in ears being pierced and maybe nipples. Everything else seems in the way for me and requires more care than I'm patient to wait for or give.



michaelGA -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/16/2006 11:41:26 AM)

i won't even consider that either. call it sexist, but i believe only women should have their ears pierced. men should not.



thetammyjo -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/16/2006 11:57:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelGA

i won't even consider that either. call it sexist, but i believe only women should have their ears pierced. men should not.


May I ask why?

Historically speaking I can say that until the 19th century it was common for certain types of men to have pierced ears and for women to have clip-on earrings -- women were too "Fragile" I guess to suffer.

Now adays you just go to a place in the mall and they use this little gun and its over like that at least for the ears. Nipples require something more.



michaelGA -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/16/2006 12:00:03 PM)

personal preference



jimej6 -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/16/2006 12:18:21 PM)

My ear is pierced and one nipple I had both of them done but the one was done crooked so I got to get it redone. I am also thinking of a Jacobs Ladder, (that is a multiple step piercing of the shaft of the penis.) It is said to be the best for pleasuring your partner. As for personal pleasure for a man (I have heard the ultimate is a Prince Albert, a head piercing (but am not sure I could handle that) The nipple piercing did increase sensitivity. Hood piercing supposedly do the same for a woman making their clit more sensitive. I would never make any one get pierced (unless they wanted me to) I think its personal preference. As for men, traditionally men started the practice in ancient cultures and even in modern times up until the last century it was considered a test of manhood aboard ships to get your nipples pierced. Female piercing (even ears) is a new phenomenon. Believe me I understand why any one would want it done, it does hurt but the rush is worth it. It is also nice to have other was of decorating ones self or partner. lol// Good Question.. Rowan



yourMissTress -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/16/2006 1:32:16 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: piercingfetish

I am wonerding what Mistresses or anyone else for that matter think of having their sub/slaves pierced? What types of piercings do you like, enjoy? Do you use them for/with chastity, CBT? What guage do you prefer? What about intersourse with piercings? I am not pierced as of yet and am seariously thinking of (have wanted to for as long as I can remember) getting either a PA, or a Frenum.




One of my current sub/play partners and I were just (literally 2 hours ago) discussing doing a scene where in I will nail his testicals to a piece of wood. 5 nails. I can't wait.

does that count?

I personally have 19 piercings, and I want more. I love them. I am not a masochist.



MizSuz -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/16/2006 4:10:07 PM)

My favorite male genital piercing is a PA. Yes, you can have cages crafted that can be locked down with the piercing. You can even have custom Prince's Wands made and incorporated into the design of the chastity device.

Intercourse with the PA is no problem at all and I'm told that the position of the piercing causes the guy to get a lot more stimulation.

Some of the best custom extreme jewelry and wands I've ever seen can be had from Steelwerks Extreme (not just steelwerks, which is regular jewelry and body jewelry). You can find their site here: http://www.steelwerksextreme.com/

Check out their chastity devices in the custom section. Good stuff.





HouseofBear -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/16/2006 6:38:14 PM)

I do not care to have my slaves pierced, whether they are male or female (ear piercing is ok, or clithood) for the reason I enjoy playing a tad on the rough side, lol, and sometimes a piercing can get in the way of that.

Lady Ursa



michaelGA -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/16/2006 6:44:09 PM)

ouch...would never submit to that at all.



msub4Domme -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/16/2006 7:14:09 PM)

Although i prefer to be circumspect regarding the origins thereof, i wear a PA (captive ball ring) and frenum (barbell). These have been on me for over 12 years. About a PA piercing, if the piercer is competent, you would be surprised at how little pain is involved. (Initial bleeding notwithstanding.)

At one time i have my nips pierced. That hurt much more than the PA.



MistressAlexaS -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/17/2006 4:28:38 AM)

I would never tell someone they HAD to get pierced. I mean if he wants to do it thats fine and my BF does have some piercings. We are designing our own matching tattoos, which he has 2 tats and this will be a first for me.

I do have a friend who's Master made her get her clithood/nipples pierced. The clit she had no problem with, the nipples she's having loads of problem with, including infection. She wants to let them close, Master says nope deal with it. [&:] I told her hit him in the gnads with a baseball bat so he can identify with the pain she's going thru. [:D]

~Alexa



MissAli -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/17/2006 8:05:54 AM)

The beautiful thing about piercings is that they can be taken away. Unlike brandings or tattoos.

During my year of service training, my owner had three permanent piercings done on my body. They are still there. I ended up really enjoying each one.

With my own boy, I personally pierced his nipple. Something I would never suggest someone do themselves unless they know what they are doing and have received proper training. But, being able to do it myself versus going to some random white walled piercings parlor was wonderful for both of us.

People ask him when he got it done, why, did it hurt, etc. He smiles broadly and pours out his own account of our scene and his Mistresses gift.

So, piercings for slaves/subs has been a great experience for me on both ends of the spectrum. But of course, those are merely my own encounters.



MHOO314 -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/17/2006 10:26:02 AM)

I do know that I want to put a tattoo mark on him, I am thinking about a navel piercing, but we haven't really discussed that--well since he reads My posts, I guess its out now---LOL



Nuke718 -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/17/2006 10:31:04 AM)

Some people use a piercing as a symbol of owhership. Most are non exposed areas, so thery are less visible to the person in the next cubby at work than a collar would be. An as MissAli mentioned they are not as permenant as a tattoo or brand, so that if the releationship DOES end it can be removed if so desired.

On my personal piercing history, I have 2 captives in my ear (black chrome 12 gauge).

In the past I got my tongue done (12 gauge I believe) because I was bored, and it went fine. Removed when my tongue was about to close over the shorter bar I later put in.

I also had a 14 gauge PA done, several times, and was surprised at how little it hurt (The reason it was done several times and why I don't still have it is a loooong story that I would be willing to share over a beer sometime but not important to this discussion). The PA had a little initial bleeding but is one of the faster healing piercings if done well, so Mr Happy can get back in service relatively quickly.

And for those wondering about ari travel, lucite jewelry can be substituted for any removable pieces before you go on your trip ( a tip from a friend who had a dbl-0 gauge PA).

Nuke

PS- forgot to add, none were done for relationships, and I don't consider myself masochistic...



Nahemah -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/17/2006 10:37:31 AM)


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With my own boy, I personally pierced his nipple. Something I would never suggest someone do themselves unless they know what they are doing and have received proper training. But, being able to do it myself versus going to some random white walled piercings parlor was wonderful for both of us.

People ask him when he got it done, why, did it hurt, etc. He smiles broadly and pours out his own account of our scene and his Mistresses gift.


I think that is really spectacular. What a beautiful thing to share between the two of you. *smiles warmly*

Nipple piercings are the only piercing I would like on My boy. Maybe even only one. Just something to toy with, really.

Not a turn off, not a requirement. If the piercings are already there, great. If not, it's unlikely that there will ever be.



KarbonCopy -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/17/2006 9:48:22 PM)

as a person who has given himself at least 63 different peiricings, most being random surface peircings, I must say I totally enjoy this form of identification.



michaelGA -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/17/2006 9:52:17 PM)

just reading these posts makes me have nightmares....OUCH



tasha_tart -> RE: sub/slave piercing? (2/18/2006 11:43:07 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

One of my current sub/play partners and I were just (literally 2 hours ago) discussing doing a scene where in I will nail his testicals to a piece of wood. 5 nails. I can't wait.

does that count?

I personally have 19 piercings, and I want more. I love them. I am not a masochist.

I think they'd definitely qualify as temporary pirecings.

If you are pressed for time, a staple gun works too. I know a Domme who uses one, and have seen pictures of her work.

Tasha



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