flower2007 -> "Dominant in bed" (7/12/2009 3:09:10 PM)
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I've been in a relationship with a wonderful man for the past five months, and we are not very sexually active as I'm waiting for marriage. He supports it 100%. The short story is, little by little, I've let my D/s desires out, and instead of running away, he says, "I'm dominant in bed". He's showed some interest in bondage, not as much in pain...point is, we've talked about it. Good for me, right? His issue is, he's apparently never expressed his dominance in ways other than intercourse and oral, which are both out for us. Basically, he doesn't know how to express it with me. Has anyone been in his situation? I know we're not doomed to nothing sexual before we get married, so how did you handle it? What kinds of things did you incorporate into your relationship and how did you start?
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