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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I enjoy it with a number of types of play and for a number of reasons, in person or not. It just makes me smile thinking about it!  I have even taken pictures and found that added a bit of spice. hehe  Got some of my new bedroom remodel with a number of mirror's.  Very interesting!

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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

I recently purchased a Violet Wand.  I was under the impression that there was something we could do with this that involved having my boy hold a rod while I zapped him.  As long as he held the rod, the torture would continue.  I would be VERY interested in this method of having a boy be an active participant in his discomfort. 

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


I have this mood I get into now and then where I want to make a guy do things to himself while I watch. I could be sitting right next to him or pacing around him, perfectly capable of doing it to him myself - but I find the fact that he's forced to cause HIMSELF discomfort to be really arousing. I may pleasure myself while I watch him, to keep him encouraged and make him feel like a sex object, or I might just sit there and watch. I may give orders to make him do it faster, harder or more painfully, or threaten to 'really' hurt him if he doesn't do it right.

I'm being vague on what "it" is, because it can vary - it's whatever is most painful or uncomfortable for the man. It may be humiliating, like fucking himself with a dildo, it may be painful (like cbt or extreme nipple torture) or it might be helplessness -- fastening on his own restraints when I have the key, or snapping on the handcuffs knowing that once they are on, he isn't going anywhere. 

Do other femdoms enjoy making their subs do things to themselves right in front of you?

Subs - does this kind of 'forced self torture' make you feel more used and helpless, and is therefore more exciting, or do you long for HER to do the things to you?

Akasha

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


I have this mood I get into now and then where I want to make a guy do things to himself while I watch. I could be sitting right next to him or pacing around him, perfectly capable of doing it to him myself - but I find the fact that he's forced to cause HIMSELF discomfort to be really arousing. I may pleasure myself while I watch him, to keep him encouraged and make him feel like a sex object, or I might just sit there and watch. I may give orders to make him do it faster, harder or more painfully, or threaten to 'really' hurt him if he doesn't do it right.

I'm being vague on what "it" is, because it can vary - it's whatever is most painful or uncomfortable for the man. It may be humiliating, like fucking himself with a dildo, it may be painful (like cbt or extreme nipple torture) or it might be helplessness -- fastening on his own restraints when I have the key, or snapping on the handcuffs knowing that once they are on, he isn't going anywhere. 

Do other femdoms enjoy making their subs do things to themselves right in front of you?

Subs - does this kind of 'forced self torture' make you feel more used and helpless, and is therefore more exciting, or do you long for HER to do the things to you?

Akasha

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
I have this mood I get into now and then where I want to make a guy do things to himself while I watch. I could be sitting right next to him or pacing around him, perfectly capable of doing it to him myself - but I find the fact that he's forced to cause HIMSELF discomfort to be really arousing. I may pleasure myself while I watch him, to keep him encouraged and make him feel like a sex object, or I might just sit there and watch. I may give orders to make him do it faster, harder or more painfully, or threaten to 'really' hurt him if he doesn't do it right.

I'm being vague on what "it" is, because it can vary - it's whatever is most painful or uncomfortable for the man. It may be humiliating, like fucking himself with a dildo, it may be painful (like cbt or extreme nipple torture) or it might be helplessness -- fastening on his own restraints when I have the key, or snapping on the handcuffs knowing that once they are on, he isn't going anywhere. 

Do other femdoms enjoy making their subs do things to themselves right in front of you?

Subs - does this kind of 'forced self torture' make you feel more used and helpless, and is therefore more exciting, or do you long for HER to do the things to you?

Akasha