IronBear
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Joined: 6/19/2005 From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz Do you like your submissive to be passive during sex? or do you prefer her to show some assertion, even sexual aggression in the bedroom? Would you deem it un-sublike for a woman to show sexual aggression? I think I am often fairly aggressive during sex but that doesn't mean I don't feel any less submissive. It just makes loosing so sweet! Whilst I enjoy a woman to show some form of sexual aggression including at times the need to be forced into submitting sexually, it is after all just part of the game with the exception of a woman who just can not orgasm unless she is taken forcibly with rough sex which has it's own set of attractions and it's own set of negatives too. I whole lot is very dependant on my mind set at the time. Having said this, if the girl is a slave collared either to Bruin Cottage and even more particularly if she is collared to me, will know my likes and dislikes and also know the limitations as well as being able to pick the times when such play is appropriate. That is to say, if I am in a playful mood or if I just need hard sex. There are also times when I actually need her to be aggressive so I can subdue her physically, beat her arse and take her in as many humiliating degrading ways I can think of. Again still just part of the sex.
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