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Sunnyfey -> Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/20/2009 12:05:46 PM)

Long story short, I have never masturbated unless ordered to by my partner. That includes when I was yonger, before I had a sex life, That includes now that I am single, and every variation in between.

I've never had a dildo used on me.

I've never used a vibe on myself, and have only had one used on me maybe twice in my whole life.


So uhmmmmmm.......

Where do I start?

I dont want *just* a dildo, I want something that vibes, I can imagine, I want a larger one as I'm a bit of a size queen. So, 7"ish? That sounds good.
A quiet one at that, as there are  3 UM's in the house.

Ladies, seriously, help a girl out.



BoundDragon -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/20/2009 12:55:14 PM)

Treat yourself to one that is waterproof too... you can have fun in so many other places. Personally I find having a play in the shower great fun... and its easier to clean up after[;)]



AAkasha -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/20/2009 1:29:38 PM)



The Rabbit (and variations of) is popular among a wide range of women - it's a safe bet. I've had many!

Akasha



fyt2btyed -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/20/2009 7:03:33 PM)

mmmmmm waterproof always a great bet.

believe it or not, one of my favorites was a mini egg vibe.  i liked it better on the outside, tho. 

i have never met a vibe i didn't like...[sm=jerry.gif]



Sunnyfey -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/20/2009 8:48:45 PM)

What about this? You think this covers everything for the Vibe newbie?

http://www.extremerestraints.com/vibrating-sex-toys_80/the-rabbit-in-the-hat-sex-toys-kit_2730.html



bamabbwsub -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/20/2009 8:53:59 PM)

I second, third, and fourth the Rabbit. It's AWESOME! You can get one that rotates, and it has these little beads inside it...wow! But, of course, the best part is those cute little rabbit ears. :::swoon::: [:D]


I'd recommend any of the following:

http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators-c-1046.aspx

Have fun!!



WyldHrt -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/21/2009 1:53:26 AM)

Rabbits definitely rock, and waterproof is even better! I'll toss my overall personal favourite toy in the ring as well:
http://www.xtoysusa.com/3457xusxb.htm
4 speeds, it goes from "that feels good" to "who needs a man" in about 2.2 seconds [;)]
Relax, enjoy, have fun!



ownedslavesweet -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/21/2009 7:25:28 AM)

I've heard the We-Vibe is amazing although I haven't tried it myself. http://www.extremerestraints.com/vibrating-sex-toys_80/the-we-vibe-rechargeable-g-spot-massager_2702.html is a link to it. It has won 'Sex Toy of the Year' around the globe in the last year or two also, surely that means something?? :)

Generally I am not picky, anything that vibrates usually does the job, grins.

lyss



crouchingtigress -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/21/2009 11:28:25 AM)

Hi sweethart,

Part of why folks  like the rabbit so much is because of the clit action, and the way it goes round and round, if you are using it for anal stimulation, its just not as good, because the rectum membrane is very thin and can twist with the twisting motion of the vibrator causing it to become dry and painful, and the other thing is that the anal cavity kind of spreads wide after the insertion point so the gyrating action does not do all that much to be honest.

With the anus the pleasure comes from streching and then squeezing. A butt plug might be a better way to go, you can get a vibrating type if you want, but whats nice is that you dont have to hold it in, and you can use your hands for other things as you bear down on the plug with your mussles.

If you are looking for a dildo I would look for the mushroom head, because the sensation of a tip of a cock is nice for in an out repetitions.

Dont be nervous, its a great thing to learn to pleasure yourself......you have every right to make yourself feel yummy. [:)]






Sunnyfey -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/21/2009 11:40:03 AM)

I dont plan on anal stimulation as I have a lot of medical issues in that reguard.

I dont know I jumped head first into bdsm when i was legal, and kind of...forgot about the more...um normal? Pleasure of the self. I dont know lol, I was more concerned with my partners responses then my own. Now I realize just how much I've been missing!!1



Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/21/2009 11:49:38 AM)

I also recommend making sure you get silicone toys, not jelly rubber or cyber skin since most of those other toys contain phthalates, and they off gas the toxic chemicals used in them,  and the toys also stink too, and jelly toys are sticky and will attract lint and dust like nobodies businessand they can cause major and sever burning sensations to the mucus membranes. Also make sure the lubricant you're using if you need lube is material safe with the toys you're using. Not all lube is compatible with all types of toys.


Btw I had a pocket rocker and it to me sucked. The heads on it the one I liked the best was sharp so you had to be careful or you'd hurt yourself. I havea lso had a cheaper type of rabbit and it sucked too because the battery compartment wouldn't hold the batteries very firmly and so they didn't make contact with what they needed to make contact with so the toy wouldn't run and the company wouldn't refund me.



GotSteel -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/21/2009 6:02:24 PM)

This is the best vibrator ever: http://www.amazon.com/Vibratex-HV-250R-Hitachi-Magic-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE unfortunately it isn't the quietest and one needs to add attachments for penetration 



Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/22/2009 3:23:07 PM)

I would not recommend someone go from complete newbie to such a huge toy. Even seasoned masturbaters say it's to strong for their tastes, and not to assume anything, but if seasoned masturbaters don't like the toy because it's to strong then I do not think a complete newbie to masterbation wuold like it either.
quote:

ORIGINAL: GotSteel

This is the best vibrator ever: http://www.amazon.com/Vibratex-HV-250R-Hitachi-Magic-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE unfortunately it isn't the quietest and one needs to add attachments for penetration 



GotSteel -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/23/2009 9:04:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom
I would not recommend someone go from complete newbie to such a huge toy.


Um, you don't insert it, it's for clitoral stimulation so the size isn't really relevant.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom
Even seasoned masturbaters say it's to strong for their tastes


The majority of "seasoned masturbaters" on the internet and in my personal experience give it very positive reviews.  The hitachi is a very powerful well built vibrator which is what makes it so popular. Some people do find it too strong and use a towel or a controller to dull the sensation.




WyldHrt -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/23/2009 11:26:47 PM)

Honestly GotSteel, I wouldn't recommend a hitachi for someone who is just discovering masturbation and hasn't used many (if any) clit stim toys.... unless you are going to be there to peel her off the ceiling, anyway. [:D]



Sunnyfey -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/23/2009 11:30:01 PM)

*blushes at Wyld*

I'm hoping theres a particular man to do so.........



WyldHrt -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/24/2009 12:10:36 AM)

Tell him to bring a crowbar if you go for the hitachi [:D][:D][:D][:D] 



Sunnyfey -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/24/2009 12:12:00 AM)

You got it [:D]



GreedyTop -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/24/2009 12:37:40 AM)

g-spot vibe

highly recommended



WyldHrt -> RE: Um, Kind of Nervous, But telling you anyway (7/24/2009 2:06:29 AM)

Seconded, Greedy [:D]
The one I have is a little different in design, but the same idea....
... not that I know anything about such things, of course.

-Resident Toywhore [8D]




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