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kiwisub12 -> RE: New Submissive slave seeks advice (8/9/2009 2:22:46 PM)

The ultimate act of submission (for me) is to clean a toilet   -   therefore i would clean his toilet  -   but that doesn't help the OP.  I would hate such a waffley command - i tend to be a bit concrete in obeying commands, and this one would suggest nothing to me.

Maybe you could ask him for a bit of clarification?




RealSub58 -> RE: New Submissive slave seeks advice (8/13/2009 9:35:31 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

if it was this slave's task she would first try to figure out what, specifically, he views as a "submissive act" (by asking him or something) and then attempt to put a unique spin on it.
 
for example, if he sees headstands as a submissive act, this slave would suggest writing a song about him that you could sing while doing a headstand in a charming little costume, like Dorothy's frock in the Wizard of Oz... or something similar.


You will forever amaze me beth.




littleone35 -> RE: New Submissive slave seeks advice (8/13/2009 12:33:22 PM)

He wants something unique???  If we tell you what to do then it would not be unique.    I know what my Master condisers the most submissive thing a woman can do.  It may not be the same as what your Dom thinks.  You have been given  some ideas expand on them and make them your own that would be unique.  Feel free to message me on the other side if you want to know what it is my Master likes.

Matt's littleone




spookyfe -> RE: New Submissive slave seeks advice (8/14/2009 4:27:19 AM)

I would just say its too confusing and i need your guidence master. Lucklily mine wouldnt if he asks my opinion or advice on somthing that is for him to decide its usually because hes thinking aloud he learnt that early on when i just looked at him so confused he just held me and said you know i wouldnt ask i am thinking aloud. ( i am talking of the dominance side of the relationship here smiles)




MastersPanda -> RE: New Submissive slave seeks advice (8/14/2009 8:06:10 AM)

Find out what his likes/dislikes are. What does he enjoy? If he loves camping, plan a trip for both of you to get away to nature for a weekend. Even if you happen to despise camping, it shows you care enough to put yourself aside to make him happy. Have fun with this, it doesn't have to be a chore. Its about making him smile. Like others have said, get creative.

--Masterspanda




HumiliatePorky -> RE: New Submissive slave seeks advice (8/14/2009 8:13:01 AM)

Have you discussed before hand what you may be into as a submissive and dominant with him? He may be desiring you to be creative and see what you'd do to submit, but from my perspective he should give you more an idea by what he means with this request, or perhaps you could give us more details on the outcome:)




CallaFirestormBW -> RE: New Submissive slave seeks advice (8/14/2009 9:22:08 AM)

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I am new to the dom/sub world. My master has requested that i come up with a unique "submissive act" that will demonstrate my dedication to him. I am looking for new ideas. Any suggestions are welcome.


Sweets, if anyone here came up with an answer, it wouldn't be unique to -you- now, would it?

Dame Calla




Focus50 -> RE: New Submissive slave seeks advice (8/14/2009 3:33:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MMagic

Wow,

I think my Sir was right about a few of us around here.  Some of you all have been here so long that the first advice you offer ANYONE is, he's not for you, he's new, She's stupid, dump him or her.  Does anyone ever consider that because she's new she's not exactly sure how to word this or what is being asking of her?  Has anyone here who HAS been in the scene for a while considered what would happen if you slave/sub was new and came here for advice and had to endure the "He's stupid, that task is stupid, he must be new" talk when perhaps his giving her the task is just your method or way of interacting with your sub?  I find it disheartening that so many of you are so negative to the new girl, I was new once, so were all of you.  Yes, by all means criticize constructively but also offer her some advice that may be helpful.

*I* think what her Dom means is pay attention to me. Notice what I like and dislike and come up with something that shows me that you're noticing what I like and what pleases me...then surprise me. 

I read her post and immediately thought of a story my Sir told me this week about something that I did that was completely endearing to him, if only because I have trouble with saying this particular word to him. Sometimes I'm being rebellious other times I just plain out forget, but at that moment when I said it, just as he wanted me to, when he wanted me to, it was endearing.  THIS is what I believe her Dom wants of her.  Is that so horrible to ask of your sub?  Please enlighten me if that's the case, I'm not far off from being new myself.  Am I missing something, should I be as cynical as everyone else is being?


We're not all wrong, or cynical or stale or burnt out blah blah just because *you* disagree with what we've posted...!

And that little story in your last paragraph reinforces the nonsense of the task the OP's master set her. A submissive can't possibly know from within what defines a submissive act to the average Dominant. Only a Dominant (such as the OP's "master") could know that...!

Now, if the average submissive were asked to define a dominant act, I'm sure a first day newbie could peel off quite a few examples because that is what they do know from within.

For cryin' out loud, the task was as ridiculous as a man asking the average woman what looks sexy or feminine on a woman. Sure, she can regale the cliche'd obvious but it's the man asking that'd be the true expert of his own tastes. Which means that if he's gotta ask, then his motives for doing so rightly come under some suspicion (to us cynics, anyway).

Focus.




Focus50 -> RE: New Submissive slave seeks advice (8/14/2009 3:43:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MasterWolfe23

I am a Dom and i have been in this lifestyle for 12 yrs. My subs prove that they are truely loyal to me and not just loyal to what i have to offer in many different ways. I may be able to offer better advice if i knew a little more about the situation you are in.. Feel free to message me for advice.

I've gotta ask about that 12 yrs experience....

You look young in your pic so I took a squiz at your profile - says you're a 23yo daddydom? Suddenly my life seems soooo withdrawn and sheltered....

Focus.




traceoflace -> RE: New Submissive slave seeks advice (8/14/2009 6:50:38 PM)

Get pregnant... the resulting child will be completely unique...and you will have 18 years of caring for his child... doesn't get much more submissive then that.  (that was totally sarcastic...never have a kid unless your ready for one)




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