winterlight -> RE: A reason for all the fakes ? (7/31/2009 11:20:12 AM)
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I ran into a problem with a so called Dom in a chat room. He seemed very interested in me. Somebody looked at his profile and saw a picture that was for a (trangendered female name he has been using, same pic) and which in fact he still uses (the female name), and caught him/her lying to me and the room in particular. When it came out he/she felt it was ok and never apologized and expected me to be ok to being lied to and ready to move (i think that is what he/she was thinking) to be with him after 6 private conversations. He/she never told me she was the transgendered female that i knew and particularly didn't care for. Not that shes transgendered just the personality. She/he never owned up until caught. The person made her/him promise to tell me. She/he didn;t tell me for a week. So, i come to find out after what 3 weeks or more it was her. I really, really hate being lied to. A person likes that disgusts me due to the lying. I don't care if you are pink, purple, polka dotted, white, black, deaf, mixture of cultures, religion just don't lie to me! I thought after 3 weeks maybe i had found someone....It was just another loser posing because they cannot face up to what they really ARE. she/he had the audacity to blame me and say that i lied to her/him! My understanding is now she/he is finding her Dom side. I can understand why people get discouraged with people.... I hope what i typed made sense....
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