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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/2/2009 5:03:49 PM

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Chemistry and trust is a must for me. When Daddy and I were still pretty new to this He once did a few things all at once and it brought up fight and flight response in me. It took awhile to work through it. When new things are introduced by themselves it goes much better. I never thought I would be ok with face slapping but it has moved from being a soft limit to tolerating it and even enjoying it at times........ Another strange thing Daddy likes is spiting on me... I never ever thought I would be ok with anything like that.... But the way He spits on my face then cleaning it up with His kisses is well........ pretty hot...

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 3:02:12 AM

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We take things rather slow... i like getting ideas and mull over them a while first... i get embarrassed about stuff... it can take me a long time before i am 'brave' enough to ask for something... and if it's something really 'weird' usually then He has to think things over Himself a while first...sometimes i get frustrated but mostly that adds to the final result aswell.

I rather take things slow at a pace we both are comfortable with than rush at it and have things fall flat or feel uncomfortable

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 3:16:08 AM

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Face slapping took about a year for me to be comfortable doing. I have never had a problem doing it before but with my boy it was hard because I genuinly thought it would upset him if I did it

Now we love it as part of our play both play slaps and full on head spinning slaps. I guess the only other thing that took a long time to develope was cuckolding.

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 4:47:58 AM

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Interestingly, I would say progression with my Master has been more on the mental side. There is little physical stuff that we have worked up to finding after a certain comfort level. Your example of face slapping has been something I didn't expect to enjoy, but is something that appeared virtually as soon as we met, as well as spitting onto my face/into my mouth etc. The levels of play intensity perhaps go up as the years go by, but not noticeably.

What has changed over time has been our attitudes to our dynamic, and the levels of satisfaction we take in our roles. Treatment that I may have internally struggled with a couple of years ago is now something I enjoy and in fact relish. I do wonder what that means we will be like in 5-10 years, but so long as we are still being mutually satisfied I guess it doesn't matter. I trust in him, anyway, so the point is moot.

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 5:09:27 AM

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I am alergic to metal, so chaining me up is usually not on the agenda, but last night feet were chained, wrists were chanied, neck was chained and I stayed in it for a long time.

We were both happy, because as many of you know, it realy is the "propper" way to eat cherries :)

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 11:13:48 AM

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If you coat the chains in clear nail polish, you might not get the metal allergy. Or tool dip.

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 11:23:40 AM

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Just a real quick jacking. Can't wait to meet you Steel. When is the trip to Cali? Wish We could have timed our stop in Your town a little better and met, but from what I understand We still will. Regards to andi.

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 11:30:59 AM

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ACTUALLY...... Mercandbeth and I are discussing a trip RIGHT NOW.

It will either be Real Soon or Novemberish.

Waiting on the Ink to Dry Before starting a thread on in.

I am thinking about just saying Fuck the Appropriate time line and making it Andi and My and Caryns Birthday Party Tripo Cause Andi is Sept 22 I am October 27th and Caryn is October 7th. Make it One Big Party Get Silly and Spank some Butt. The Girls Not Mine....... Actually I might be willing to take one or two from LP but the negotioations will be long and wroght with escape clauses LOL.

I look forward to meeting with You Guys as well.

Had you simply called an Hour Earlier we could have had Breakfast.

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 11:35:54 AM

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OK now this is interesting. LadyP's Bday is Sep 26, and Mine is Oct 1. We can make it the west coast birthday gala celebration party where subbies can take all of the spankings and I am getting old LOL. (blowing on the ink so it dries faster).

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 11:45:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

ACTUALLY...... Mercandbeth and I are discussing a trip RIGHT NOW.

It will either be Real Soon or Novemberish.

Waiting on the Ink to Dry Before starting a thread on in.

I am thinking about just saying Fuck the Appropriate time line and making it Andi and My and Caryns Birthday Party Tripo Cause Andi is Sept 22 I am October 27th and Caryn is October 7th. Make it One Big Party Get Silly and Spank some Butt. The Girls Not Mine....... Actually I might be willing to take one or two from LP but the negotioations will be long and wroght with escape clauses LOL.

I look forward to meeting with You Guys as well.

Had you simply called an Hour Earlier we could have had Breakfast.

Steel

LOL. I had already woke you up the way it was. There should already be a whack in order for your ability to get ready for your day over the phone!

We've got plenty of space in the house and you and yours are more than welcome.

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 11:49:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

LOL. I had already woke you up the way it was. There should already be a whack in order for your ability to get ready for your day over the phone!

We've got plenty of space in the house and you and yours are more than welcome.

Me and Mine is now THREE do you have accomodations for us and could you stand having us all in your home like bunnies?

Because in the event that Mercandbeth just cannot find the time we may take you up on that and make it a Birthday Extravaganza...... Of course you know Wyldhrt will have to be there Aparently MrP and I need to Get her to determin who is worse on SDS (Same Damn Spot) Disease..... I think she just like the attention and the inability to sit.

I have Vacation time that I have to use soon or I will lose it and I would rather get paid to be away than do it for free.

LOL

Like I said Mercandbeth and I are talking just waiting for ink to dry.

Steel

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 11:55:02 AM

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So what? You bring sleeping bags or pillows. If nothing else, you can sleep on clip's bed. Take My word that it's rather comfortable. I've been sleeping on it during the transition and I can assure you that it will do.

Did you happen to see Wyld's pics? I'm not the SDS person, as that was already done. Have her show you the stripes!

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 12:00:39 PM

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I think anything good sould take time, then aggen it can at times be fun to just jump in and smack that ass... er face

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 12:09:34 PM

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I think anything good sould take time, then aggen it can at times be fun to just jump in and smack that ass... er face

This is kind of how I was about the face smacking. It was a wild hair I got up my ass but I didn't just haul off and smack her one. I asked if I could and she asked if she had a choice and I said in this case she did but that I wanted to. Now we do it every once in awhile and again I am more attracted to the mind fuck of her flinching and thinking it is comeing then I actually enjoy the smacking of her.

Things like Watersports we are still in talking stages on but that is for my own desire because I really don't know how I feel about the concept I am not into degregation but I am told that it is not really about degregation but the experience I would just hate to pee on her and go..... Okay, that was just weird. Now Shower up.

Things like Knife play like we did the other night was different andi was afraid of the knife so we never did it, caryn was not so after I did it to caryn andi was interested so I did it to her too and now she likes it. So It took three weeks to do it with caryn but 3 years to do it with andi.

Other things I jump right into because I feel that the fear factor is based on an imaginary issue and it I can show that they act is not as scary as they are making it in thier head I want to get past those things quickly. Luckily there is a great deal of trust in my house and so both girls are really willing to let me drive them anywhere I want to take them.

I really want a good set of Single Tail Poppers to play with....... anyone got a set you don't play with anymore I'll pay for shipping them to me?

I got two Riging Bats on Order they should arrive in two weeks or so. Looking forward to that.

Steel

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 12:18:25 PM

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I do have to say, that is part of the fun of having two. When one watches the top and other bottom doing things that may be a bit more than they've gone into, they get that little flicker of seeing it and maybe thinking it might be fun. It's very rare that two are on the same level in all types of fun stuff. Often, they see a certain thing and think that it looks like it could be enjoyed.

Sometimes, watching, and seeing that it's not so bad, can be very..... inviting.

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RE: "Honey, It took us three years to get to the p... - 8/3/2009 3:25:23 PM

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Are there things that you find easy and expect right away that a few years ago would have been something you took very lightly and took a lot of time with?

Pretty much everything that isn't new to me... regardless if it's new to my partner or not. If it's new to me... I take more time to engage in it than I would otherwise. If it's new to my partner... I take more time than if it wasn't but less time than if it was if it was new to me. However... just because I do X with partner A... doesn't mean I will be interested in doing X with partner B. In fact... I have found there are things I do with A and things I enjoy with B and some thinks I do with both. Then there is of course awhole lot that I do with neither... but you never know what I will do with C and D.. then there is E...

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