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pyroaquatic -> RE: Gift? Or Something Else? (8/9/2009 8:35:02 PM)

You are the one person out of many individuals that I choose to bow down to. Of course my submission is a gift. Otherwise I will take it elsewhere.

HarryVanWinkle.... you do have to be there to have your place. Free will is a wonderful thing... but to say.... Her Will.

You choose to say it.

and it gives me shivers of pleasure to do so. well, it will.

[&:]

YEAH.



Taggerung -> RE: Gift? Or Something Else? (8/11/2009 6:52:41 PM)

meh. How to say this... When a submissive bows to me, I view that as a gift of trust. They are trusting me enough to know whats right for them and they expect me to honor that and do what's best for them. I view that as a gift. Something to be treasured.

Or it could be the helpless romantic in me. One way or another... [;)]



pyroaquatic -> RE: Gift? Or Something Else? (8/11/2009 8:17:07 PM)

I would prefer hopeful romantic. ^_^



hthum -> RE: Gift? Or Something Else? (10/5/2009 4:13:09 PM)

I was in here checking out a certain person's posts, and decided to respond to this thread. I have noticed within our community there is often a trend toward labels. Gifts and tributes are troublesome terms. Is it a gift when a Top demands a couple of hundred dollars for an hour of lame bondage? Is it a gift when a sub does not bring all of himself, his power, intellect, all of it, to the relationship?
To me, it's more an investment then a gift. I am investing in the relationship, and hope to get an equal investment in return. Personally, I would much rather submit to a person who wants all I have, and brings all they have, then the most experienced, has own own dungeon, so called "Pro-Domme" in the world.
THAT person will deserve "gifts".



SnowRanger -> RE: Gift? Or Something Else? (10/5/2009 4:30:43 PM)

I think that you hit it Taggerung.  Trust is a big deal for me.  I have had a few really bad experiences in the past.  There really is no way to earn that with me.  I have to decide to throw caution to the wind and take that really big step.  Trust is a gift because I cannot (and do not) reasonably expect something in return.

As for a 'gift' of submission...  Come On!..  We call it Power Exchange for a reason!



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