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This is a Re-Post Breaking wrong word - 2/22/2006 11:58:26 AM

2BeMarriedNOwned

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Hello! From all the information and opinions I realize that breaking of a slave may have not been the right termanology. I guess it would be motivation and conversion and condtioning through behavior modification. Mistress trained me by reinforcement of good behaviors and punishment if I commited an offensive offence. She also conditioned me and my responces. If I did something horrid I was put on the St. Andrews cross. I was made to stand there until my arms ached. I then would be whiped or spanked. as this was done Mistress would say, these behaviors are not acdeptable, I expect more from you, You will not do______ again. She would carry this trough until I was crying or sobbing uncontrollably and then was forced to repeat what she had said exactly. She would also stop and pet me. and play with my teticles when I had them. she mixed pain and pleasure and at times I was overloaded. After having had these expereinces i would change these behaviors Immediatly. there was part of me that was afraid of hearing that I was due a Punishmnet session. We did have play sessions but the punishment sessions where a great way to recondition my Ill mannered behaviors. what is intesteing to all of this is I loved her more and more each day. I learned and very rarely got caught or repeated the behavior again. This is what I meant by "breaking" thankyou 2BeMarriedNOwned

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RE: This is a Re-Post Breaking wrong word - 2/22/2006 12:24:53 PM

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Exploing the terminology further: are you looking to create or destroy? Most people can relate to the creation of something new rather than the destruction of something old - although there are those who say you can't have one without the other.

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RE: This is a Re-Post Breaking wrong word - 2/22/2006 3:43:09 PM

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Don't worry about it too much, this is an international forum and there will always be the occassional misunderstanding from that as well as from people just using terminology in a diffrent way.

What you described there is to me not breaking at all. Breaking has far more negative conotations which is probably why people reacted strongly to it. No Dom/me that I respect (Points to the "That I respect" bit before LA jumps on me for making a sweeping statement.... on the other hand, LA jumping on me might be kinda fun

) would do what I consider 'breaking' to a sub.

To me that is just 'training'... molding them, teaching them how to behave in ways more suitable and more pleaseing to their master/mistress. It doesn't break what is already there, it simply builds on it.

Have fun and hope your search goes well.

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RE: This is a Re-Post Breaking wrong word - 2/22/2006 3:49:56 PM

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I expect more from you, You will not do______ again.

Good stuff.
Be grateful you have someone who knows how to dominate you.

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RE: This is a Re-Post Breaking wrong word - 2/22/2006 11:13:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: 2BeMarriedNOwned

Hello! From all the information and opinions I realize that breaking of a slave may have not been the right termanology. <snip> She would also stop and pet me. and play with my teticles when I had them. <snip>

Hmmmm, sounds like "breaking" was rather apropos after all....

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