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spacityheat -> somewhat disappointed (8/15/2009 11:46:54 AM)
We/we are reasonably new to the site and had hoped to meet and exchange ideas with likeminded souls. Wouldn't it be nice if there were a site for all of those that are here for $$ could just go the "pay sites"? Surely there are sites that cater to those wishing to pay for conversation or whatever. We/we are quite serious about real live meetings with others that are genuine and motivated by something other than trolling for dollars. Spacityheat

sirsholly -> RE: somewhat disappointed (8/15/2009 11:49:11 AM)
there's a HUGE amount of awesome people here...

RedMagic1 -> RE: somewhat disappointed (8/15/2009 11:49:51 AM)
This is the way you introduce yourselves? By being negative? You might want to think about whether that approach will cause positive people to be attracted to you, or to pass you by. I've met a lot of great people on this site, and a lot of other people have, too. Welcome, and good luck.

sirsholly -> RE: somewhat disappointed (8/15/2009 11:51:41 AM)
Hell Red...i had to look to make sure they are not "tng's"

spacityheat -> RE: somewhat disappointed (8/15/2009 11:51:45 AM)
Oh, I didn't mean to indicate that there weren't tons of genuine and great folks on here...just that many of the "new members" close to Us/us are in fact working the site for money. (Tho We/we have met one other very super M/s Couple)

Musicmystery -> RE: somewhat disappointed (8/15/2009 12:16:59 PM)
You joined yesterday. Possibly that's not quite enough time. And yeah, if only spammers and scammers would follow rules.... Kinda missing something here.

DarkSteven -> RE: somewhat disappointed (8/15/2009 12:20:36 PM)
A pay site where all the spammers could pay to go and have nobody to fleece. Nice fantasy. That said, welcome!

kittykat19820 -> RE: somewhat disappointed (8/16/2009 9:21:56 PM)
hey i hear ya. we are new too. we have felt a little let down, or out of place here because we have a little differant interest. but on the upside.... try posting something in the ask a master, or ask a mistress. we just posted there and got some supportive feedback. good luck

CalifChick -> RE: somewhat disappointed (8/16/2009 11:47:09 PM)
You might want to browse around a bit before posting. Many believe that slashy speak is indicative of people that live an online fantasy life, and aren't so much real-time. Just sayin'. Cali

kittykat19820 -> RE: somewhat disappointed (8/17/2009 4:33:27 AM)
thanks for your feed back. im not sure what slashy speak means? even if some suspects us of being an online fantasizer, which everyone suspects everyone in cyberspace at first i think, we always we reassure people we can confirm we are real on cam or phone.

Przm -> RE: somewhat disappointed (8/17/2009 8:44:59 AM)
anything worth having is worth working for.. or somesuch thing was said long ago by some very wise man.. probably after his wife whispered it in his ear. This place is worth the effort. Take the time and have patience. and welcome and good luck too!

Rainfire -> RE: somewhat disappointed (8/17/2009 10:04:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kittykat19820 thanks for your feed back. im not sure what slashy speak means? even if some suspects us of being an online fantasizer, which everyone suspects everyone in cyberspace at first i think, we always we reassure people we can confirm we are real on cam or phone. Slashy-speak is when someone uses the "W/we" or "We/we" indicating the D and s. A lot of times that's only found online. As a live-in, married sub, I don't go around saying "W/we" when talking about Lumus and myself. It's just common English usage..... And OP, welcome but do give the site some time. A few days is hardly time to judge anything. It takes time to get to know people and I got to know a lot of people simply by hanging out in the forums. In fact, as many can tell you, that's where Lumus and I met - in Polls & Random Stupidity. Good luck.

portis -> RE: somewhat disappointed (8/18/2009 8:03:41 PM)
somewhat dissapointed,although i am not new to bdsm i am very,very new to computers.i sometimes feel that people think i am playing dumb or something.i have 'met' some pretty cool people at collar me and think it's worth the time.unfortunately i am so computer illiterate i can't help with much of anything as far as navigating through all these options.persevere and soon you will be bossing someone around or vice versa.play safe

Lockit -> RE: somewhat disappointed (8/18/2009 8:15:14 PM)
I'm in Missouri and see the list of people from here all the time and I haven't found a lot that are working it for the money. I've seen a lot of strange kinks in people I would run from... but few who are workin it. There has been a number of fake profiles set up from Nigeria though. But people actually in MO... no... I haven't found a lot of them looking for the cash.

MistressLavinia -> RE: somewhat disappointed (8/18/2009 8:34:51 PM)
I never pipe in here, I never thought about it. Here goes, theres bad and good everywhere. So here you'll find both, but for me, Ive heard and seen all the "this site is full of fakes and scammers, not so. Thats a crock of b.s. coming from who the hell knows where. Theres so many people on here, that you have to weed some out to find the good. I have found some old friends, and some new friends. Some into the same things as myself and some not into the same. On this site your not dipping into your wallet to voice your opinon or to get scammed, they warn you, beware, on some other sites, you'll pay first and then get scammed. Here you control the people you want to talk to or not and it doesnt cost you anything. So take your time, and you will find, some great people. Just look at all the people telling you to give it a shot. Remember no ones controlling you, you didnt pay to be here, and your free to say I dont want to talk to you, or block someone. So sit back and enjoy the site, and the good people that come from all over with some of the same intentions and some not. Only thing is, you decide who to let in your life, and who to let out of your life. Dont be disappointed, be aware. Mistress Lavinia[sm=2cents.gif] just my two cents - i dont charge.

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