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RE: can a switch be trusted - 3/30/2006 7:27:40 PM

apb

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ORIGINAL: 2BeMarriedNOwned

I have found that when listing, if I list as a switch, which I am very capeable to do. It seems that there is a lack of trust by the Mistress or Master. do u find the same????

But, in reality, can *anyone* be trusted?

I would not inherently trust (or distrust) anyone regardless of whether they are dominant, submissive, or a switch. I will trust people because of who they are and what they bring to the relationship/friendship.

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RE: can a switch be trusted - 4/5/2006 8:11:34 AM

Dustyn

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Switches cannot be trusted to be either submissive or dominant. It is a simple fact of the nature of a switch.

As a human being, they can be trustworthy or not. But, speaking as a Dominant, I cannot 100% trust a switch to remain submissive to me from start to finish. I find it, at the very least, to almost be a waste of my time to encourage their submissive nature, which can be an amazing source of strength for a lot of people. It doesn't mean that I won't at least try to guide them in terms of their submissiveness, but, frankly speaking, what is the point of guiding and teaching someone about some of who they could become when all it takes is a simple choice and all of that work, energy and patience is tossed away like last night's chicken bones?

The only thing I trust a switch to be is unpredictable.

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