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Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collarme p... - 8/18/2009 3:45:23 AM   
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Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collarme profiles; does it work (for you)?

It's well known that (many) men post pics of their cocks and (some) men even post pics of themselves wanking off in their Collarme profiles.

Correspondingly, many (prospective) women find this, um ,... er ... uh, (somewhat) unattractive, at best.

I have my opinions - but - let's hear it from those in the know.

Why do (many) men post pics of their cocks in their Collarme profiles - since (many) women find that unattractive - and, does it work (for you)?
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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 4:07:04 AM   
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I have received emails where the person has sent dic-pics uninvited.  I can only assume that a person sends a picture of that which they feel best displays best who they are and what may be most important to them. 

When my Master first contacted me, He sent a picture of His other cock... the 06 HD Heritage with the 20" apes.  And yes, it not only made me wet, I was soaking!



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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 4:13:39 AM   
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Obviously, I don't (nor would I) post a picture of my dick, but I'm not sure why people get up in arms over it, but not over women posting pics of their boobs or cunts.

As to why they do it, the only thing that comes to mind is, most men enjoy looking at women's body parts, so they assume the reverse will be true. A cynic would suggest posting pics of their wallet might generate more interest, thankfully, I'm a romantic, so I'll leave that to others.


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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 4:14:23 AM   
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yes yes... definitely unattractive & not enticing in any way.... especially when you state in your profile that you are not seeking any'thing'.... and one of those 'things' turns up in your email looking all embarrassed & wrinkled & sorry for itself.

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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 4:23:13 AM   
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i find alot of women will post pictures of cleavage aswel, like really who wants to see that.. 

i typically avoid talking to people i can only picture as a giant penis or tits, i dont find it completly vulgar, kinda nice sometimes even.. i just assume they are just seeking sex/play which im not so i move on,  a nice classy pic that says "this is my body type and i love it" is always good tho

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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 4:50:28 AM   
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Unasked for...a dick is a dick is a dick.
It wouldnt warrant a response other than "send me another when your balls drop laddie"
but most times not even that. And I like porn/nekidity....just not as an introduction.
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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 4:52:43 AM   
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If anyone feels prudish about this site maybe a trip to alt.com? By comparison Collarme looks like something Victorian.
I have my opinions about cock.....most of those opinions make me look like a cock obsessed sex addict....so I try to look interested in the whole person by saying it's not the cock it's what the cock has got that's important.
I don't know how enlightened or convincing that sounds.
Whichever end I start it's good to work my way through all the chakras.



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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 4:58:23 AM   
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This type of profile screams "newbie." And newbies seem to assume females into BDSM are loose and looking for cock. And I admit, this is MY assumption, since I can't conceive of any other reason to do this.

I don't search the profiles, but I've received quite a few first time messages with a cock pic included. It makes me laugh. 

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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 5:03:17 AM   
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I just assume that the men get off on exposing themselves.    In other words, it doesn't help them find a compatible woman, but that's not their goal.

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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 5:41:10 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: pompeii

Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collarme profiles; does it work (for you)?

It's well known that (many) men post pics of their cocks and (some) men even post pics of themselves wanking off in their Collarme profiles.

Correspondingly, many (prospective) women find this, um ,... er ... uh, (somewhat) unattractive, at best.

I have my opinions - but - let's hear it from those in the know.

Why do (many) men post pics of their cocks in their Collarme profiles - since (many) women find that unattractive - and, does it work (for you)?



Why worry about it? Does such things make you feel inadequate? Probably not and in any case the poor lads are only posting pictures of their best feature and of course showing the best face/head they have.


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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 6:04:15 AM   
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I think the whole concept of marriage evolved out of men's insecurities about their dicks.
I mean if you can find/get a virgin and marry her, keep her in the kitchen-closet under a black bag you really haven't got to face the problem of her comparing your dick to anyone else.




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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 6:24:17 AM   
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like I said in the otehr thread...

all I can think when I see teh genital pics (male or female) is "Is this seriously what you consider to be your best asset?"

I understand that studies show that men are more visually oriented than women, but still...
and Pompeii, I know you said on the other thread something about men not wanting to show their faces.. ok, I get that...but there are plenty of ways to post a pic without a face shot that do NOT include genitalia...


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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 6:29:05 AM   
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I really believe they believe that since they are so turned on by a women's genitals, that we women, should be turned on by theirs.  Unfortunately, they & their profiles find their way into the, "I'm not interested," file. 

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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 6:35:05 AM   
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..I guess one day I will be rich and famous.  I refuse to post naked pics of me anywhere...

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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 6:36:22 AM   
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*grins at MIssIsis*

I'm on my second marriage, and I wasnt exactly a nun in between the two.  I *KNOW* what a dick looks like...in a multitude of varieties...

I'd rather see a pic of someone scuba diving, for instance (gives me an idea of outside interests), or a pic of a piece of artwork.  I wanna know there's something between the ears, cause what's between the legs ain't all that.....


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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 6:38:29 AM   
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..I guess one day I will be rich and famous.  I refuse to post naked pics of me anywhere...


And yet you plaster naked pictures of that slut parrot all over.


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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 6:42:09 AM   
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These type of profiles say only one thing to me...'This is me, this is all I have to offer'.
It doesn't matter what they say in their profiles, the first impression I get is that they're a dick...plain and simple.  I'm interested in everything a man has to offer...not just his favorite part.



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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 6:48:43 AM   
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quote:

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Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collarme profiles..



Because they don't have parrots?


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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 6:58:51 AM   
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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

..I guess one day I will be rich and famous.  I refuse to post naked pics of me anywhere...


And yet you plaster naked pictures of that slut parrot all over.



dammit, STeven.. between you and Stella my nose hurts (beverage exploding out through the nostrils can NOT be good for the cillia!!)


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RE: Why do men post pics of their cocks in their Collar... - 8/18/2009 7:59:48 AM   
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I dont and I hope  a BUNCH of other guys do.  Why?... the ladies dont seem to like it at all and the more newbies and idiots that put tiny little cocks on their profile, the better I look LOL

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