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profile imput please - 8/19/2009 12:14:51 AM

SweetNika

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I alway have trouble with writing my profile and tonight I rewrote mine and would like some imput. I wanted it to paint a picture of who I am and what I am looking for. I am not sure if it is to personal or not or to vanilla although the reality is I am a person before I am a submissive.

Thanks for the imput.

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RE: profile imput please - 8/19/2009 12:20:47 AM

GreedyTop

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looks good to me :) Gives a sense of who you are:) Only thing I would modify is what YOU can bring to the table.....

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RE: profile imput please - 8/19/2009 12:28:47 AM

SweetNika

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Thanks Greedy,
I tried to frigure out how to do that but couldn't fiure it out other thanwhat is in there. lol But then again it's past 3 am.

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RE: profile imput please - 8/19/2009 4:41:58 AM

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What Greedy said.

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RE: profile imput please - 8/19/2009 5:17:17 AM

SweetNika

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I am drawning a blank even after getting some sleep as how to do that better.

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RE: profile imput please - 8/19/2009 5:31:15 AM

CarrieO

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Hi Nika...
Writing profiles can be challenging, trust me! I've made more changes to mine then I care to remember. Yours is good...clear, straightforward and upbeat. The photos are nice and to be honest, I'm not sure what else you could add.
Just my

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RE: profile imput please - 8/19/2009 5:33:56 AM

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Thank you Carrie, your right they are hard especially when you want to paint an accurate picture of who you are and what your about.

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RE: profile imput please - 8/19/2009 9:30:00 AM

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I loved the "real human" feel to it SweeNika. The one question I had is what, exactly, do you mean by dominant male? My own experience on collarme tells me that description covers A LOT of ground :)

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RE: profile imput please - 8/19/2009 9:41:15 AM

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Nika.. try expressing yourself about things you enjoy in a vanilla context: books? what authors? Movies? what genre? Music? Whats your favorite band? What do you do in your free time? If you had to pick a historical figure that you would most like to emulate, who would it be?

stuff like that :)

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RE: profile imput please - 8/19/2009 9:41:29 AM

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I really like it! :)

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RE: profile imput please - 8/19/2009 9:46:24 AM

SweetNika

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Jeff,
Thank you I wanted it to express the real me not just the lifestyle or kink stuff. I agree but that is the only way I can describe the men I am attracted to ... dominant men.

Greedy,
I thought I kind of did that with the pets,poetry and tattoos. lol

cornflake,
thank you very much

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RE: profile imput please - 8/19/2009 9:56:28 AM

GreedyTop

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Nika.. we're talking aout GUYS... ya gotta be more IN YOUR FACE...LOL

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RE: profile imput please - 8/19/2009 10:05:38 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetNika
I agree but that is the only way I can describe the men I am attracted to ... dominant men.

OK, here is my specific question...

Dominant = "Bedroom dom. Fun sex games"
Dominant = "D/s dom. Some outside the bedroom stuff with boundaries"
Dominant = "TPE dom. Ownership, master/slave stuff"

The first of those I see as radically different than 2 & 3.

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RE: profile imput please - 8/19/2009 11:20:06 AM

SweetNika

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quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527

quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetNika
I agree but that is the only way I can describe the men I am attracted to ... dominant men.

OK, here is my specific question...

Dominant = "Bedroom dom. Fun sex games"
Dominant = "D/s dom. Some outside the bedroom stuff with boundaries"
Dominant = "TPE dom. Ownership, master/slave stuff"

The first of those I see as radically different than 2 & 3.