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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 3/24/2006 9:33:55 AM   
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The male is supposed to be strong and handle all the power in our society, i for one am grateful that Ladies come forward and say that They are truly superior.  It is my theory and i am convinced of it.  Who REALLY handles everything in life until we are "grown up" and go out in the world to make our "mark"?  Mother.  Mom.  A LADY!  i bow before you Dear Lady.  stephi


Actually, my father handled quite a bit of responsiblity while I was growing up as well. And on that note:

http://www.newsroom.ucr.edu/cgi-bin/display.cgi?id=611

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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 3/24/2006 9:59:52 AM   
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Well, I'm not that interested to take a course on it. As I said in my little world I've known I've never encountered unequal treatment of women as in being condoned by the government or society. Individual cases aren't really what a social movement is about.

But I find it hard to take a "movement" seriously that is so fractured in thought that it doesn't even agree on core principles anymore. As you are saying there are so many schools of feminism that it'd take a couple of semesters to understand them all. But doesn't a movement need  unified goals in order to be called a movement? All the other social movements had defined goals they were working towards.  So, wouldn't that imply the movement doesn't even really exist anymore in a practical way, as the different elements can't even come to a consensus on what they are trying to achieve.

If one can't define what you are working towards as in specific goals as a group, then there is no group, or unified school of thought for that matter. It would appear that "modern feminism" is just attaching itself to valid social movement of the past in order to gain credibility.  

I'm not slamming feminism as I really see that as being a thing that had it's need, did it's thing, and then the name got hijacked and used to a large degree to promote unrelated philosphies(female supremacy) and paranoia(male conspiracy to dominate). So, when people are talking of modern day feminist, it has little to do with the true feminist movement of mid last century as that movement had goals and objectives. To put it plainly there were identifiable points inarguably the vast majority of the women identified as feminists agreed upon. Now, if that doesn't exist then it's just alot of little groups attaching to greater name.

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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 3/24/2006 10:18:27 AM   
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Individual cases aren't really what a social movement is about.


Actually, individual cases in any movement are usually the only way things get changed. For example: The case of Jenson vs. Eveleth Taconite Co. (yes, I have been watching North Country) Although women were already protected under the constitution, before this law suit was won there werent really any specific laws, any plan of action or any corperate boards dealing with cases of sexual harassment at the work place. But because that one case set a precedent for all other companies there now is a great deal of social  awareness, companies have employees trained in these issues and many companies have a specific board or HR rep to handle issues such as this one.

Every case is just one step, whether big or small, towards a greater goal.

So, yes, individual cases are infact what a social movement is all about.

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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 3/24/2006 10:21:00 AM   
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Well, I'm not that interested to take a course on it. As I said in my little world I've known I've never encountered unequal treatment of women as in being condoned by the government or society. Individual cases aren't really what a social movement is about.

But I find it hard to take a "movement" seriously that is so fractured in thought that it doesn't even agree on core principles anymore. As you are saying there are so many schools of feminism that it'd take a couple of semesters to understand them all. But doesn't a movement need unified goals in order to be called a movement? All the other social movements had defined goals they were working towards. So, wouldn't that imply the movement doesn't even really exist anymore in a practical way, as the different elements can't even come to a consensus on what they are trying to achieve.

If one can't define what you are working towards as in specific goals as a group, then there is no group, or unified school of thought for that matter. It would appear that "modern feminism" is just attaching itself to valid social movement of the past in order to gain credibility.

I'm not slamming feminism as I really see that as being a thing that had it's need, did it's thing, and then the name got hijacked and used to a large degree to promote unrelated philosphies(female supremacy) and paranoia(male conspiracy to dominate). So, when people are talking of modern day feminist, it has little to do with the true feminist movement of mid last century as that movement had goals and objectives. To put it plainly there were identifiable points inarguably the vast majority of the women identified as feminists agreed upon. Now, if that doesn't exist then it's just alot of little groups attaching to greater name.


It is very fragmented though I'd say the core principal is there just dealt with in an amazing number of ways. The "liberal" branch is the most organized and stable of them all perhaps because dealing with the law and with politics lends itself to requiring higher levels of organization. In a lot of ways feminism has become more philosophical and personal.

I think many social movements do fragment over time, as the decades tick away things change and new people come into the movements and have different agendas.

Feminism is at last two centuries old so I'm not surprised by the fragmentation.

How unified is the civil rights movement or even the much newer gay rights movement?

The "conservative" movement that gained a lot of power in the 1980s and continues is fairly unified but then it has a very interesting history. A history of very focused and purposeful organization which then tried to reach out to more people. In general social movements begin in much less organized ways. While I may be personally annoyed by some of these "conservative" causes (I could never claim to know all of them) I must confess I am impressed with their organizational level and the degree to which they fight to maintain a unified face.

Just a note: If someone said "Conservatives" do this or "Christians" do this or "Blacks" do this I'd be raising the same issues I have with comments about "Feminism". It is very tempting to make such generalizations (I do it and I feel horrible for it when I realized what I've done) but it isn't what I consider beneficial either on a personal or a social level.

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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 3/24/2006 10:30:20 AM   
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Individual cases aren't really what a social movement is about.


Actually, individual cases in any movement are usually the only way things get changed. For example: The case of Jenson vs. Eveleth Taconite Co. (yes, I have been watching North Country) Although women were already protected under the constitution, before this law suit was won there werent really any specific laws, any plan of action or any corperate boards dealing with cases of sexual harassment at the work place. But because that one case set a precedent for all other companies there now is a great deal of social  awareness, companies have employees trained in these issues and many companies have a specific board or HR rep to handle issues such as this one.

Every case is just one step, whether big or small, towards a greater goal.

So, yes, individual cases are infact what a social movement is all about.



Well, only when the case is used to represent a general social issue. I was using that comment to illustrate that there will always be individual abusers but that doesn't necessarily mean it's a system wide problem.  As in for example, isolated cases don't necessarily reflect a social problem.

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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 3/24/2006 10:36:08 AM   
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Well, only when the case is used to represent a general social issue. I was using that comment to illustrate that there will always be individual abusers but that doesn't necessarily mean it's a system wide problem.  As in for example, isolated cases don't necessarily reflect a social problem.


Good point. And I think that the news tends to perpetuates the myth that an isolated incedent is a social problem. They  can sometimes sensationalize things to get more ratings.

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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 3/24/2006 10:38:57 AM   
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Well, I have to go, but I still don't know what any of them are fighting for except the radical ones.  Maybe look into someday, but I'll probably just use that time looking up porn 

That was supposed to ironic and funny.

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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 3/24/2006 10:41:43 AM   
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Well, I have to go, but I still don't know what any of them are fighting for except the radical ones.  Maybe look into someday, but I'll probably just use that time looking up porn 

That was supposed to ironic and funny.


Ah porn! The best way to waste time that I know of.

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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 3/24/2006 1:46:12 PM   
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That is, except for the CM forums...

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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 3/24/2006 2:43:49 PM   
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Just a note: If someone said "Conservatives" do this or "Christians" do this or "Blacks" do this I'd be raising the same issues I have with comments about "Feminism". It is very tempting to make such generalizations (I do it and I feel horrible for it when I realized what I've done) but it isn't what I consider beneficial either on a personal or a social level.


This may have been "Just a Note", but it's a damn fine one. More people should take it to heart.

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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 3/24/2006 7:32:54 PM   
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You were soooo lucky.  i was raised ( as you can tell by my pic) by an assertive mother and strong sister, my dad is a great man but the childrearing action was mom's department.  Good luck to you and happiness to us all!  stephi

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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 4/9/2006 5:13:17 AM   
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caitlyn,  call me stupid!  i` d marry you!!

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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 4/9/2006 7:27:05 AM   
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Nope.

I don't think EITHER gender is by default, automatically superior over the other.

I think some individuals are superior due to their ethics, honor, integrity, and being genuine or because they have a talent or knack or higher intelligence, etc that places them in into a position of being better at that than others.

About it for me.


I totally agree with you. I never could buy into the whole Female Supremacy thing. I don't think anyone is automatically "better" than anyone else simply for gender (or skin color or sexual orientation or religion or anything else). Women are different from men - it's a matter of biology and evoloution. But that does not make one gender better or superior to the other.

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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 4/10/2006 5:29:15 AM   
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This thread is so long and it makes me wonder if anyone bothered reading it before posting an opinion. For the (I lost track of how many times) it is not about gender per se. Before passing an opinion like that please read and do your research.

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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 4/10/2006 3:21:12 PM   
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This thread is so long and it makes me wonder if anyone bothered reading it before posting an opinion. For the (I lost track of how many times) it is not about gender per se. Before passing an opinion like that please read and do your research.

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What's it about, then? Elise Sutton and theories of female supremacy.....it's all about gender.
 
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RE: Is Elise Sutton right? - 4/10/2006 4:07:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

This thread is so long and it makes me wonder if anyone bothered reading it before posting an opinion. For the (I lost track of how many times) it is not about gender per se. Before passing an opinion like that please read and do your research.

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What's it about, then? Elise Sutton and theories of female supremacy.....it's all about gender.
 
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There are many different ideas of Female Supremacy.  GDV had some very nice posts explaining her views on it.  Not sure if they are earlier in this thread or in another archive.  Reading her view, it seemed a whole lot less militant than ES and more inclusive of others points of view. 

My own view of FS/"The natural order" type stuff is it is true to different individuals in their own minds and own worlds, and that is a good thing.  My only concern is when people of those mindsets are close-minded and can only see things their way.  GDV is not that way.  So I can understand her frustration when so many want to condemn her for her lifestyle when they don't even know what it is.

I love Female Supremacy on a personal level, but I certainly don't believe in Elsie Sutton's ideal.  That however doesn't stop me from reading her stuff and, um, let's say finding it thrilling.

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