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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 10:28:30 AM   
LillyoftheVally


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... methinks we should get out more love...

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 10:28:48 AM   
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Good old Full.  Telling us about ToS violations when nobody had previously noticed.

I accept everyone has noticed but some obviously like writing an essay by pissing on a wall just before it rains.

It’s your time.


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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 10:30:22 AM   
LillyoftheVally


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(ed to remove over use of the word love)

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 10:30:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally
... methinks we should get out more love...
The revolution starts at closing time!


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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 10:32:40 AM   
LillyoftheVally


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wait, what was this thread about again?

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 10:34:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally

Nah Ill stay here, dont want to break a nail

wait, what was this thread about again?


The usual stuff.  A guy that wants to be dominated by his little sister.

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 10:41:33 AM   
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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 10:42:54 AM   
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The usual stuff.  A guy that wants to be dominated by his little sister.
No, you should not be dominanted by your sister.

Any other questions?


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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 10:43:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well, I don't see the problem or the illegality of discussing wanting to be dominated by a sister, given that he never once mentioned having sex with her, it seems to be just a Domme slave fantasy, which as far as I have heard is legal.

My advice would be to just start doing it, being submissive or slaveful. Say yes Ma'am. Hod the door open for her. Carry her groceries. Do everything you can for her. Make the sandwich, happily. I am pretty sure if it troubles her she will say something. And if not, you can see where she takes it. Wrestling may be a few visits down the road, so don't push for it. This will take time.

p.s. they had to make incest illegal because many siblings have a tendency toward it.

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 10:45:34 AM   
LillyoftheVally


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Status: offline 		I agree Lost, I've always had issues with consent anyways.

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 10:49:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		Something that is a real aberration would not gain a word in every language over time...so Incest is not uncommon and therefore a certain portion of those may be attracted to this lifestyle. There are, like it or not, happy participants in incest... it is not always an adult child crime.

Most people , me included, are revolted by the thought, but many people are also revolted by the thought of homosexuals as well. So maybe a little more compassion and understanding is needed for consenting adults involved in incest..as long as they recognize the real medical dangers of procreation.

Butch

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 10:53:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		I want people to understand, it's very, very unlikely I will ever engage in any kind of sexual activity with my little sister.  She would have to bring it up, which seems very unlikely to begin with, and even then it wouldn't happen right away.  I would have to be single (currently I am) and I would have serious moral concerns about doing it.  The only problem is that once the cat was out of the bag, so to speak, I would have to resist the temptation for the rest of my life if I was single.

If I find my femdom soul mate, there is zero chance of it happening, and even if I don't there is still very little chance.  It doesn't bother me to fantasize about it, but it would probably really bother me to know I did it.

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:01:58 AM   
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Well, I don't see the problem or the illegality of discussing wanting to be dominated by a sister, given that he never once mentioned having sex with her, it seems to be just a Domme slave fantasy, which as far as I have heard is legal.

My advice would be to just start doing it, being submissive or slaveful. Say yes Ma'am. Hod the door open for her. Carry her groceries. Do everything you can for her. Make the sandwich, happily. I am pretty sure if it troubles her she will say something. And if not, you can see where she takes it. Wrestling may be a few visits down the road, so don't push for it. This will take time.

p.s. they had to make incest illegal because many siblings have a tendency toward it.


This is probably the most sensible suggestion to get it out, if it's there.  Just act submissive around her.  But I'd have to be subtle.  I was clearly the dominant one when we were growing up, but only because I was older, bigger and a boy.  Her challenging my dominant position was not an uncommon thing.  I always put her in her place, but she made it clear she wasn't going down without a fight.

If I suddenly started acting real submissive around her, she would definitely notice, and I think it would make both of us uncomfortable.

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:04:32 AM   
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This is probably the most sensible suggestion to get it out, if it's there.  Just act submissive around her.
No it isn't.  You'd be forcing a BDSM dynamic on her without her consent.

Is it ok for me to go round dominating people without their consent?  No it is fucking not.  This is no different.


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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:12:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		Never having been blessed or cursed by having a sister but there are a few acquaintances whose sisters (and wives) I could allow myself to not just fantasize about but would, given different circumstances, would actually want to Dominate/Collar. Sometimes having a code of conduct is a temporary pain in the arse. 

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:14:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: udaboss

I know.  It's incestuous.  It's wrong.  It's sick.  It's incredibly perverted.

But I have a little sister (3 years younger than me) with whom I had a particularly intense sibling rivalry.  Oddly, I have incredibly powerful fantasies of submitting to her as her slave.  I have had these fantasies my entire life.

And no, I'm not a hick in the hills.  I come from a well-educated upper middle-class family. 

And it's weird, but I suspect it's quite possible she might actually have fantasies of enslaving me.  It's just little things over the years.  Like several years ago she sent me a birthday card with a penguin in a collar and on a leash being held by a woman.  All you saw was the woman's legs below the knees.  It was a kind of hip, art decco style card so she had plausible deniability.  But I have to wonder why my sister would send me a card like that.

And ever since she bought a house a couple of years ago, whenever I go back to my home town, she insists I stay with her and not at my mom and dad's house or with one of my brothers.  She's actually extremely insistent on this. And when I was home in May we were having a discussion about movies and I simply said the word "dominatrix" and the conversation stopped and she just stared at me.  It's just little things like that.

What I'd really like is for her to pin me down in a wrestling match and make me her slave.  She's actually quite a hottie, even though she's in her late 40s now.


LOL? No. . .

But if my cousin was not my cousin.  Oh, the things I would do to her.  I can remember the way she used to look at me.  She wanted it done too - possibly this was my imagination.



-E


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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:16:09 AM   
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An adult male has admitted a fantasy about an adult female. A FANTASY!

For crying out loud! We talk about doing some pretty fucked up things to one another, all in the name of good dirty fun and we are going to have a coronary about this? Just because it set our squick-o-metre off in a horrible high pitched scream?

Dude, you are not the only guy that ever FANTASIZED about someone you were too closely related to. The difference is that, for the sake of family and all that stuff, you really need to keep this one your own little private fantasy.

Don't tell her. Don't involve her in your kink. Just keep it to yourself, for your own little happy place. Concentrate on finding a non related, dominant woman to serve. Because wandering down this path hasn't got ANYthing good at the end of it.

Trust me on this one.


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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:18:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

An adult male has admitted a fantasy about an adult female. A FANTASY!



Is that how you read it? See for me stuff like how 'if they were drunk' and 'Just act submissive around her. But I'd have to be subtle. ' makes it a little different from fantasy, a bit like comparing wanking over johnny depp to hiding under his bed.

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:20:48 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Apocalypso

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ORIGINAL: udaboss
This is probably the most sensible suggestion to get it out, if it's there.  Just act submissive around her.
No it isn't.  You'd be forcing a BDSM dynamic on her without her consent.

Is it ok for me to go round dominating people without their consent?  No it is fucking not.  This is no different.



If this is the case all chicks wearing skimpy skirts must want to be raped.  Especially the chick I saw 4 years ago, who I did not rape and treated kindly, with her big ole titties and shirt that said only, "Stop looking at my eyes".  Forcing that gosh darn, "Rape me" dynamic.


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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:21:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		Jeeze does it have to be a full blown kink? Can't he just play around with her? Like flirting? I play with people every day. It's not Kink, but it's a little kinky, a litttle flirty. How the fuck else do you know if someone is interested? Do you really proposition every person when you first meet them or do you flirt and test the waters first??

Seriously. You people are some of the most conservative kinksters I have ever met. Get off the rules horse. They are there to make sure people don't get hurt. He clearly is not intending to hurt her! I am sure if he did accidentally, she'd hit him or tell him to piss off. She is his sister for crying out loud!

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