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ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally

I just feel maybe that post would have been better in your journal?

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ORIGINAL: Esinn

But how important is it your partner give the 'vibe'/look/feel of their role on a constant basis and Why?  I am thinking out of scene(OOS).  I know it is rehash but anyone inclined to answer.  I will post a reply to myself too.  It is not something I have thought of in this way.  So...  I am not sure 100% how I would answer.  A vibe is something different than judging a book by its cover but in some way still connected.

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ORIGINAL: Esinn

(Hey this is me thinking out loud.  Last time I did that people got a little bent out of shape).
So, my new default picture - you like it?

I playfully shook my tired fist at my daughter after she said something uhh childish.  Obviously I was hot, sweaty, tired, dizzy, in pain, sun burnt and wanted to go the hell home.  Equally obvious we were at Turkey Run National Park in Indiana.  Oh, it was bad ass!  After 6 hours of hiking despite the fact we were both tired as hell I outlasted her by a long shot(such a child she is).

It is interesting when I make posts here, pending what I am posting or responding to this generates interest on the other side of CM (sometimes) - it is neat to track.  My posting volume has recently been down, sorry.  The words on my profile remained the same but this picture(which I thought was "fun") was added and hits went up.  If it is in my head or not, it is not qualities of the pic were brought up, my question is still good.

I do not think I am mean(until it comes to idiots) nor do I view me as a bad ass - as 1 responded.  I am a nerd - I am into science, philosophy, art, warcraft, photography, cosmology and religion  Given the choice I would go home and read instead of fighting.  When I did mixed martial arts I was the training dummy a lot of the time  The pic is me though, burnt, hot, tuckered & jokingly annoyed.

We have talked muscles and the reasons we like when they act like this or that.   But how important is it your partner give the 'vibe'/look/feel of their role on a constant basis and Why?  I am thinking out of scene(OOS).  I know it is rehash but anyone inclined to answer.  I will post a reply to myself too.  It is not something I have thought of in this way.  So...  I am not sure 100% how I would answer.  A vibe is something different than judging a book by its cover but in some way still connected.

I on occasion enjoy a SAM.  However, I absolutely love and am quickly attracted to the look, feel, appeal & vibe of a sub/slave.  Fantasy/invented or not - I have radar for that shit.  It is important to me that she follow through with this when with me and even on her own - I like it.  I will think about why this is and get back with you.  I know I would not really enjoy topping a 'manly' woman or such a vibe thrower.  I get no thrill out of topping one who is physically stronger or better looking.  I like the challenge of the intellectual - but that is to digress.

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ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally

I just feel maybe that post would have been better in your journal?

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

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ORIGINAL: Esinn

But how important is it your partner give the 'vibe'/look/feel of their role on a constant basis and Why?  I am thinking out of scene(OOS).  I know it is rehash but anyone inclined to answer.  I will post a reply to myself too.  It is not something I have thought of in this way.  So...  I am not sure 100% how I would answer.  A vibe is something different than judging a book by its cover but in some way still connected.

If he didn't have that vibe 24/7 I wouldn't be with him. It's not role playing for us. It's who we both are. It's ingrained in our personalities and it's a huge part of how we interact whether it's at a bar having dinner or in bed.

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But how important is it your partner give the 'vibe'/look/feel of their role on a constant basis and Why?

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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

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ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally

I just feel maybe that post would have been better in your journal?

Oh gawd....
posts without questions are tough enough...but posts with rhetorical questions?

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ORIGINAL: Esinn

But how important is it your partner give the 'vibe'/look/feel of their role on a constant basis and Why?