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lusciouslips19 -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:48:35 PM)

Lily,

When some reacts so personally critical of someone and in such harsh judgement, I wonder what is it about the person that riles them so? Is it some how a mirror that they are looking into and these most vile traits in others are what they most fear about themselves??? Just a thought to ponder. I am not a REAL Psycho-analist.[:D]




beargonewild -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:49:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Leiren

quote:

ORIGINAL: frazzle

You claim to be a qualified therapist.

You cant spell, use correct grammer and all your relationships are online disasters.

The only replies you listen to are the ones that validate what you think!!!!

Look at yourself, then you may find the answers, and please God dont try and advise anyone else.


Thank you, Frazzle!

You expressed what I was hesitant to say to the OP since I've only been registered here for a short time. But, in that time, I've read many of her posts. Again, thank you! You summed up what I was grasping to say.




And so the criticism  and nitpicking begins once again.




beargonewild -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:51:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Leiren

quote:

ORIGINAL: porcelaine

not a minute passes when someone isn't handing out advice about a situation they're not directly involved in.

porcelaine



Not to be snarky, but the OP set herself up for replies she might not want to integrate. I dislike 'victims' that repeatedly come onto forums stating that all their problems are a result of someone else just not 'understanding' them.

If a person is unable to clearly articulate what is they're looking for and what is they hope to achieve, then is it any surprise that they can never find what they claim to want?



Bullshit.




LillyoftheVally -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:52:36 PM)

Bear Bear Bear, you are a little late, it was dying down




Prinsexx -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:54:00 PM)

So for the record: I am not here as a therapist. I am not offering therapeutic services here.
I'm here as a s-type and also happen to be a writer/academic/therapist/mother.
If I were a hairdresser and an s type I doubt I would get so personally attacked.





Leiren -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:54:18 PM)

FR:

This reply is directed at lally2:

Don't waste my time with your BS. I never THREATENED anyone that my Sir would respond to any of you. I only suggested that IF any of you had a problem with my posts, you are more than free to take it up with him.

I'm not even suggesting that he will support me whole-heartedly. Just saying that a good number of you should stop the BS and mudslinging.

Again, cmail me and I will forward those cmails to my Sir. Thanks for your time.




Apocalypso -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:54:53 PM)

I fucking hate hairdressers.  Stupid hairdressers and their haircutting.  Bastards.




beargonewild -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:55:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: Leiren

So, LaTigresse, yes. I do believe you're defending a stance on the OP's part that is clearly indefensible since she claims to be a 'licensed therapist' in the U.K.



Then I can only conclude one of two things, my writing skills suck, or your reading comprehension does.



LaT...I have more faith in your writing skills.




Prinsexx -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:56:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally

Bear Bear Bear, you are a little late, it was dying down

Better late than never.




RapierFugue -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:58:32 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Apocalypso

I fucking hate hairdressers.  Stupid hairdressers and their haircutting.  Bastards.


I think I've just worked out why you wear a hat.




LillyoftheVally -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:59:02 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Apocalypso

I fucking hate hairdressers. Stupid hairdressers and their haircutting. Bastards.


Sweetheart thats enough now...seriously can't take him anywhere




Prinsexx -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:59:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Leiren

FR:

This reply is directed at lally2:

Don't waste my time with your BS. I never THREATENED anyone that my Sir would respond to any of you. I only suggested that IF any of you had a problem with my posts, you are more than free to take it up with him.

I'm not even suggesting that he will support me whole-heartedly. Just saying that a good number of you should stop the BS and mudslinging.

Again, cmail me and I will forward those cmails to my Sir. Thanks for your time.


Ok you're on.
I'll take it up with Him.
My flaws...He knows me well enough surely to help me out here...
what's his username by the way?




Leiren -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:59:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: beargonewild

Bullshit.



What qualifies as 'bullshit' to you, proves to me that my own relationship is honest. Take that however you wish.

Thanks!




Apocalypso -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 5:00:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally
Sweetheart thats enough now...seriously can't take him anywhere
I do not believe you let me check that post before you posted it!





LillyoftheVally -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 5:00:56 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: RapierFugue

I think I've just worked out why you wear a hat.



You have NO idea




lusciouslips19 -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 5:04:08 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Leiren

FR:

This reply is directed at lally2:

Don't waste my time with your BS. I never THREATENED anyone that my Sir would respond to any of you. I only suggested that IF any of you had a problem with my posts, you are more than free to take it up with him.

I'm not even suggesting that he will support me whole-heartedly. Just saying that a good number of you should stop the BS and mudslinging.

Again, cmail me and I will forward those cmails to my Sir. Thanks for your time.



Mudslinging????

All of a sudden you're a Victim???? [:o]






RapierFugue -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 5:05:28 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally


quote:

ORIGINAL: RapierFugue

I think I've just worked out why you wear a hat.



You have NO idea


Oh dear. Bad as that eh?

I've recently gone for a no 1 crew cut. I don't look any better or worse than before, but I'm £20 a month better off (have own set of pro clippers, see), plus I rather enjoy shaving my head, or having a girl do it for me, for reasons I can't fully articulate.

Oh, and I now look even scarier than before, which means people tend to get the fuck out of my way in supermarkets, which is good.

Oh and, even better, when you're nice and, say, help little old ladies across the road, or respond politely to people, they're twice as impressed. It's a bit like being a Brummie engineer [1]

[1] I doubt anyone will get that joke, but WTF, I like it




Prinsexx -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 5:06:48 PM)

Sorry just wrote and deleted myself....
cannot think of anything intelligent to say but thought this was worth saying....
last night's flaw is today's.........?
The words came and went.




LillyoftheVally -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 5:08:28 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Apocalypso

quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally
Sweetheart thats enough now...seriously can't take him anywhere
I do not believe you let me check that post before you posted it!




If you have a problem with that take it up with my ... oh, wait. Shit




RapierFugue -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 5:14:25 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally


quote:

ORIGINAL: Apocalypso

quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally
Sweetheart thats enough now...seriously can't take him anywhere
I do not believe you let me check that post before you posted it!




If you have a problem with that take it up with my ... oh, wait. Shit


Look; this lovely Normandy cider isn't cheap.

Well ok, it is cheap, but it costs money to go get it from sodding Normandy.

So I don't want it wasted when it shoots up my nose after I've read something very funny.

Could you warn me next time? Cheers.




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