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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

Okay so this should be a fun topic with a lot of opinions...here is what I am after.

Submissive Males - we are in subservient service to Dominant Women.  They are girls...and thus, they do girly things like plucking, primping, plumping, exfoliating, polishing, nipping, braiding, and 78 other words not normally found in common male diction. 

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

Dominant Ladies- Hi!  You are girls, and thus, you (most of you) perform some combination of girly things like I listed above. 

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim
** For the record, I read the words short-block V8 and Hemi in People once...no idea how/if they go together...

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

Okay so this should be a fun topic with a lot of opinions...here is what I am after.

Submissive Males - we are in subservient service to Dominant Women.  They are girls...and thus, they do girly things like plucking, primping, plumping, exfoliating, polishing, nipping, braiding, and 78 other words not normally found in common male diction.  So as a submissive male, how far do you go in engaging with those girly things that they do?  For example...

You just finished putting a hemi in a short-block V8 that you rebuilt with your own hands**...you wash up and go into your Lady's room where you find her sitting at her dressing table frowning.  When you inquire as you remove your shirt exposing rippling abs and bulging biceps, she states that she doesn't know what to do with her hair for tonight.   What feels better to you...for where you are now, and what you kow about yourself and your Lady...

You turn, putting your hands on her exposed shoulders and offer to put her hair into a french braid for the evening.
...or...
You turn, putting your hands on her exposed shoulders, and kiss her neck and head to the shower as that is just -not- something you know about, should ever know about, nor be expected to help with...just not you, nor your dynamic.

Dominant Ladies- Hi!  You are girls, and thus, you (most of you) perform some combination of girly things like I listed above.  And so how much interaction and participation do you desire from your boy in your girly things?  Would it like freak you out if he understood how to not only  rebuild a short-block V8**, but also put your hair into a french braid, do you makeup, or *gasp* organize your closet?  So...where do you come down on this...

Your hair is -not- cooperating today.  He comes in from working on his engine project and you watch as he removes his shirt, sweaty, glistening, rippling...your submissive male***.  He inquires what is the matter and you have the exchange - he just offered to french braid your hair...what is your reaction...

God I fucking LOVE this man ... ] Rosa repeats I fucking LOVE this man!

So that's it in a nutshell.  We males are not all of us Marlboro Men, and yet we are not all of us comfortable around those -girl things- that girls do.  BUT...we are in service to girls.  How much should we know, learn, and feel comfortable  doing for our Ladies down that road?  And Ladies, how much of that sort of service do -you- feel comfortable with us doing for you?

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I'm not much into girly men, (though I do indulge my friend on occasions, as I so adore him for the wonderful person he is), but, I see these types of servcies provided by someone that takes an interest in my needs and desires. Whether they have or seek to aquire the skills, I would see this person as someone whom actually does more than just talk the talk of wanting to be of service. He would appear to me as a person that seeks to serve in a way that is desirable to me, not just in a way that suits his ideas of what he thinks a d/s dynamic should be. For me, this would be the ultimate sub/slave, This would foster a deeper more rewarding relationship for both of us in the long run.

So to answer, I would feel entirely comfortable with a man having the skiils and providing and the services you mentioned.

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

We males are not all of us Marlboro Men, and yet we are not all of us comfortable around those -girl things- that girls do.  BUT...we are in service to girls.  How much should we know, learn, and feel comfortable  doing for our Ladies down that road? 

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

Okay so this should be a fun topic with a lot of opinions...here is what I am after.

Submissive Males - we are in subservient service to Dominant Women.  They are girls...and thus, they do girly things like plucking, primping, plumping, exfoliating, polishing, nipping, braiding, and 78 other words not normally found in common male diction.  So as a submissive male, how far do you go in engaging with those girly things that they do?  For example...

You just finished putting a hemi in a short-block V8 that you rebuilt with your own hands**...you wash up and go into your Lady's room where you find her sitting at her dressing table frowning.  When you inquire as you remove your shirt exposing rippling abs and bulging biceps, she states that she doesn't know what to do with her hair for tonight.   What feels better to you...for where you are now, and what you kow about yourself and your Lady...

You turn, putting your hands on her exposed shoulders and offer to put her hair into a french braid for the evening.
...or...
You turn, putting your hands on her exposed shoulders, and kiss her neck and head to the shower as that is just -not- something you know about, should ever know about, nor be expected to help with...just not you, nor your dynamic.

Dominant Ladies- Hi!  You are girls, and thus, you (most of you) perform some combination of girly things like I listed above.  And so how much interaction and participation do you desire from your boy in your girly things?  Would it like freak you out if he understood how to not only  rebuild a short-block V8**, but also put your hair into a french braid, do you makeup, or *gasp* organize your closet?  So...where do you come down on this...

Your hair is -not- cooperating today.  He comes in from working on his engine project and you watch as he removes his shirt, sweaty, glistening, rippling...your submissive male***.  He inquires what is the matter and you have the exchange - he just offered to french braid your hair...what is your reaction...

"God I fucking LOVE this man!"
...or...
You frown and say "Wait...what?  You want to do what?"

So that's it in a nutshell.  We males are not all of us Marlboro Men, and yet we are not all of us comfortable around those -girl things- that girls do.  BUT...we are in service to girls.  How much should we know, learn, and feel comfortable  doing for our Ladies down that road?  And Ladies, how much of that sort of service do -you- feel comfortable with us doing for you?

I suspect that the answers will be quite varied, and I hope it will be a fun discussion... 

** For the record, I read the words short-block V8 and Hemi in People once...no idea how/if they go together...

***For the record, this does not look like me...I am both glad and sad about that...a look into the freaky contradictory mind of a girlie boy...

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

My sub knows how to do everything from coloring My hair to giving Me a pedicure.  Not because he enjoys those activities himself, but because he is in service to Me.  They were skills he had to acquire (to some extent) just like any other service that might separate Me from another Dominant.  Such as not cooking meals that include onions (I'm allergic) or knowing that I don't drink coffee.  It's no different than lacing My corset or putting on My boots.  It's not engaging in a girly side.  

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Poppycock.  Men are good at everything.

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ORIGINAL: AnonymouseTC

On a side note, loved the "short block V-8 Hemi" line :)

Granted, it doesn't make sense (Hemi refers to a specific kind of engine..one made by Chrysler with a hemispherical combustion chamber) and a short block v-8 is also a kind of engine...so you couldn't put a Hemi inside a short block V-8 (but you could put a Hemi into a Challenger, Charger, Barracuda, Roadrunner etc), but as a "car chick" I loved the attempt none the less!