ringlets
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proudsub, Actually I wouldn't explain it as 24/7 right now. We are just starting up again after a long break due to the military and moving back home, so we are starting basically at the beginning again, so we can build a strong base and work from there. Maybe that is the problem also, in the past we had it 24/7 and it was very structured and that is when we both thrived in this lifestyle. I have to say in a scene, which doesn't happen very much because of a small house and a teenager in the house..did you all know that a/c vents carry sound...LOL. But, if we do scene...no I don't laugh, and not to sound like a smart mouth, but he is usually holding an implement...so maybe a little of that fear is involved there. sweetpleaser, Oh, yes have very much thought that the 24/7 isn't right for us, especially with all the changes lately, that is why we are starting from the ground up right now and seeing how all the new things in our lives work into the D/s lifestlye. We are not keeping it to one certain time of the day or week, though that is a great idea, maybe to just start off, but it is obvious and ok with both of us that it isn't going on all the time. Like I said when I am working it is definitely not in the picture. But, all the same it still hurts me and him when I laugh or am not in the right mode for submission. If that makes any sense at all. We want it there 24/7, but we really want to build a good strong base to work from. I am a little confused now myself. Definitely time for a chat again. How does one get all the things together to carry on a conversation. One side wanting the 24/7 and the structure of it all and the other side saying take it slow....how does one get the sides to come to an agreement...and I mean within oneself, not between two people. Enough with my ramblings. Have a great day and may your day be filled with many smiles, ringlets
< Message edited by ringlets -- 8/30/2004 12:14:39 PM >
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