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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/4/2009 5:33:01 PM

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Montana, as in MT? We need sombody to throw you in some frame of reference, vis a vis the continental united states.

LOL,
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You've all heard of Hannah Montana? Well, meet her uncle, Yoda Minnesota.

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/4/2009 10:20:12 PM

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Montana, as in MT? We need sombody to throw you in some frame of reference, vis a vis the continental united states.

LOL,
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You've all heard of Hannah Montana? Well, meet her uncle, Yoda Minnesota.

that woulda been a spitter if I had liquid in my mouth.

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/4/2009 11:18:21 PM

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FR~ love the quarters idea!

and my punishments were written standards and essays BORING

I like my s/m too much to get spanked when I am bad.

Utilize the time to focus on how you like things done, like how the dishwasher is to be loaded & unloaded, how you like your socks put away etc

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 2:52:55 AM

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If you are genuinly looking to control and form a working Dynamic then going down the 'play punishment' route is quite the wrong way to go about it. So she broke some of your rules.... have you even asked her or yourself WHY? That is the first step toward being able to find a solution to the problem and prevent it happening again, thus maitaining discipline. If your first reaction is to use it as an excuse for a 'fun punishment' then you are only going to reinforce negative behaviour.

I am Dominant, I Own My girl, if I want to cane her ass I do NOT need some bullshit 'excuse'... I want to and I can, so I do. That is fun, it isn't couched in counter-productive 'punishment' crap.

If she fucks up and disapoints Me, the discipline that follows isn't something either of Us enjoys. But the first thing I need to know is WHY it happened, then I look for a solution to ensure it doesn't happen again. Punishment, IF it is warrented, is used to draw a line under the incident, put it in the past and move on.

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 2:56:31 AM

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Dayum , twice in a week that I have to give props to RM.

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 3:42:34 AM

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I think playing domestic and punishment games are much fun
I like it to be turned on doing my housework

Dress her up in maids gear and fondle her while she does her chores
Have her bathe you, manicure and pedicure... keep the little slut horny while you work her

It sounds like you might have a good time playing eachother
just don't punish her so much that she still hasn't had her orgasm when she goes home again... that would be cruel... or is she there to stay?

I am sure you and her would know if she really has done wrong and you are required to correct her hard

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 6:47:13 AM

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Raven, I am not sure why she made mistakes. I need to be around her face to decide what makes her tick, she is a very quiet un-talkative girl (can someone say "thank the universe")!!! Time will tell as I get to know her and watch her. My guess is lack of experience, possible spoiled brat, possibly just never made to do anything by her parents so she is lazy.

ranja, I am looking forward to making her cleaning and tending to me lots of fun and very stimulating just like you discribed! She is staying a month then we will decide if it will be continuing indefinatley.

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 7:00:12 AM

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This is the first time you've met her? I wouldn't make any plans then because who she is in r/l is quite likely to be different than the online persona. I also wouldn't decide ahead of time that she's totally filled with negative qualities like you've described; lazy, spoiled, princess.

You admit she's uncommunicative so you had best focus on communication. If she can't talk to you, then have her email on a specific issue, journal. Doesn't matter if she's in the next room. Find out whether or not you like her as a person and vice versa, whether or not you're compatible.

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 8:02:15 AM

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It sounds like the chastity thing is a turn-on for her, so you're feeding her brat/SAM tendencies. If she's never tried this before in person, I think you're moving way too fast, and that starting out with 3 days of punishment/negativity could put the entire visit or relationship on a bad footing. I'd suggest punishing her beforehand by requiring her to journal about why she did those things, what she plans to do to prevent them from happening in the future, and perhaps something she can do from a distance ("community service," corner time while on webcam, kneeling on rice, or whatever). Then, when you see each other, you'll have a clean slate and be able to enjoy the time together.

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 10:35:35 AM

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Raven, I am not sure why she made mistakes.

Then I suggest you find out before making 'plans' else you are just playing at this, nothing more

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I need to be around her face to decide what makes her tick,

So all this is on the face of some online bullshit rather than real life, face to face dynamic.... riiiiiiiiiight!

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she is a very quiet un-talkative girl (can someone say "thank the universe")!!!

Why would anyone 'thank the universe' at not having easy access to needed information. Lack of communication is a problem, not a boon. I don't suppose it matters if all you are wanting is a quick fuck but if you want a relationship, especialy a D/s one then I suggest you address the PROBLEM asap.

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Time will tell as I get to know her and watch her. My guess is lack of experience, possible spoiled brat, possibly just never made to do anything by her parents so she is lazy.

Are you a Dominant or just another net-based wanker? don't deal in guesswork, find out the REALITY, face and address the REAL problems you find!

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 10:49:42 AM

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LOL!

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 10:59:03 AM

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Are you a Dominant or just another net-based wanker? don't deal in guesswork, find out the REALITY, face and address the REAL problems you find!

Are you inferring that because they met on the internet and this is their first long stay together that they are less "real" then anyone else who met each other offline?

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 3:30:41 PM

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It isn;t that this is their first real long stay together, it's that the op has planned an elaborate play based first meet with someone she may not be attracted to in r/l.

Cart before the horse. First meet shouldn't be about punishments, they should be low key to allow both to see if the online chemistry translates to real life.

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 4:27:55 PM

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DesFIP got there before Me. Anyone can present themselves as anything behind the anonimity of a keyboard, you can only know the real person after a reasonable time in REAL LIFE. I'm not infering anything I am stating that in My opinion it is NOT!

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 6:19:51 PM

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Are you a Dominant or just another net-based wanker? don't deal in guesswork, find out the REALITY, face and address the REAL problems you find!

Are you inferring that because they met on the internet and this is their first long stay together that they are less "real" then anyone else who met each other offline?

At this point, yes. They are both real live human beings, sure, but what those two human beings are actually like is still up for debate. That was one of my worst fears about meeting my partner for the first time. We had communicated for a good bit of time online and I liked him very much there. I was so afraid that it was all going to wind up being an illusion. I was so worried that I almost didn't go. I'm glad I did because it turned out we were both even better in real life, but it could have gone the other way. The feelings are real, but the chemistry can only be determined to exist in the flesh and blood world by experiencing the same. I hope for it to be as good or better than what OP has come to enjoy online.

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 6:23:31 PM

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OW~! i bit my lip

Punishment: walk, run, crunch along side the baby to be SURE it is really, truly following the required fitness program?

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 7:06:48 PM

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My girl kristine is a rather hardcore masochist, so i have found that pain does not really work for her as a punishment....except for one thing. I take a large number of different types of hot peppers and put them in a coffee grinder, then put them in a motar and pestle with a tad bit of honey to bind them into a paste, and then the grinder until they are a sticky paste.
What I have found is that the sauce is so hot, that it cannot be used from pleasure pain play. It has to be used strictly for punishment. (I tried it on myself and the initial warm effects lasted for 5 minutes, the burning for about 3 hours, even with milk to cool the burn.) It is a last resort sort of punishemnt.
Just for reference on how hot it is, one of the fist things i had my girl do was stuff her pussy and ass full or jalepeno peppers. She enjoyed that sensation. Go to a market that sells peppers and ask for the hottest ones to make the paste.

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 7:09:08 PM

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i just wanted to say that i think you have a fun balance going here. youre meeting for the first time, so, whilst punishment has to be carried out its going to be playful fun punishment but with a sting in its tail for her by disallowing orgasm.

nothing heavy, nothing overbearing, just getting youre point across

and why the hell shouldnt you get some sadistic pleasure from this. you took time and effort to organise her life for her and she messed up, fair go in my book

and just wanted to wish you both lots of fun and happyness. xx

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/5/2009 10:18:32 PM

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OK, you're making her work out. That offers many fun options.

Go running with her, and carry a riding crop. If she slows up, give her a whack on the butt. Make her run at 5 AM in a thong and halter. Nobody out at that hour will care.

Improve her posture. Make her balance a book on her head as she walks around your home. Start with five minutes at a time, and in a few days, she should be able to keep the book in place while doing other things. If she drops the book, you know what to do.

Punishment should be immediate. It's conditioning, like dog training. If she's smart, she'll figure this out, but it will work anyway. That will truly make her into a submissive.

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RE: "Fun" Punishment for a young first time s... - 9/8/2009 5:38:51 AM

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Things went great!

Thanks everyone for your helpful advise!

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