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Andalusite -> RE: Sissification/Feminization/Forced Fem (9/24/2009 12:29:36 AM)

So, I've been inspired by this thread! The next big playparty that my submissive playpartner and I attend, she plans to wear something at least somewhat masculine (button up flannel shirt or t-shirt, jeans, baseball cap, possibly tighty-whities or boxer shorts, etc.). I'll wrestle them off her her, and then into pantyhose, a cocktail-type dress, and, if I can find some cheaply, opera-length gloves. We both think it sounds fun and hilarious, but it's the kind of scene that really needs an audience.[;)]

I agree that while it's hot to think that someone is so on the same page that all of your fantasies will be fulfilled without mentioning them, it's usually a good idea to discuss them a bit. However, waiting for the Domme to take the initiative in that area is best, IMHO.




geomease -> RE: Sissification/Feminization/Forced Fem (9/25/2009 9:14:12 PM)

Being able to express my feminine side is one thing I'm most interested in.  if it were possible I'd dress as a girl as much as possible if not all the time.  All I'd need is a little assitance from the right woman, or man, to help unleash what i feel to be my true self.



MaamJay -> RE: Sissification/Feminization/Forced Fem (9/26/2009 1:11:27 AM)


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ORIGINAL: pinnipedster

It seems to me that the best compromise arrangement would be one where the lady and I thoroughly discussed our respective fantasies ahead of time; but that once she took control, that was it.   I do want to get some of my fantasies fulfilled, or I wouldn't be here.  But letting her decide exactly when, where, and how is not only acceptable -- it's kind of part of the fantasy in the first place.



pinnipedster ... that would make you the kind of CD sub I WOULD be prepared to take on, even after feeling "burned" by My CD ex. he was NEVER willing to let Me control the expression of his fetish ... qed, he didn't really submit, and that quickly infiltrated most other aspects of his "submission". From what you have said, CDing is a much desired part of your overall submission BUT you are willing to hand over the control of the expression of that outlet to your Dominant. Now She'd be silly if She didn't realise that if She totally banned you from CDing She'd have a very unhappy boy who wasn't getting his stated needs met in the relationship. So your "perfect match" is a woman who enjoys seeing Her boy dressed, is willing to push his boundaries a bit in terms of when, where and how but who knows She will still have his loyalty and obedience on those occasions when She does say "Not tonight josephine, I want you to be joe!" I do prefer the term "enforced feminization" a LOT over "forced X-dressing" for all the reasons in this thread. It allows the Dominant to be "The Enforcer" (looks for Clint Eastwood over Her shoulder LOL!)

I do agree that this has been a great thread on this topic, and to Priscilla, thanks for the apology and no worries, I realise My names are a bit confusing so I never take offence, only try to clarify.

Maam Jay aka violet[A]



MistressFuXyoo -> RE: Sissification/Feminization/Forced Fem (9/27/2009 1:13:53 AM)

Personally.. i think the forced aspect  flies in the face/challenges  of /so called traditional gender roles which into turn accommodates roles reversal/power exchange... i'm not sure whether a genetic female would have to have some innate lesbian tendency to get into
a (by all appearances) a (fe)male partner... but obviously living in a judgemental / redneck community would make a 24/7 reality very improbable ( unless ya have a mob with midnite torch fetish )
just one curiosity..is it possible to feminize a genetic woman?



Andalusite -> RE: Sissification/Feminization/Forced Fem (9/27/2009 6:36:52 PM)

MistressFuXyoo, my playpartner and I plan to do just that at the next big public event we attend. [;)]



looking4princess -> RE: Sissification/Feminization/Forced Fem (9/27/2009 7:01:55 PM)

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so the anxiety release is probably why it captures me in BDSM mode).


I read a long while ago that the anxiety release is a commonly reported experience for cross-dressing males, so i wonder just how important the "forced" part of it really is. Just curious, curiousheart. I wonder if the BDSM mode is just a convenience for the CD to give himself permission to achieve that release. Do you get the same anxiety release when you dress in private?



pinnipedster -> RE: Sissification/Feminization/Forced Fem (9/27/2009 9:44:22 PM)

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pinnipedster ... that would make you the kind of CD sub I WOULD be prepared to take on, even after feeling "burned" by My CD ex.


Yay!  Someone gets it.  Thanks, I feel slightly vindicated. :)



designURshemale -> RE: Sissification/Feminization/Forced Fem (9/28/2009 12:16:57 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SaharahEve


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ORIGINAL: curiousheart

Hi,

So, sissification and feminization is an area of play that I've gotten interested in.  (I've always looked rather young/feminine and in vanilla life that isn't always great, so the anxiety release is probably why it captures me in BDSM mode).

But was wondering what are the reasons Dommes' like sissifying their subs?  And also, what types of men do you enjoy doing this to?  I'm somewhat confused, as usually its the alpha macho men types who are on the end of it, so I'm thinking its more a control/humilation type thing, sense of power?

Where to men who already have feminine qualities fit into this?  Appreciate any discussion!

Thanks.


It's funny to see a man pretending to be a Woman. I enjoy it for entertainment and humiliation purposes. If he's into "forced" fem, it's not really forced fem and not nearly half as fun.



In my oppinion there is a differance between men who are turned on by the fact that they are to be forced into female clothes as a purpose of hummaliation and entertainment, and the fact that there are a very few ones - like me - who actually want to be permanently transformed/feminized with the help of hormones, feminization surgery, implants and even permanent makeup. Never to wear anything else than sexy female clothes and highheels. Loosing your identity as man, and over time becomming a shemale only to have a reminder of what you once were between your legs. Being trained to be a "woman" serving also men in the way men want´s a woman to serve them. You can say this is the ultimate way of TPE - think about it :-)



iwearpanties -> RE: Sissification/Feminization/Forced Fem (9/30/2009 5:59:20 PM)

wow that is taeking  big step if life too leave or giev it all up



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