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DavanKael -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 11:28:00 AM)

Not sure if you referenced my spelling as an error or counterpoint, jazz.  :>  The folks I know who identify and practice as such spell their faith with a k rather  than a c. 
I, too, have been to a Sundance and found it to be quite powerful and beautiful.  Understanding that each act is undertaken with specific intent, that every flesh and blood offering is with specific plea, is something that I hold great reverence for. 
I am confused about what you mean by hook suspension; my understanding is that these are not standard at Sundance, rather piercings with buffalo-bone pegs that are attached either to a tree from which one ultimately tears free, for draging skulls, or some other purpose.  No actual hooks, in any information I have ever been given are mentioned. 
I was invited this year but circumstances made such not the year to go...my hope is for next year. 
  Davan




ranja -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 1:00:55 PM)

I was given two pints of blood after a heavy operation in which i had lost so much i was going into shock, as the blood went in i calmed and warmed and i was very greatful...
I have given back more than i took since... i always felt good when i gave and i hope it has done others good.

Furthermore a good fucking when i have my period helps enormously with the cramps and my stress levels

Also heavy snogging means cut lips at times

I have never had deeper meanings for being blood tied though even as a child these games did not mean much to me...




DavanKael -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 1:05:03 PM)

ranja said:
Furthermore a good fucking when i have my period helps enormously with the cramps and my stress levels

My reply: 
So true.  And the endorphin kick doesn't hurt either.  Only issue I've ever encountered with what you're speaking of is cervical sensitivity which seems to diminish after that first extremely painful impact. 
  Davan




allthatjaz -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 1:25:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DavanKael

Not sure if you referenced my spelling as an error or counterpoint, jazz.  :>  The folks I know who identify and practice as such spell their faith with a k rather  than a c. 
I, too, have been to a Sundance and found it to be quite powerful and beautiful.  Understanding that each act is undertaken with specific intent, that every flesh and blood offering is with specific plea, is something that I hold great reverence for. 
I am confused about what you mean by hook suspension; my understanding is that these are not standard at Sundance, rather piercings with buffalo-bone pegs that are attached either to a tree from which one ultimately tears free, for draging skulls, or some other purpose.  No actual hooks, in any information I have ever been given are mentioned. 
I was invited this year but circumstances made such not the year to go...my hope is for next year. 
  Davan


Sorry it was my spelling error.

I first got involved with (My own) hook suspension with Fakir
http://www.bmezine.com/news/fakir/20031115.html
Fakir Musafar encourages the Sun Dance but for those that get involved in hook suspension to follow there own inner beliefs as to what it means. Hooks suspension is very personal.
As someone who already had a great interest in Native American practices and the Lakota people it was natural for me to follow that route.
I would not use bones spears for piercings but I have taken many hours of endurance through self suspension. (I have a pic on my profile). I have also had a spear put through my face (stops you from talking!) which is possibly as near as I will ever get to doing a full sun dance.
I know from my experience that I could never let the hooks rip through my skin like they do but what I can feel is an amazing connection.




DavanKael -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 2:03:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: allthatjaz


quote:

ORIGINAL: DavanKael

Not sure if you referenced my spelling as an error or counterpoint, jazz.  :>  The folks I know who identify and practice as such spell their faith with a k rather  than a c. 
I, too, have been to a Sundance and found it to be quite powerful and beautiful.  Understanding that each act is undertaken with specific intent, that every flesh and blood offering is with specific plea, is something that I hold great reverence for. 
I am confused about what you mean by hook suspension; my understanding is that these are not standard at Sundance, rather piercings with buffalo-bone pegs that are attached either to a tree from which one ultimately tears free, for draging skulls, or some other purpose.  No actual hooks, in any information I have ever been given are mentioned. 
I was invited this year but circumstances made such not the year to go...my hope is for next year. 
Davan


Sorry it was my spelling error.

I first got involved with (My own) hook suspension with Fakir
http://www.bmezine.com/news/fakir/20031115.html
Fakir Musafar encourages the Sun Dance but for those that get involved in hook suspension to follow there own inner beliefs as to what it means. Hooks suspension is very personal.
As someone who already had a great interest in Native American practices and the Lakota people it was natural for me to follow that route.
I would not use bones spears for piercings but I have taken many hours of endurance through self suspension. (I have a pic on my profile). I have also had a spear put through my face (stops you from talking!) which is possibly as near as I will ever get to doing a full sun dance.
I know from my experience that I could never let the hooks rip through my skin like they do but what I can feel is an amazing connection.



Hi, jaz----
Fakir is probably "The" leader of the neo-tribal movement. 
I would caution you and anyone who is looking into amalgamated rituals that you may not be getting the 'pure' thing. 
To some that matters, to others, it would not. 
The Sundance I attended wasn't truly traditional in some ways, according to my understanding: it was a purely male practice and there were female dancers, though none pierced.  I have heard of only one female piercing at that site and it was done through the bicep with an eagle feather attached and the flesh torn and cut off at some point.  Women who pierce are not pierced through the chest as they do not wish to damage the breasts and ability to give milk.  I did not witness that.  I did witness the male I was partnered with cut, pierced, tied to the tree, dance, tear free.  I danced the whole day in support of him and what some may regard as barbaric or horrific in the acts he undertook, I found it quite beautiful and I do not believe I shall ever forget the look on his face as he danced.  I am honored to have shared that experience.  Most others pierced in that way.  There was one guy who was very prideful (Not what it was supposed to be about) who pierced through his back and drug buffalo skulls; I was told by an elder that that is usually a show of dishonor.  The guy was trying to be a rockstar at an event that is not supposed to be about such things.  The buffalo bone pegs are kept by individual dancers and the ropes are their own too, so there's no cross-contamination there.  They're not spears, they're more like very thick needles.  It's sort of amazing how little damage they do when they're inserted.  Then, of course, the torn flesh is cut off and made up as a flesh offering.  The wounds are tended to in a particular way. 
Anyway, I've probably gone on more than most folks are interested in, but I'd love to talk with you further about SunDancing and such: feel free to cmail me, if you'd like.  :> 
  Davan




LadyPact -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 2:27:35 PM)

It was roughly eighteen months into My ownership of clip before there was any activity involving his blood.  When I collared him, I did so with the acceptance that one of his hard limits was needles.  Somewhere just past a year in My collar, I had promised a good friend of Mine in Atlanta that we would attend a stapling and piercing demo.  Not clip's favorite subject, but we were going to be supportive.  It was actually the staples that got him re-examining the idea of having his skin pierced.  Of course, he's come a long way since then.

Since clip is military and in the medical field, he's tested regularly.  I had just been tested a few months before on a different medical matter.  That would be an absolute necessity.






allthatjaz -> RE: blood tied (9/7/2009 1:47:34 AM)

Davan thank you for that. I will message you on the other side.






estah -> RE: blood tied (9/7/2009 6:02:44 AM)

Davan.....more more please. I find the topic amazing.
I remember reading about the sun dance when I was younger.




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