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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:56:57 AM

subtlebutterfly

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Okay dude listen up.
You come here complaining that you didn't find anybody that wanted a person your age.
You came here to meet interesting people and a chick to fuck, now that might mean you need to create a profile that impresses the chicks you want to fuck. Sure many want older guys that know their shit, but that doesn't mean you're excluded and I'm sure there're some chicks that would like to fuck you if you give a good first impression, which right now you're lacking.
If you act mature and responsible and if you find a profile that you like, you could try to see if they're interested...you can point out that you know you don't meet their criteria about being old and experienced but they interest you because of yariyariyari and you two seem to have something in common (and then I mean something else than fucking..).
See what I'm sayin? Now try again love.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:03:32 AM

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patience helps a lot, trust me

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:05:03 AM

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THANK YOU.

See, a positive, nice, polite reply. That's all I was asking for.

And I agree completely with you, especially the 3rd and 4th paragraphs.

I see how I was coming of as egotistical, and realize my mistake in posting as such.

I was just trying to get the point across (which obviously it didn't to many) that just because someone is young, doesn't mean they don't have potential, both emotionally and physically.

I don't want to talk to people just about sex. I want to talk about Star Wars. And maybe some politics. But it really pisses me off that I ask one question and the whole forum comes down on me with a hammer. I previously stated that I would no longer be posting, and you have influenced me to reconsider. Thank you.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:08:41 AM

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Again, with the whole preconceived notions.

I DID NOT COME HERE TO FIND A GIRL TO FUCK. I CAME HERE TO FIND A GIRL TO RELATE TO AND POSSIBLY FUCK.

Hopefully this clears the air a little bit.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:16:56 AM

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fucking/bonding....my statement still stands regardless of why you came here. Sounding/acting mature and responsible gets you far and like fadedshadow said, patience is golden.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:25:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: thebongripper
I was just trying to get the point across (which obviously it didn't to many) that just because someone is young, doesn't mean they don't have potential, both emotionally and physically.

I don't want to talk to people just about sex. I want to talk about Star Wars. And maybe some politics. But it really pisses me off that I ask one question and the whole forum comes down on me with a hammer.

When someone is young, potential is frequently all they've got. That's implicit in the rejection of your youth. You apparently haven't even matured to the "everybody wants someone with experience, but how am I to get any experience if no one will give me a shot?" stage.

If you think this thread is what an entire forum coming down on your head like a hammer looks like, then you spend your time in more genteel corners of the internet than I do. I think people are being very gentle with you.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:25:51 AM

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DarkSteven you have been mercilessly judgmental of me and my profile. You scoundrel. You cad. It's a good thing you judged that you like me.

Mr. Bongripper. You are here, indeed, to impress. To impress the women whom you intend to bed. What you will impress them with right now is illogic, poor mastery of vocabulary and standard English grammar, and a desire to make obscure and rather crude film references that imply you are happy to fuck a woman with bacterial vaginosis so long as she washes up so you can't smell it. These are the hallmarks of immaturity that a lot of the women hope to avoid.

By-in-large, submissive women have hope for a gentleman lover who will adore them, pleasure them, and push them to relish their servitude to him. They may desire humiliation, pain and degradation, but they want it from someone who is both respectable and respectful. This is a forum where people try to locate other people who can approximate a dream. You may, with your swagger and your cocksuredness, be the dream of an underclassmen at your school, but very unlikely to be the dream of a woman who has probably cycled through her time of young men reeking with the bravado of eighteenness.

It isn't the least bit unfair. When you have come through the other side of this period in you life, as many of us have, you will perhaps learn to see what is lovably unattractive about the way you speak and your demeanor. You will find people here incredibly accepting of circumstances over which one has little or no control - age, ethnicity, disability, distance, financial status, kinks, fetishes and unusual cravings... As a community, we virtually live to be fascinated by one another here. However, you have entire control over the behaviors which render you unattractive to the population you hope to woo. That is the essence of fairness. To allow people to judge you for the way you present yourself and how you speak is perhaps the most fair situation one can imagine.

The most mature and well developed qualities you can hope to develop and exhibit to attract the type of woman you desire are perhaps humility and self-knowledge. In that endeavor, I bid you bon chance!

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:40:08 AM

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Okay I didn't eve bother to read that load of farce because it simply is not true. Tell me, don't you think there is a REASON I don't have any photos posted? It's because I'd rather talk casual to someone on the internet before showing them my penis.

You assume so much about someone you haven't even spoken to.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:41:16 AM

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What MissCake said, without changing an olive.

Ref: I once did a catering job - fancy, fancy no-limit budget for lunch buffet for the 16 directors of a foundation meeting here in Denver at the home of one of the members of the board. The host checks with me a few minutes before asking his guests to join him in the (authentic French Deco) dining room (with gold leaf ceiling - you get my drift) as to "How's it going?" My reply: "If the Queen of England were one of your guests, I wouldn't change an olive,"

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:45:00 AM

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I was typing while you beat me to the post......

You say you didn't read MissCake's "farce" but then say "because it is simply not true." What a mind-blowing disconnect. You didn't read it, but you've decided it's not true. THAT is EXACTLY the immaturity you show that is a turn off. Why ask for advice if you won't even read it?

The illogic shown is a turn-off since so very much of WIITWD (what it is that we do, for your future reference) is based in TRUST. Get it? If you are illogical, you can't be trusted to apply logic to the relationship you seek, and therfore can't be trusted in general. Example: Sir, I've done the <whatever> as you commanded. Oh, that wasn't what I wanted you to do. ANY submissive worth their salt would leave immediately..... Oh, wait..... Not immediately. They'd pause to kick you in the balls first.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:47:02 AM

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Your attitude speaks volumes about you. Your choice of wording speaks volumes about you. It's not coming off in your favor. You're 18, you can act more mature than you are, really. My son does.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:49:45 AM

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I read the first few lines. She claims that I AM doing this or I AM doing that, and she doesn't know that, therefore it is not true and her opinion is not worth shit to me.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:51:06 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: thebongripper

Okay I didn't eve bother to read that load of farce because it simply is not true. Tell me, don't you think there is a REASON I don't have any photos posted? It's because I'd rather talk casual to someone on the internet before showing them my penis.

You assume so much about someone you haven't even spoken to.

I'm newer here than you are, and I'm taking my cues from the community response to you. But I'm having a difficult time ignoring the "Troll!" alarm going off in my head.

You do realize that there is room between posting a primary picture to your profile (which according to the rules can't be explicit) and showing a girl your penis? Helpful tip #2, don't send a woman a picture of your penis unless she asks for one.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:53:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

Helpful tip #2, don't send a woman a picture of your penis unless she asks for one.

Even then I'd be seriously thinking it through before doing so. Sometimes "she" isn't always what "she" seems.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:54:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: thebongripper You assume so much about someone you haven't even spoken to.

AH, but YOU have spoken. You have spoken volumes. You haven't yet any idea how much you have said of yourself.

Assumptions are natural and you are more in control of the assumptions people make of you than you think.

Show some mastery. Take control of your image. Make it say what you want people to think of you, and if so inclined, make it say what you hope will attract them to you.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 9:58:31 AM

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bongripper... do you enjoy digging a grave for yourself? You are taking insult where there is none. You are disregarding people who are speaking some good stuff without even reading and then attacking.

If you wish to play with adults dear, you must be one. You are not acting like even an eighteen year old adult and if you were one of my kids, well, you would be treated to a bit of mom smarts.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 10:00:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: thebongripper

I read the first few lines. She claims that I AM doing this or I AM doing that, and she doesn't know that, therefore it is not true and her opinion is not worth shit to me.

Then I'm sorry to say but you missed out on one of the best posts I've read in regards to this age/experience issue.

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ORIGINAL: MissCake
The most mature and well developed qualities you can hope to develop and exhibit to attract the type of woman you desire are perhaps humility and self-knowledge.

My view of you has been formed by what you've offered on these forums thus far and what you have written in your profile. If you aren't pleased with how people perceive you then perhaps you need to look at how you present yourself.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 10:03:29 AM

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Christ you people are so literal.

This has blown into a full on bash on my persona, which in my opinion, has been perpetuated by those that have posted things that are simply not true. Then when I respond, my response is taken as me trying to defend myself.

I was just asking a fucking question. Now we can sit here and argue about my maturity over one thing that I have said, or we could actually have a civil, reasonable conversation, which was my original intention.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 10:13:42 AM

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but...but Carrie! It's so unfair that people wont psychically understand what a gem he is based on his posts here!!

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 10:31:59 AM

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I was typing while you beat me to the post......

You say you didn't read MissCake's "farce" but then say "because it is simply not true." What a mind-blowing disconnect. You didn't read it, but you've decided it's not true. THAT is EXACTLY the immaturity you show that is a turn off. Why ask for advice if you won't even read it?

The illogic shown is a turn-off since so very much of WIITWD (what it is that we do, for your future reference) is based in TRUST. Get it? If you are illogical, you can't be trusted to apply logic to the relationship you seek, and therfore can't be trusted in general. Example: Sir, I've done the <whatever> as you commanded. Oh, that wasn't what I wanted you to do. ANY submissive worth their salt would leave immediately..... Oh, wait..... Not immediately. They'd pause to kick you in the balls first.

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This time I was editing before you (and others) beat me to the post. LOL!

Your illogic shows thru. People here base their relationships on TRUST. If you are illogical, you can't be trusted. (Oh, wait..... we were supposed to talk about his age, weren't we?) Let's see..... young people who are illogical won't be treated any differently than older people who are illogical

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