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Married but submissive - 3/14/2004 9:02:53 PM

subb007

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I am a married man who is very submissive. My wife knows this but just can't get into it. I'm looking for something discrete on the side but I just can't get anyone to respond. I wish to meet a dominant woman in Toronto to serve but I'm not looking for a pro. Am I dreaming?

Any advice would be much appreciated.

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RE: Married but submissive - 3/15/2004 2:00:42 AM

iwillserveu

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quote:

but I'm not looking for a pro. Am I dreaming?

Lovely dream.

Seriously, does your wife know? Yes this can be argued to be "not sex" but explain that to the divorce court judge.

If your wife goes to munches and stuff and makes friends with a Mistress, maybe. (Only "maybe"

)

Seriously, I'm not a Domme, FemDom, Domina, (Domette

),or whatever. I should not speak for them, but your question was too good to pass up!

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RE: Married but submissive - 3/15/2004 11:45:46 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subb007

I am a married man who is very submissive. My wife knows this but just can't get into it. I'm looking for something discrete on the side but I just can't get anyone to respond. I wish to meet a dominant woman in Toronto to serve but I'm not looking for a pro. Am I dreaming?

Any advice would be much appreciated.

I have to agree with Iwillserveu on this one. Sounds like your wife has no knowledge of your submissiveness. I know several couples where one in the marriage is not into the scene. Oddly enough those couples come to munches together. Get to know everyone. Decide who the man or woman will play with together. Usually the husband or wife even watches over the play.
I do know a few couples who are very open. They go to parties singly. Come home and tell the wife or husband all about it.
If you clearly communicate to your wife who you are. How do you know she would not allow you to openly pursue your dreams?

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