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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/18/2009 6:07:20 AM   
CarrieO


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ORIGINAL: faremaiden

Sir girl doesn't know how to tell if a Master is a true Master or if he is fake when online Please Sir may you help girl out she so would appreciate your input Thankyou Sir


Well, I'm not a sir, so you can take this for what its worth.  How do you define a "true" master?  In looking up the defination of master, I found THIS  and of those, what defines the word  best for me, in a bdsm-D/s sense, is 1-d(1); "an artist, performer or player of consummate skill" and 2a;  "one having authority over another."   If a man chooses to label himself Master and yet hasn't taken the time or put in the effort to aquire the skills, he's living a fantasy.  Just my opinion, mind you.

How do you know if someone is a fake?  Well, I'm sure you're talking/chatting with a person, hence the reason for this question, and are thinking perhaps he's not the man you think or the person he's portraying himself to be.  The best way to know is to meet...have coffee...talk...spend time together.  If neither of you are willing to invest the time required to get to know a person and not a label, then you both make the choice, again in my opinion, to live a fantasy. 


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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/18/2009 6:14:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Chimortis

Desperation is a good one. If someone comes off as really trying way too hard to get you into a collar, they're probably full of it.

At the end of the day, the best thing you can do is connect with local people, meet them in a very relaxed public atmosphere, and judge them as a human being. Creepers are creepers regardless of whether they're in the BDSM community or not, and any sensible person can get a feel for someone after spending an hour or two with them.



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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/18/2009 7:07:26 AM   
LanceHughes


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Status: offline 		Sorry, folks.  What I meant was "Your profile says 'Female Switch looking for 'Dominant Men and ONLY that."  A Female Switch would probably list 'looking for Submissive Men' as well.  It is not that Fem Switches should be looking only for other switches, but rather how can a Fem/Switch switch if she's looking for only Doms?  Of course, that could be the case, but it is just another oddity (to me) that makes me call "scammer" on this person.

To me, "faremaiden" is a scammer misspelling "fairmaiden."  Why is it scary?  Because it breaks out to be "fare" as in "pay for it, buster."  Scammers are know for misspellings and grammar errors.  Misuse of idioms is a BIG clue.

And here's another clue - no further postings from "faremaiden."

As to first posting: she doesn't give a clue as to where she got the bad experience of dealing with a "fake" on-line Master.  It sure wasn't here, if this is her first day.  I'd expect a little more background info in the OPing, or maybe a follow-up.

As I wrote, I've spent some time checking out 419'ers and the instant I read the OPing, my "red flags" went up.  One of the things that I learned (years ago) was to follow one's gut before following one's heart.  [No need for a chorus of "I agrees." LOL!]

I am not one to make quick judgments, but the OPing stinks so very, very badly, I just had to let xhe and y'all know what I thought.  Thanks for your appropriate postings should xhe be legit, but I still think faremaiden is a scammer.

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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/18/2009 7:10:22 AM   
LanceHughes


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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

"Master" is an anagram of "Stream" -- Fake Masters don't know that...


Oh My God [spelled out for triple emphasis], I didn't know that!

Oh, wait...... now I do.  :::sigh of relief:::

<Lance runs off to add that to his profile.>

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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/18/2009 3:10:05 PM   
Carmeldelight


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Status: offline 		Here on Collareme as well as many other website you will always find a person trolling, so there is a thing called a faked Dom....

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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/18/2009 6:50:38 PM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		My view is that online is vapor, ether and roleplaying. So, why would it matter if he's TWUE dominant?

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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/18/2009 8:28:51 PM   
DemonKia


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Status: offline 		*ignores scammer / fake conversation, about which I have no interest at this moment*

Okay. First, I think it's important not to confuse the limited labeling choices of CM for some kind of innate shape of the BDSM universe . . . . . Just cuz everyone who posts a profile to CM has to shoehorn themselves into 'Dom', 'Switch', 'Sub', & 'Slave' doesn't mean that that is the be-all & end-all of people's choices in this lifestyle -- but that's an easy impression to take from what you're posting. (& you're not the only one, by far . . . .)

& secondly, the limited label choice does not mean that switches, doms, subs, slaves, & etc have no right to seek whatever flips their wigs back .. .. .

Contemplate the notion of people ticking the 'Switch' box as a way of being fully accountable & transparent because they like to switch, however occasionally or whatever that might be . . . . . But they lean one way or the other or they may currently be looking for a particular flavor -- which right they have . .. . .

There is no Pope of Rope, no magistrate extraordinaire of BDSM affairs (nods thanks to Rinella & Ron). These are creative endeavors (at least for some of us) & people are allowed to shape it the way that works for them . .. . . . *gasp*

quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

Sorry, folks.  What I meant was "Your profile says 'Female Switch looking for 'Dominant Men and ONLY that."  A Female Switch would probably list 'looking for Submissive Men' as well.  It is not that Fem Switches should be looking only for other switches, but rather how can a Fem/Switch switch if she's looking for only Doms? 


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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/19/2009 6:16:26 AM   
sidney614


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Status: offline 		One thing I look at is when they don't even bother to read your profile.


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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/19/2009 10:57:16 AM   
sublace


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Status: offline 		faremaiden is a carnival display, an automaton ( like The Fortune Teller) a pay-for-play amusement. Right?

Insert brass token in coin slot. Where? Way-too-low rise buttcrack-baby blue jean or the valley of cleavage?






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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/19/2009 3:43:31 PM   
vinylchick42


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Status: offline 		***sprays CollarMe web site with fakes' be gone***
 
there all better

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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/19/2009 5:04:46 PM   
LanceHughes


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Status: offline 		sublace: you forgot the juicy, fun-loving oral place (to put the coin, I mean. LOL)

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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/20/2009 4:36:11 PM   
sublace


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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes
sublace: you forgot the juicy, fun-loving oral place (to put the coin, I mean. LOL)


forgive me

edited: please.

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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/20/2009 7:29:17 PM   
Rhodes85


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ORIGINAL: vinylchick42

***sprays CollarMe web site with fakes' be gone***
 
there all better


that was pepper spray dammit!

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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/21/2009 1:30:03 PM   
angelikaJ


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First, I think being a switch of either gender and choosing to look for only either a dominant or submissive partner is perfectly legitimate. Nothing about that suggests "fake" to me.

As to the original question, how does one determine if anything is a fake: by appraising it.

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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/21/2009 4:22:15 PM   
theRose4U


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ORIGINAL: daintydimples

quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

faremaiden: Your handle is scary to a Master.  The fact that you think there's a "true Master" is scary.  You joined the same day you made your first post.  You have no pic on your profile which is brief as can be.  Your lack of punctuation is scary.  Your profile says "Female switch" looking for "Dominant Men" which is - in my view - a contradiction.  I think you ARE an "online fake Master" - probably a 914 scam artist.  Hey, mugu!  Look elsewhere.


I think Lance called this one right. I am curious as to why a fem switch can't be looking for a dominant man though.


Wouldn't call it a can't but mathmatical probability on it isn't good.

Right up there with a female bi-switch looking for a gay male sub...has happened but only once every 100 years or so on a full moon during an eclipse.  

< Message edited by theRose4U -- 9/21/2009 4:24:02 PM >

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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/21/2009 11:58:47 PM   
SailingBum


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ORIGINAL: faremaiden

Sir girl doesn't know how to tell if a Master is a true Master or if he is fake when online Please Sir may you help girl out she so would appreciate your input Thankyou Sir


I keep asking that questions of myself.  Am I a real or a faker???  tell ya what lemme get back to you on that.

I think Im real.  Thinks the OP needs to step back and figure some shit out before they post again.


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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/23/2009 6:49:30 PM   
Chimortis


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Status: offline 		The CM self-identification options are lacking. What's an androgynous male (male in the "I have a penis, not a vagina" sense) who switches in bed, but is totally Dom outside of the bedroom to do? I mean, seriously - what if you were an intersexed genderqueer who is Dominant towards androgynous females but submissive towards masculine males... or what the heck ever.

People are humans - individuals. Ignore the pigeonhole crud and fill out your profile to really descriibe yourself how you want to be seen.

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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/24/2009 4:03:20 AM   
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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/24/2009 10:40:36 AM   
krosiema


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Status: offline 		Re switch female looking for dominant men:

I am a female switch looking for dominant men (well, I didn't check the box, but I am). I put down I'm switch because I have definitely been dominant in my vanilla relationships. So I'm capable of enjoying being the dominant one in a relationship. However, I want to explore my submissive side, and I personally think that would be more of a turn on for me.

There are other reasons as well, but this is the main one.

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RE: Online fake Masters - 9/24/2009 11:20:19 AM   
happylittlepet


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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

Am I a real or a faker??? 



Shouldn't that be 'realer' then?

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