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Orgasm or Subspace? - 2/28/2006 1:34:54 PM

nonuts4thshoney

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ok so i was in the shower again (no this is not a toothpaste on clit story..lmao) and was thinking about which i enjoyed more... subspace or having an orgasm. i like them both alottttt. Then i asked myself a question. If i had to choose to experience only one , whether long term or short term, which one would i choose? Well, i pondered and pondered this question for some time. In fact i'm still pondering it. i can't seem to decide. i have orgasm on one shoulder and subspace on the other. They both want to win me over. LOL!!

So i was thinking of everyone else out there who has experienced subspace. For those of you who have, if you had to choose, which would it be? Subspace or the orgasm?

Then i thought a litle more into it. For those who have not experienced subspace but have a strong desire for an area of play (e.g humiliation, mind fucks etc..) which would you choose? The orgasm or your play or choice?

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RE: Orgasm or Subspace? - 2/28/2006 1:37:43 PM

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Orgasm.

It's something I can share directly with someone else, who can really see it happening very tangibly, and it took me 18 years to finally have one and is still something that doesn't come easy to me.

I get stages of bliss/altered headspaces without "sub space" but there's nothing like an orgasm for me. It's a connection to my sexuality and directs energy in very special ways.

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RE: Orgasm or Subspace? - 2/28/2006 1:50:14 PM

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Personally, I enjoy giving a woman an orgasm over putting a woman in sub-space. The orgasm just has a very tangible connection to me.

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RE: Orgasm or Subspace? - 2/28/2006 1:52:23 PM

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Subspace or the orgasm?

Subspace without question. Most of the reasons which LA listed for orgasm apply to me for subspace.

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RE: Orgasm or Subspace? - 2/28/2006 1:55:59 PM

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I've decided to cut off funding for the space program.

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RE: Orgasm or Subspace? - 2/28/2006 4:30:51 PM

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I would take sub-space each and every time. The feelings that I get while there far outweigh any that come from an orgasm.

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RE: Orgasm or Subspace? - 2/28/2006 4:37:19 PM

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I would have to say Orgasm because it takes pain to get inot subspace and i am not into pain. Thank God neither is Master. well only for punishment and of course spankings ara always fun.

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RE: Orgasm or Subspace? - 2/28/2006 5:57:29 PM

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I would say subspace for me, everytime its a different level i reach and so powerful, but an orgasm is powerful also, especially if its been sometime without one.

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RE: Orgasm or Subspace? - 2/28/2006 6:56:36 PM

slavejali

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I'm not choosing and you cant make me *grin*

However, my sexuality is so tied up in my submission/slavery...they both kinda go together, so I dont think i could choose even if i tried.

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RE: Orgasm or Subspace? - 2/28/2006 7:28:04 PM

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Can't wait to find out this answer for myself. I love having orgasms so much and can have them very easily. I do long for subspace and have felt it a little on one occasion, that has stayed with me and makes me want more very bad.

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RE: Orgasm or Subspace? - 2/28/2006 7:52:49 PM

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You mean we have to choose?

Subspace. Master loves when i go there, and i am in absolute hypnotic bliss. Master loves the orgasms, but i believe he loves the power he feels when i drift....

But in a way i am cheating by this answer because so often i drift to subspace during orgasm (they get pretty damn powerful and overwhelming sometimes).

Interesting question.

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