windchymes -> RE: Testing or other? (9/23/2009 3:27:25 PM)
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It sounds like he just lives in the here and now. That's not always a bad thing, but it's extremely hard on the party not there or.....now. My advice, take it or leave it, is to stop thinking of him as your "owner" and live your life, too. By clinging to him, you're only prolonging your own unhappiness, and keeping yourself closed to something really good for you that will most likely come along. He's already cheated on you once...that you know about. Break it off, beg release, or whatever you have to do and start living! Then, maybe when you're both in a better place to make a committment to each other, he'll be ready, too.
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