worthlesstrash
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Thank you all so much for your answers, I love to get different view points. I made the decision to be the proactive one in our dynamic. He probably won't ask for the things I am supposed to keep track of, he might not even notice what I did to the house that day..but I will do them anyway. When/if he asks for them, they will be ready. I guess I just like to hear "good job", or even the opposite if it's called for. I have always craved that feedback in my life, I have no idea why. It probably stems back to childhood, but I can't pinpoint it. I suppose when someone doesn't ask, I feel they don't really give a crap..sad as that is. I always do what I should, but I don't feel anyone notices if no one says anything
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~anne This girl is a slave, but she is also a woman full of love, life, and who has a ton of interests. Don't judge a book by it's name, judge it by it's content.. His since 10/06/2006 SLRN 166-164-858
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