Acer49
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I'm nineteen. I just found out that my sister is a total manipulative whore and that I have to live with her for the next week and a half, AND pay her $70 bucks for doing so, EVEN THOUGH, shes got... 4 times as much money as me AND she just recently abused me and justifies it as treating me like an "adult", although I felt like dirt and everyone I have told about this has said, yes, she treated you like dirt.
So, like... She had an affair with her boss and never legitimately worked for anything in her entire goddamn life. Hes admitted that all to me. Yet she keeps playing the innocent victim card, and that shes under all this stress, that shes poor, with a 1.1 mil house and shes got $22k in her pocket which her boss gave her as severance pay, when SHE quit.
Like, seriously, I've got 675 to my name and trying to save up for COLLEGE, when shes banking on $22k AND selling a 1.1 mil house, and moving into a cheap ass house, banking 100k or MORE.
How do I deal with this person? I'm going out of my mind, because SHE is talking SHIT about ME behind my back. TO MY FATHER, to all her friends, to her fiance.... Like... I'm never going to have a relationship with any of these people again. Her and her friends/fiance, don't give a shit. But still. I did NOTHING wrong. I've done all that I've needed to do, PLUS managed working 11 hours a day to save money and riding a bus 3 hours a day, while she sat at home and watched TV.
So. I told her I may have overreacted because of the migraine medication I am on. She accepted my apology and wants to heal our relationship. Like, seriously. She didn't apologize back. She accepted my apology. And the reason she wants to heal our relationship is so I can come back when she has her kid so she can "pump and dump" her breast milk and go out partying and drinking, while I babysit the kid and three dogs.
Of course, I'm not an idiot now and I have all this information which her boyfriend/dad probably do not know. SUSPECT, but do not know. Shes so twisted and shes a fucking liar (as her ex-lover puts it/my boss)
I'M 19 FUCKING YEARS OLD.
I just want to work. Take some money to Oregon. Go to Med School. Forget who these people are!
I feel my only family is my mother and that my boss is more of a family than my true family.
These people are fucked up and I'm the SANE one.
You are 19 huh? Well then you should the abilty to comprehend what I am about to say, as this is my rant
I just found out that my sister is a total manipulative whore
Well, since you just found out, it did not effect you and how your sister wishes to live her life, is none of your business
I have to live with her for the next week and a half
No, you are 19 and it is your choice where you live
AND pay her $70
First off, she is under no obligation to support you and 70 for 10 days is not abuse. you food intake will more than likely take half of that, plus the utilites you will no doubt take a portion and we did not even get into what she thinks her privacy and restrictions she may have to endure for your presence in her home
shes got... 4 times as much money as me
675 x 4= 22,000 this must be the new math
I felt like dirt
And that is her fault? No one can make you feel anyway unless you choose to let them
everyone I have told about this has said, yes, she treated you like dirt
19 year olds who are in situations that are unacceptable remove themselves from that situation
She had an affair with her boss and never legitimately worked for anything in her entire goddamn life. Hes admitted that all to me. Yet she keeps playing the innocent victim card, and that shes under all this stress, that shes poor
Again, how she lives her life is none of yourbusiness. It is not up to you pass judgement and if she were to see this she may have a legal right to sue you for defamation of character as all you have is heresay.
This million dollar house you bring up. It is only worth what one is willing to pay, nor is she going to simply put it on the market and it will be snapped up, it could take months or even years to sell it. If by chance it is paid for, there are still taxes and insurance. Let us say she does sell it, she is looking at quite a big chunk going for capital gains taxes. That 22,000 is taxable anywhere from 15 to 27%. And let us not forget since she has no job, how long do you think that 22k minus taxes is going to last?
How do I deal with this person? I'm going out of my mind, because SHE is talking SHIT about ME behind my back. TO MY FATHER, to all her friends, to her fiance.... Like... I'm never going to have a relationship with any of these people again. Her and her friends/fiance, don't give a shit. But still. I did NOTHING wrong.
Unless your character is so suspect. it would seen to me that they people should have known the statements to be false and you would still have your reationships and she would have been thought a fool. Now since you said the relationships have been compromized, it sounds like part of what she said was either true or because of your past, at least a possibility. How do you deal with it? remove yourself from the situation. you are 19. Does your sister have knowledge of this post, looks like you are doing the same thing to her that you are accusing her of.
I've done all that I've needed to do, PLUS managed working 11 hours a day to save money and riding a bus 3 hours a day, while she sat at home and watched TV.
She is not the one looking for a handout a free ride, and as long as she is not asking you to support her, if she desires to sit on her butt and watch TV, that is her right to do so. Again, it is none of your business
So. I told her I may have overreacted because of the migraine medication I am on. She accepted my apology and wants to heal our relationship. Like, seriously. She didn't apologize back. She accepted my apology. And the reason she wants to heal our relationship is so I can come back when she has her kid so she can "pump and dump" her breast milk and go out partying and drinking, while I babysit the kid and three dogs.
19 year olds do not make excuses for their actions nor do they blame it on medication. Just because you were taking migrane medication does not justify in appropriate behavior. If you do not desire to watch babies or dogs, then simply find another place. If this is what she expects in leu of cash payment, you are getting off cheap
Of course, I'm not an idiot now and I have all this information which her boyfriend/dad probably do not know. SUSPECT, but do not know. Shes so twisted and shes a fucking liar (as her ex-lover puts it/my boss)
And you are going to that? attempt to trash her character? Do the same thing you complained about in your post? Two wrongs do not make a right, But 19 year old adults would know this
Forget who these people are!
I feel my only family is my mother and that my boss is more of a family than my true family.
These people are fucked up and I'm the SANE one.
Well you do what you have to do. I am afraid however that your rant was inappropriately placed in a section that was ill suited for it. If you were so intent on thrashing a family member, you should have placed it in your profile.
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