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RE: Disappointed - 9/29/2009 2:33:38 PM

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When I first joined this site it was with high hopes and great expectations that I might have at last found a place where true lovers of bondage, discipline, female domination, and even bdsm came to chat, make friends and maybe one day even meet. But sadly once again I am disappointed. Once again all I found was a site filled with prostitutes pretending to be something they are not and seeking out the sad, desperate and lonely, and dreamers in search of a fantasy world that so many on here claim to inhabit, but outside of fetish clubs and fevered imaginations doesn't actually exist. I am beginning to wonder if there are actually any real people out there, or if the whole d/s scene is simply a cynical ploy by the unscrupulous to make money from the desperate and deluded. Is there a real d/s world out there? Where people are interested in each other, and not just a bit on the side. I think not. Sad but true.

I know I'm a bit late getting in on this one, but it would be My opinion that you take a look through the positive experiences forum. There are indeed a number of folks all over the world that know each other in person from this site in various locations everywhere. There are absolutely people involved in BDSM.

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RE: Disappointed - 9/29/2009 2:35:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: seeksBBW2serve

When I first joined this site it was with high hopes and great expectations that I might have at last found a place where true lovers of bondage, discipline, female domination, and even bdsm came to chat, make friends and maybe one day even meet. But sadly once again I am disappointed. Once again all I found was a site filled with prostitutes pretending to be something they are not and seeking out the sad, desperate and lonely, and dreamers in search of a fantasy world that so many on here claim to inhabit, but outside of fetish clubs and fevered imaginations doesn't actually exist. I am beginning to wonder if there are actually any real people out there, or if the whole d/s scene is simply a cynical ploy by the unscrupulous to make money from the desperate and deluded. Is there a real d/s world out there? Where people are interested in each other, and not just a bit on the side. I think not. Sad but true.

Dude..wake up smell the coffee.
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RE: Disappointed - 9/29/2009 3:18:28 PM

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I am not a real person. I do not attend fetish/kink events as often as possible. I have never actually scened and do not have a deep love for singletails.

I am also made entirely of butterscotch candy.

MMmmmm...butterscotch candy lol

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RE: Disappointed - 9/29/2009 3:20:49 PM

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WELCOME! Quietsoul.

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RE: Disappointed - 9/29/2009 3:22:10 PM

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Haha thanks again fluffypet!

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RE: Disappointed - 9/29/2009 4:43:06 PM

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I am not a real person. I do not attend fetish/kink events as often as possible. I have never actually scened and do not have a deep love for singletails.

I am also made entirely of butterscotch candy.

MMmmmm...butterscotch candy lol

*peeks over* Are you made of root beer? I'm looking for my candy mate.

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RE: Disappointed - 10/2/2009 2:53:41 AM

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You figured it out. Those people don't exist. None. Zero.

You are the only person in on this web site who is looking for that. Probably the world.

I'm actually in on the cynical ploy. I saw that the only real person on earth signed up here and followed you a few months later just to be a part of the elaborate facade designed to disappoint you.

An interesting reply, and as you were the first, second, third yawn', etc to take the time to reply I will answer you.
So I had a look at your profile, and yes it is long and detailed, but for all that you’re still on your own, i wonder why? So let’s have a look. The photo is a bit creepy. I can see where you are coming from; you are trying for that cool John Lennon look. Unfortunately, on you it just gives you the creepy serial killer one. Plus- Anyone who hides their eyes behind dark glasses is seen as just a little creepy,, rather than cool.
So let me take a stab here at who you are. At school, you were a nerd, one of the out crowd. No friends only other nerds. And if you did go to your school prom it was probably alone. You work in 'IT,' probably in an office where everyone treats you as a goffa, and the girls snigger at you behind your back. I would guess you are probably still a virgin, unless of course you pay for it. So you joined this site in desperation and in the hope there might just be someone on here with such low self esteem that they might actually go out with you, and you, and if their sad enough, oops sorry, i meant sub enough you might actually get some sex..
So how close am I, I bet you can almost see yourself in my description, Uncanny or what?

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RE: Disappointed - 10/2/2009 3:10:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: Elipsis

You figured it out. Those people don't exist. None. Zero.

You are the only person in on this web site who is looking for that. Probably the world.

I'm actually in on the cynical ploy. I saw that the only real person on earth signed up here and followed you a few months later just to be a part of the elaborate facade designed to disappoint you.

An interesting reply, and as you were the first, second, third yawn', etc to take the time to reply I will answer you.
So I had a look at your profile, and yes it is long and detailed, but for all that you’re still on your own, i wonder why? So let’s have a look. The photo is a bit creepy. I can see where you are coming from; you are trying for that cool John Lennon look. Unfortunately, on you it just gives you the creepy serial killer one. Plus- Anyone who hides their eyes behind dark glasses is seen as just a little creepy,, rather than cool.
So let me take a stab here at who you are. At school, you were a nerd, one of the out crowd. No friends only other nerds. And if you did go to your school prom it was probably alone. You work in 'IT,' probably in an office where everyone treats you as a goffa, and the girls snigger at you behind your back. I would guess you are probably still a virgin, unless of course you pay for it. So you joined this site in desperation and in the hope there might just be someone on here with such low self esteem that they might actually go out with you, and you, and if their sad enough, oops sorry, i meant sub enough you might actually get some sex..
So how close am I, I bet you can almost see yourself in my description, Uncanny or what?

first...i have been communicating with Elipsis back and forth, as we share the same hometown. In my opinion you are totally wrong about him. Hopefully he will not address your comments, as they are too ignorant for a response.

Secondly, i can clearly see why you have had no luck on this sight.

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RE: Disappointed - 10/2/2009 5:50:48 AM

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first...i have been communicating with Elipsis back and forth, as we share the same hometown. In my opinion you are totally wrong about him. Hopefully he will not address your comments, as they are too ignorant for a response.

Secondly, i can clearly see why you have had no luck on this sight.

OP, holly stepped in with her take on Elipsis... but it really wasn't needed. You came here and asked pointedly why you've had no luck on this site, and received constructive feedback. Elipsis never asked for feedback, and you gave him childish insults. I honestly think that you do not see the difference between constructive criticism and insults.

Kick back, and try to enjoy yourself here. Some of the posters here are such a blast online, that you KNOW it would be fun to meet them in RL!

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RE: Disappointed - 10/2/2009 6:16:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: seeksBBW2serve

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ORIGINAL: Elipsis

You figured it out. Those people don't exist. None. Zero.

You are the only person in on this web site who is looking for that. Probably the world.

I'm actually in on the cynical ploy. I saw that the only real person on earth signed up here and followed you a few months later just to be a part of the elaborate facade designed to disappoint you.

An interesting reply, and as you were the first, second, third yawn', etc to take the time to reply I will answer you.
So I had a look at your profile, and yes it is long and detailed, but for all that you’re still on your own, i wonder why? So let’s have a look. The photo is a bit creepy. I can see where you are coming from; you are trying for that cool John Lennon look. Unfortunately, on you it just gives you the creepy serial killer one. Plus- Anyone who hides their eyes behind dark glasses is seen as just a little creepy,, rather than cool.
So let me take a stab here at who you are. At school, you were a nerd, one of the out crowd. No friends only other nerds. And if you did go to your school prom it was probably alone. You work in 'IT,' probably in an office where everyone treats you as a goffa, and the girls snigger at you behind your back. I would guess you are probably still a virgin, unless of course you pay for it. So you joined this site in desperation and in the hope there might just be someone on here with such low self esteem that they might actually go out with you, and you, and if their sad enough, oops sorry, i meant sub enough you might actually get some sex..
So how close am I, I bet you can almost see yourself in my description, Uncanny or what?

Wow! You seek female domination but you have those little misogynistic gems in that little rant. Take the asshat off, it is messing up your hair-do.

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RE: Disappointed - 10/2/2009 6:51:44 AM

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first...i have been communicating with Elipsis back and forth, as we share the same hometown. In my opinion you are totally wrong about him. Hopefully he will not address your comments, as they are too ignorant for a response.

Secondly, i can clearly see why you have had no luck on this sight.

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: seeksBBW2serve

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ORIGINAL: Elipsis

You figured it out. Those people don't exist. None. Zero.

You are the only person in on this web site who is looking for that. Probably the world.

I'm actually in on the cynical ploy. I saw that the only real person on earth signed up here and followed you a few months later just to be a part of the elaborate facade designed to disappoint you.

An interesting reply, and as you were the first, second, third yawn', etc to take the time to reply I will answer you.
So I had a look at your profile, and yes it is long and detailed, but for all that you’re still on your own, i wonder why? So let’s have a look. The photo is a bit creepy. I can see where you are coming from; you are trying for that cool John Lennon look. Unfortunately, on you it just gives you the creepy serial killer one. Plus- Anyone who hides their eyes behind dark glasses is seen as just a little creepy,, rather than cool.
So let me take a stab here at who you are. At school, you were a nerd, one of the out crowd. No friends only other nerds. And if you did go to your school prom it was probably alone. You work in 'IT,' probably in an office where everyone treats you as a goffa, and the girls snigger at you behind your back. I would guess you are probably still a virgin, unless of course you pay for it. So you joined this site in desperation and in the hope there might just be someone on here with such low self esteem that they might actually go out with you, and you, and if their sad enough, oops sorry, i meant sub enough you might actually get some sex..
So how close am I, I bet you can almost see yourself in my description, Uncanny or what?

first...i have been communicating with Elipsis back and forth, as we share the same hometown. In my opinion you are totally wrong about him. Hopefully he will not address your comments, as they are too ignorant for a response.

Secondly, i can clearly see why you have had no luck on this sight.

You live in the same home town, Share an interest, Correspond? So why have you never met?
And he was the one who had a hissing fit at my post and made things just a little personal. I was simply stating that most of the people on this site are either Pro- Domme's (Prostitutes to you and me. or simply fantasists, and that very few actually live the life in the way i see it. You have in fact proved my point by stating you live in the same town as Elipses, but have never felt inclined to meet him. Why.

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RE: Disappointed - 10/2/2009 6:57:13 AM

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Wow! You seek female domination but you have those little misogynistic gems in that little rant. Take the asshat off, it is messing up your hair-do.

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ORIGINAL: seeksBBW2serve

quote:

first...i have been communicating with Elipsis back and forth, as we share the same hometown. In my opinion you are totally wrong about him. Hopefully he will not address your comments, as they are too ignorant for a response.

Secondly, i can clearly see why you have had no luck on this sight.

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: seeksBBW2serve

quote:

ORIGINAL: Elipsis

You figured it out. Those people don't exist. None. Zero.

You are the only person in on this web site who is looking for that. Probably the world.

I'm actually in on the cynical ploy. I saw that the only real person on earth signed up here and followed you a few months later just to be a part of the elaborate facade designed to disappoint you.

An interesting reply, and as you were the first, second, third yawn', etc to take the time to reply I will answer you.
So I had a look at your profile, and yes it is long and detailed, but for all that you’re still on your own, i wonder why? So let’s have a look. The photo is a bit creepy. I can see where you are coming from; you are trying for that cool John Lennon look. Unfortunately, on you it just gives you the creepy serial killer one. Plus- Anyone who hides their eyes behind dark glasses is seen as just a little creepy,, rather than cool.
So let me take a stab here at who you are. At school, you were a nerd, one of the out crowd. No friends only other nerds. And if you did go to your school prom it was probably alone. You work in 'IT,' probably in an office where everyone treats you as a goffa, and the girls snigger at you behind your back. I would guess you are probably still a virgin, unless of course you pay for it. So you joined this site in desperation and in the hope there might just be someone on here with such low self esteem that they might actually go out with you, and you, and if their sad enough, oops sorry, i meant sub enough you might actually get some sex..
So how close am I, I bet you can almost see yourself in my description, Uncanny or what?

first...i have been communicating with Elipsis back and forth, as we share the same hometown. In my opinion you are totally wrong about him. Hopefully he will not address your comments, as they are too ignorant for a response.

Secondly, i can clearly see why you have had no luck on this sight.

You live in the same home town, Share an interest, Correspond? So why have you never met?
And he was the one who had a hissing fit at my post and made things just a little personal. I was simply stating that most of the people on this site are either Pro- Domme's (Prostitutes to you and me. or simply fantasists, and that very few actually live the life in the way i see it. You have in fact proved my point by stating you live in the same town as Elipses, but have never felt inclined to meet him. Why.

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RE: Disappointed - 10/2/2009 7:03:49 AM

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You live in the same home town, Share an interest, Correspond? So why have you never met?
And he was the one who had a hissing fit at my post and made things just a little personal. I was simply stating that most of the people on this site are either Pro- Domme's (Prostitutes to you and me. or simply fantasists, and that very few actually live the life in the way i see it. You have in fact proved my point by stating you live in the same town as Elipses, but have never felt inclined to meet him. Why.

From reading your profile and journal I agree with you that it is possible that few live the life in the way you see it. You mention in your profile that no woman would want you as a sex slave, lover, boyfriend or even as a friend and that as a sub you are not looking for any of those things. The difficulty may be that a lot of women are looking for those things, not only for a submissive or slave but also for someone who will be their friend and lover etc.

A lot of people here meet in real life, I am thankful to have met a number of people from here that are now friends of mine and I hope to meet many more but rather than relying solely on CM I go to local events and meet people that way.

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RE: Disappointed - 10/2/2009 7:26:17 AM

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...very few actually live the life in the way i see it.

I have to wonder if this quoted statement above is the root of your problem. I believe you will find that few people live "the life" the way you see it and instead live the way that's right for them. Why do you feel the need to judge which is right or wrong? What was your original purpose for starting this thread? It seems to me that you want to prove people wrong...in your eyes and by your standards...instead of trying to be open to new ideas.

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RE: Disappointed - 10/2/2009 8:32:18 AM

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You have in fact proved my point by stating you live in the same town as Elipses, but have never felt inclined to meet him. Why.

Perhaps because they both have lives that prevent insta-meets?

As far as the photo of Elipsis that you criticized, I personally find it intriguing....

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RE: Disappointed - 10/2/2009 8:49:57 AM

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I like Ellipsis' photo. Shows individuality. Creepy... now, I can show you some creepy...

OP, there are several sites that cater to fat chicks (and I use that term since I am one) and maybe you should check one out. I have some SSBBW friends who have great good luck in that realm.

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RE: Disappointed - 10/2/2009 1:27:38 PM

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I know that there are many Big Beautiful Women out there but I have never see a Big Handsome Men's group.... At one time I weighed nearly 500 pounds when I topped out at 475... I said to myself that there was NO WAY I was going to weigh a quarter of a ton... I did not look for a diet... I made one up based on my native heritage and the strength of 4s...

In six months I lost 100 pounds... I then paused the diet because my doctor said I had sent my system into shock and I needed to slow down or I would collapse. Over the next six months I gained back 25 pounds. At that point I altered my original diet and went back onto it. Since then I have lost that 25 again and over 100 more... I am now down to 270... I still want to lose at least another 70 pounds and maybe another 90, as the charts say I should be 180... My biggest disappointment in this weight loss is that I am very obviously goint to have that EXTRA skin that heavy people who lose their weight fast get.

Oh well... I can try working on that... maybe I can even get insurance to help remove it... But right now I am more worried and disappointed because now I actually have to slow my weight loss even more because I am fighting Cancer. and I have to make sure that my weight loss is my diet and not the cancer. There have even been a few months that I have gained back a few pounds... (I have been fluctuating between 290 and 275 for six months and only recently dropped below that to hit 270)

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RE: Disappointed - 10/3/2009 2:24:57 AM

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You live in the same home town, Share an interest, Correspond? So why have you never met?
And he was the one who had a hissing fit at my post and made things just a little personal. I was simply stating that most of the people on this site are either Pro- Domme's (Prostitutes to you and me. or simply fantasists, and that very few actually live the life in the way i see it. You have in fact proved my point by stating you live in the same town as Elipses, but have never felt inclined to meet him. Why.

well duh...maybe because i no longer live there?

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