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What's a good offer? - 10/7/2009 8:46:37 PM

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So a dom friend of mine are meeting up for the weekend. He says he's got some new ideas, but he wont give me any damn hints!! LoL. I'm curious and I've tried bargaining with him but all it did was amuse him more. Go figure. He says he might consider giving me a hint about his new ideas if I offer or barter something creatively interesting. I'm looking for what might be a good idea, because I tried and he didn't like my ideas. He's probably not going to give me a hint anyways but I'd like to throw some ideas at him to see what he says. LoL. What have you got for me? It has to be creative!! Because one of the reasons he and I love playing with each other is we always do crazy stuff and have a good time. We like to keep it new and interesting. But I'm drawing a blank...haha.

RE: What's a good offer? - 10/7/2009 9:25:31 PM

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Patience is a virtue, offer him your virtue. Surrender, and accept that it is for him to know, and you to find out in real time.

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 4:49:07 AM

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No suggestions alas. I've found that being thrown vague hints/warnings just makes me so anxious we wind up having to cancel the play date. These days he either tells me if there's something he wants me to wear or do, or he just does it. I can't deal with the worry.

But if nothing you offer is going to be good enough, why bother? If he won't keep his word, why should you do your part.

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 8:15:21 AM

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It's not worrisome to me. It's just something playful he and I do before we actually get together. I give him goofy offers and he gives me goofy answers. I'm just out of ideas for the moment. It's just out of fun, it's not about patience; it entertains him when I pester him for hints. It's fairly entertaining to me as well. And it's not about keeping to his word, either. It's what I call a conversation of maybe's and what he calls a non-conversation.

This was supposed to be lightheared, jeez...

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 8:25:19 AM

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It's not worrisome to me. It's just something playful he and I do before we actually get together. I give him goofy offers and he gives me goofy answers. I'm just out of ideas for the moment. It's just out of fun, it's not about patience; it entertains him when I pester him for hints. It's fairly entertaining to me as well. And it's not about keeping to his word, either. It's what I call a conversation of maybe's and what he calls a non-conversation.

This was supposed to be lightheared, jeez...

Sounds fun and like how Val and I interact. How silly and random do you like it? You could offer to store one of his favorite candy bars in an unusual place and then show up with it (wrapped) in the leg of a tall boot. Turn your breasts into a peanut-butter and jelly sandwich by smearing the spreads on them?

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 9:02:38 AM

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LoL. Now see? That made me laugh. We've never really done anything with food, although it can get silly and random regardless. It is a lot of fun. We're meeting up in a very remote location. Literally a house out in the middle of nowhere. Just us, the house, and my dog for the weekend, lol.

So pretty much I have the rest of today to come up with something to say "hey I'll do/give you this, in exchange for a hint." Maybe he will, maybe he wont. Sometimes he does, sometimes he doesn't. Sometimes he says completely ridiculous stuff like "it'll involve sex." Which is pretty obvious. Hence the more creative and enticing my offer is the better hint I'll probably get.

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 9:09:20 AM

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Ooo oooo - you could lay down on the bed, put your legs *almost* together and line up some yummy chocolates between them. That would get me anyway... lol

I'm on a food kick today it seems. Umm... something non-food related... Ooo! Offer to turn your stomach into a checkerboard with markers and then play a game with him!

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 9:16:33 AM

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I think if this were your game of checkers you'd use something like chocolate syrup for the board and candies for game pieces. LoL.

We've never played any board game or card game or anything like that, this should make for an interesting offer...LoL.

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 9:23:41 AM

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What about a barter or exchange of a senses-bath ritual??
Dress in a greek toga(sheet)

Use petals...lavender oil..bath him...shave him..towel him and dry him..get remaining wet off with tongue..
Have a glass of wie ready.his fav music...incense..
LEad him to the tub with his bathrobe in your teeth
Undress him with your teeth
Paint words of endearment on your breasts with chocolate..
Make sure and hang those babies out him to lick his chocolate while you bath him.

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 9:25:25 AM

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I think if this were your game of checkers you'd use something like chocolate syrup for the board and candies for game pieces. LoL.

That is such a good idea... now if only I could Val into playing with food...

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 1:48:58 PM

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Your profile states "Watersports" as a Hard Limit. Thus, tell him he can pee-you-up if he's willing to give up the goods, or at least some of the goods!!!

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 2:30:33 PM

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WR,

It may be a little late for this weekend, but you could do what a sub friend of mine enjoyed this weekend. Offer to wear a chain chastity belt and send him the key. It is just two pieces of chain held together in back by a heavy duty zip-strip and then using one piece of the chain as a regular belt and the other piece of chain strung between your legs and then lock all the ends together. Lock the chain before you leave the house and see how happy you are when you arrive at his house and he has the key around his neck. Of course this only works if you can drive to his house, do not try getting on an airplane with this "fashion accessory"! LOL

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 2:52:20 PM

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Watch the movie, Piano with Keitel and whoever, think of whats a good offer to a man.

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 3:40:20 PM

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And then when you piss him off, he'll cut your finger off.

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 3:41:55 PM

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action, consequence

risk, reward

don't piss a motherfucker off, shortfingers

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 3:55:32 PM

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Smack him upside the back of his head.~ Your Offer: He is safe from further attacks if he complies.
Take a set of vice grips. Place the vice part around one or both testis and start to squeeze and see how fast he spills the beans.Your Offer: Immediate relief from further excruciating pain.

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/8/2009 5:06:00 PM

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Draw up a little card... "The bearer of this card is entitled to one anything, redeemable upon demand."

At least, Carol and I had great fun betting "anythings" back and forth.. we still do. And you gotta admit, "anything" is a pretty tempting offer. Of course, the issue here is you gotta trust the guy with literally anything *laughs*.

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/11/2009 6:45:54 PM

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FR to OP re OP

Smack him upside the back of his head.~ Your Offer: He is safe from further attacks if he complies.

Take a set of vice grips. Place the vice part around one or both testis and start to squeeze and see how fast he spills the beans.Your Offer: Immediate relief from further excruciating pain.

I like these.

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/12/2009 12:33:44 AM

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Just a variation of the Don Vito Corleone technique I'm thinking. make em an offer they can't refuse. Works for me every time.

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RE: What's a good offer? - 10/12/2009 2:49:35 AM

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So a dom friend of mine are meeting up for the weekend. He says he's got some new ideas, but he wont give me any damn hints!! LoL. I'm curious and I've tried bargaining with him but all it did was amuse him more. Go figure. He says he might consider giving me a hint about his new ideas if I offer or barter something creatively interesting. I'm looking for what might be a good idea, because I tried and he didn't like my ideas. He's probably not going to give me a hint anyways but I'd like to throw some ideas at him to see what he says. LoL. What have you got for me? It has to be creative!! Because one of the reasons he and I love playing with each other is we always do crazy stuff and have a good time. We like to keep it new and interesting. But I'm drawing a blank...haha.

He likes to play games.... So ante up and play back - for women, playing hard to get tends to grab a male's attention and alter strategy accordingly. And it need have nothing to do with who's in control as long as you're "playing" hard to get.

Focus.

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