Arturas
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ORIGINAL: Arturas This is the way I see it. Star is a woman. During our short malfunction of a day or two, she felt abandoned and could have taken one or more of these very common options: - Eaten loads of ice cream.
- Eaten loads of ice cream and chocolates.
- Found me and cut if off with the hunting knife she gave me months ago..
- Sent some cryptic cmail and then blocked me, "ouch".
- Started fresh with a new userid and "new life".
I am very glad she chose only option 5 and that is not a spin. Well done star of my life. Arturas Hello Arturas, You seem to have conveniently forgotten that your star also deliberately deceived people and lied: quote:
ORIGINAL: waitingforMaster Hello and greetings to all; I am new to the message boards Frankly, I don't think anyone would have blinked about her changing profiles or what not if she had not done the above. THAT had nothing to do with you or with your relationship. That was her relationship with the people here, people who trusted her to be who she says she is - warts and all. You see, many of us have had troubles, difficulties, horrors even and brought them to these boards, to the people we are close to. We have aired our dirty laundry because there is a certain peace in confession. This we would have understood and supported her in. But that is not what she did. She lied to us... on purpose. No spin will change that. I often say that people will forgive mistakes of technique (switching profiles) but they do not forgive mistakes of the heart (deliberately deceiving people). If you think that her behavior is commendable, then you do truly deserve each other. Good luck, sunshine Yes. I see now that she personally decieved you and why you wanted to help me see the truth of things. Sunshinemiss, with these beautiful words you have brought the truth and light into my life that apparently I sorely missed with star. I see now what a fool I am to love her. For now I see from your words that love means I should trash her, right? But you know that from your love, right? It is all clear to me now. You are truly in a position to judge her and me. Finally, thank you so much for bringing this light and wisdom into all our lives. You are such a beautiful woman inside and out. Arturas
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